I went to our local bathhouse that had their Cumunion party last night. I am much more of a voyeur for bb fucking so far and though a very hot idea, I always end up using condoms. The "party" goes on along with the regular bathhouse business in the same space, so probably a mix of party people and regular business. I got a room.
After sucking one guy for awhile, the guy fucked me (who by wrist strap indicated top) partway through the condom was intact but at some point, the condom broke.
I am trying to judge my risks. We had not discussed status or condoms before hand. He was the one who went to put on a condom before I had to say anything (though it was on tight). After it happened, I asked him if he was neg and if he came. He said he was neg and he did not cum. As far as I could tell, there was not cum in my ass either.
I know there are a number of scenarios. He did it purposely being positive assuming I'd ask for a condom at some point and then made it break, he is positive and was trying to protect me, or he is neg and did not want to catch anything himself.
I am trying to figure my risks. I have seen averages quoted on thebody of 5 in 1000 with a known positive partner. I know there is PEP but don't have the money for it (guessing $600-1000) and no insurance.
Since he grabbed the condom without asking is there a good chance he's told the truth about being negative? What is everyone's thought?
