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I used to feel marginalized for being poz, even in my hot-bear 30s. Turning 50 I thought I had a double strike against me. Then I discovered that guys want me as a daddy. Totally opened my eyes and I love exploring that new side of me and the guys it attracts. And obviously now there's a culture out there that no longer fears but understands, even covets, being poz. I'm more turned on now by mature guys who can deal with the real world and real men, and it makes for a deeper connection I think, even for a quick fuck. I don't pursue younger 20- or 30-somethings and don't bother with them on online sites,but if they want a daddy and a poz one at that -- and they're out there, believe me -- they got one here. Oh, and a dad type can be a hot bottom as well as top.

Amen to that, brother! I'm having more sex in my middle 50s than I had as a young man; there are plenty of men in the S.F. Bay Area who love daddies, especially one who smokes a pipe or a cigar. With the help of Chinese knock-off Viagra or trimix, I've been able to be truly versatile, and being poz allows me to fuck the way I was brought up to, either as a pitcher or catcher. Having a couple of collared boys is nice, too.

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Life is not over at 60, but it's definitely much harder to find guys to fuck or get fucked by. I agree ageism is a gay thing, at least in developed countries it is, where a number determines if a guy wants to have sex with another one, not his looks, nor his sexual skills.

I think that we have made such stupidity grow bigger and bigger, why? because everyone wants to only fuck and get fucked by barely legal guys, 18-21 yo ones. A 43 yo man is not interested in a 41 yo one, he wants to play daddy-son. A 62 yo man doesn't want to have sex with a 58 yo one, he wants to play grandpa-grandson. So, those in their 40s, 50s, 60s+ depend on younger guys with such fantasies/fetishes in order to get laid. If they were cool having sex with contemporary ones, they'd have sex every single time they want to, not having to wait weeks for that boi who is interested in his daddy/grandpa.

I feel life is about stages, when we are wayyy older than 18-low 20s, why insisting in hunting for them? I know they are hotter, more energy, etc. but what, we are no longer the same as them, life in our 40s and 50s+ is more about experiences, intensity, passion, the time of looks, attitudes, "look at me, I'm the hottest one around" is over. Nevertheless, if a young man and an old one are cool with a relationship, why not, go ahead, be happy. But, I feel most older guys take advantage of youngsters confusion, as I guess most 18 yo guys don't feel comfortable having sex, and going out with a 48+ yo man.

When I was younger I preferred guys in their late 20s to lows 30s. now I prefer them on my same age range and I am sure that it will be like that once I turn 40, 50, etc., if I get there. So, I wont be one of those bitter 40 yo+ men writing about how stupid, bitch, ignorant, etc. gays are just because I can't find a 18 yo one to fuck with.

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On 1/6/2013 at 6:40 PM, SIReast said:

any 30 and above sub/bottoms?

68 yo sub/bondage/bottom in Monmouth County . Profile off line at the moment ( my fuck up ) only way to reach me is via email. 514abmlr@protonmail.com. I have a strong fetish for Total Tops who enjoy being with eager to please subs. Nothing can come close to the thrill of being tied & securely gagged  spread eagle on a bed with a total on line stranger. What could possibly go wrong ? Love to find out. Scott

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If you live in an English speaking country, your life seems to stop by the time you are 30. Almost everyone in these countries seems to be under the spell that once you pass this threshold you are no longer desirable for sex, love, employment, partying... Let alone the fact that apps don't help with age filters. But no matter how you look, behave or intelligent or not you are, nobody seems to be interested in 30+. Anyone in these countries who's interested in relationships with a mature man, is immediately labelled as 'niche' and 'fetish'. 

It's interesting to see that even in real life if someone is interested in a man, they will ask the age and based on that will decide if they are a good fuck or not. 

I have travelled the world, and nobody in Middle East, Africa, South and Central America, Mexico and Quebec in North America, Europe (except England) or Asia will ask my age. They judge my like-ability based on how i look like, my behaviour, and how attractive, or not, someone finds me. (To be fair, in Oz and NZ they ask me if i know how to shear a sheep too LOL).

As someone put it a few years back, 'I'm fucking your ass not the photo page of your passport". 

 

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Struggling with the other’s age is the stupidest thing. I know it’s a real issue and I met this too many times. For me the chemistry and the personality the most important. There are some other rather tiny components, sometimes it depends on the mood.
And I had tragic sex with young magazine cover boy because “There wasn't enough life on his ice cube body to fill a space cruiser.” (Let me paraphrase Han Solo in ESB) 😂 and I had one of the bests with a 60+ guy. 
 

Adding my observations to this topic, let me share with you two things. First, this age issue comes rather from the 30-40 age group who doesn’t want to have sex with the same age but always look for the twinks. Second, I have never been so popular among the under 30 age group (even when I belonged to them) as now. I have lot of 18-25 years old fan who keep me under siege for fucking them. 😈
 

 

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I'm over 60 and have 3 regular fuckbuds. A 25 yo, Asian poz bottom, a 50 year old married Indian bottom who cheats on his husband and a 22 year old versatile black guy with a nice 7.5" dick. I have sex at least 2x per week, always bareback and always satisfying

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2 hours ago, Marlin said:

I'm over 60 and have 3 regular fuckbuds. A 25 yo, Asian poz bottom, a 50 year old married Indian bottom who cheats on his husband and a 22 year old versatile black guy with a nice 7.5" dick. I have sex at least 2x per week, always bareback and always satisfying

That is hot! Also inspiring. I wish I was just a little closer to Erie! 

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I prefer more mature men almost exclusively. I'm currently 42, and all my regulars are in their 50s and 60s, with the exception of one in his 30s (I can't honestly say he's a regular, he's partnered to one of my regulars who's 62 and the two of them play either alone or together so sometimes I get them both, but I can't think that I've ever hooked up with the young buck alone).

I think the oldest man who ever fucked me was 78 or 79, I was in my 20s at the time. I swear, gramps fucked me almost to the point of feeling like I was being raped. God bless that man, it's been decades and that night still lives rent free in my mind. I can almost still feel those low sagging old man balls swinging and slapping my backside as he went at it. Those tanks must have held an awful lot because I leaked the whole way home.

It's not a man's age or his body type that's sexy. It's not the size of his cock, either. It's whether or not he knows how to breed a hole.

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On 10/18/2024 at 9:51 AM, pozlvr27 said:

68 yo sub/bondage/bottom in Monmouth County . Profile off line at the moment ( my fuck up ) only way to reach me is via email. 514abmlr@protonmail.com. I have a strong fetish for Total Tops who enjoy being with eager to please subs. Nothing can come close to the thrill of being tied & securely gagged  spread eagle on a bed with a total on line stranger. What could possibly go wrong ? Love to find out. Scott

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Yes, I'd love to do that with a stranger,  being under his control 😵

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On 10/18/2024 at 7:47 PM, Marlin said:

I'm over 60 and have 3 regular fuckbuds. A 25 yo, Asian poz bottom, a 50 year old married Indian bottom who cheats on his husband and a 22 year old versatile black guy with a nice 7.5" dick. I have sex at least 2x per week, always bareback and always satisfying

You need one more hole😵

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