New relationship... seeking some insight!

[bbaddict]

Hey guys! Well, about 3 months ago I recently started seeing someone regularly. You could classify us as an intergenerational couple with myself being the younger of the two of us. He bottoms and I top... and we always fuck bareback. Here's my question though... I love to top BB and before starting to see him I would frequent the hookup sites for some anonymous bottoms accepting loads. It's also so hot to walk in, unzip, huff some poppers, and dump some seed into a stranger's cunt. Now that I'm in a monogamous relationship I no longer can participate in my "favorite past times" but those "past times" are what gets me the hottest!!!

Any suggestions on how I can incorporate my previous raw encounters into the sex with my partner? Just FYI, this should not involve anyone else but him and I; and I am not interested continuing my anonymous hookups behind his back.

He's plenty familiar with bareback. In fact, the verbal often includes "gimme your babies," "cum inside me," "give me your load," etc. And he loves to have my cum in his ass, as he makes sure to tell me after we're done fucking how good it feels "to have my swimmers up his gut and coating his insides."

Is it strange that bareback sex is different with a partner that you have genuine feelings for?

Just looking to get some insight, suggestions, etc. Thanks guys!

[NastyRigPig]

Well, set things up as if he's an anonymous cum dump. Text him "lights out, ass lubed ad ready for my hot jizz you slut"

Do it in different locales: If there's a relatively safe cruisy park, tell him to be there at a certain time ready to take you scum deep in his guts.

Meat him in an ABS and wash his rectum in white through a glory hole.

Lots of ideas.

[einathens]

ask hum to tell you about favorite BB experiences in his past. tell him you want to recreate some of them for him. this will probably urge him to ask you about yours, and then you recreate those.

do you guywatch & dish when you're out and about together? one 'that guy is hot-- i'd love to help him breed your ass!' might open the door to the two of you playing together with others, if that's what you want and you both agree.

if not, you have plenty of hot memories in the spankbank.

[not_sure_bb]

a 3some with him and another BB bottom ?

[Guest Deviant_Angel]

Well, set things up as if he's an anonymous cum dump. Text him "lights out, ass lubed ad ready for my hot jizz you slut"

Do it in different locales: If there's a relatively safe cruisy park, tell him to be there at a certain time ready to take you scum deep in his guts.

Meat him in an ABS and wash his rectum in white through a glory hole.

Lots of ideas.

Agreed.. role play goes a long way in a long term relationship. Also, if you do get the itch or feel like you need something, don't be afraid to be honest about it with your partner. A good bf will recognize that honesty is the most important of keeping the integrity of a relationship and who knows once you tell him your fantasy or itch to do something where it will lead and bond you closer together.

[domnhard]

I'll agree with you agreeing, deviant. Especially about bringing your desires to your partner. And be clear that what you're asking for is real; - something you actually want/need/desire greatly to have done, and not just casual fantasy or pillow talk that's forgotten quickly after the play stops. And you say your partner is older. So, he might have lots of other things on the go like career or whatever. Don't be afraid to offer gentle reminders. He might appreciate the help and recognize the interest you're showing in your shared sexual well-being.

Agreed.. role play goes a long way in a long term relationship. Also, if you do get the itch or feel like you need something, don't be afraid to be honest about it with your partner. A good bf will recognize that honesty is the most important of keeping the integrity of a relationship and who knows once you tell him your fantasy or itch to do something where it will lead and bond you closer together.

[hungry_hole]

Sexual role playing with a boyfriend may be fun but to be honest, I rather have real anon sex with strangers.

[domnhard]

Sexual role playing with a boyfriend may be fun but to be honest, I rather have real anon sex with strangers.

Do you have a BF, hungry? If so, how do you square that fact with your preference?

[hungry_hole]

Do you have a BF, hungry? If so, how do you square that fact with your preference?

I'm in a relationship but sex is not part of it.

I prefer having sex by myself, masturbating watching porn. If I include anyone else I like it to be in an anonymous setting because that way it feels to me as if I'm having sex by myself. Impersonal/Anonymous sex to me is masturbation enhanced by the presence of other male bodies. It would be difficult to replicate this with someone I knew because then it wouldn't be sex by myelf.

[TxBBTop]

i agree with nastyrigpig... Set it up where he finds a safe location and then you arrange to meet there for a certain time and you can pretend to "walk by" and see him naked, bent over hungry for a load. or even have him go to a certain room in an ABS and be bent over at a certain time. Then u can walk in and breed his hole also might be hot if he accidently gets bred by another guy thinking its you, and when u slide inside him he is already preloaded... you know you might be upset at first but it would make for some HOT sex

[NiceHard1]

I think you need to know what it is that you really is - the role play, or the other anonymous guys.

If it is the activity, then discuss that with your partner and come up with a good mutually agreeable plan.

If it is the other guys that you miss, then discuss that with your partner and come up with a good mutually agreeable plan.

Hmmm...funny how it always comes back to good communication about needs.

[CreamDream]

Yep. Talk about it as much as possible