He wanted it bare, right?

[bbinbpark]

Hooked up with a bud of mine tonight that we have not really fucked bare, but I've gotten the feeling he was willing to try. Told me once he only fucks bare with guys he's dating etc. Tonight at my place when I grab the lube I grab some condoms and have them together. We end up him fucking bare. When we're cleaning up afterwards he notices the condoms and makes a comment, if I had told him they were there he would have used them. If that was such a big concern would he have not asked for condoms before he plunged into my hole?

I think he 'secretly' wants to BB, last time we fucked after he took off the condom he 'teased' my hole a bit just before he came, did push the head in bare for a bit, but not full on fuck. Know that a guy I used to fuck bare has been fucked by him, though I don't know if they BB'd

[GermanFucker]

Not wanting to sound snarky, but: What's your point?

EVERY man wants to fuck bareback, it's mainly a question of creating the right circumstances to have doubters go for it.

[hungry_hole]

I agree. Wanting raw sex is just normal and I don't think it means that someone is poz or is not poz or wants to be poz.

[slowfuck]

When we're cleaning up afterwards he notices the condoms and makes a comment, if I had told him they were there he would have used them. If that was such a big concern would he have not asked for condoms before he plunged into my hole?

I think he 'secretly' wants to BB, last time we fucked after he took off the condom he 'teased' my hole a bit just before he came, did push the head in bare for a bit, but not full on fuck. Know that a guy I used to fuck bare has been fucked by him, though I don't know if they BB'd

I'd think he wants to fuck bare but is afraid of disapproval. His comment on the unused condoms was so you wouldn't think he does it all the time. A plain talking chat should clear it up. My opinion anyway.

[PissPigBrooklyn]

Not only did he want to fuck bare apparently from your post he did fuck bare. Had he not wanted to fuck raw he would have asked for or insisted upon condoms. have you told him you prefer it raw? It seems to me that he is taking the lead actions here.