20yo first time steamworks

[tomm]

I'm interested in going to steamworks and was wondering how it works and what do u do. I'm open to anything

[tomm]

What's the chance I'll be converted poz

[rawTOP]

I see in your profile you're vers and OK with becoming poz… So, with those parameters there are some basic things you should know about bathhouses…

First off, go when it's busy. Weekend nights are best - Friday, Saturday and to a lesser degree Sunday. Find out if the bathhouse has a 1/2 off special, etc. during the week - often that can be a good time to go as well.

Second, laying on your belly nude or in a jockstrap means you wanna get fucked. Head towards the door means you wanna suck before getting fucked. Head away from the door means sucking dick isn't important to you (though you may still do it - but just to get the top hard enough to fuck).

Of course, you need a room to be able to lay on your belly. So always get a room.

I always find it hot when the bottom never looks back to see who's fucking him and just keeps his face buried in the pillow. But that can be counterproductive. A lot of tops need encouragement to know it's OK to enter - that you want them to fuck you.

Next, there will be condoms in your room (or one will be given to you when you go in). Just thrown them in the garbage or under your mattress. Laying on your belly with no condoms in sight makes it clear you want to get fucked raw.

Unfortunately some tops will carry their own condoms around with them. Always reach back to make sure there's no condom on when the top starts fucking you. Often when you refuse the condom guys will just take it off and fuck you raw, so don't think saying 'no' is the end of sex with that guy. And don't assume he's neg 'cause he's using a condom. Often poz tops feel weird about breeding guys so they rubber up, but as soon as they know it's OK they'll totally get off breeding you.

It's not a bad idea to make it clear you want the load in your ass since some guys may pull out to cum. But realize that if you way "Cum in my ass" they may think you said "Don't cum in my ass". Phrases like "Gimme that load" or "Breed me!" are less likely to be confused in the heat of the moment.

Otherwise just relax and enjoy the experience. Don't concern yourself with whether you're going to become poz that night - it'll happen soon enough if you keep going.

As far as topping while you're there… Be assertive, but not aggressive. So if you like what you see, start to enter the room. If the guy shakes his head 'no' - don't think anything of it - just go on your way.

And don't forget to check out the public areas of the club - steamrooms, slings, etc.

Have fun!

[Yourslave2386]

I've been there, and it's awesome.

Essentially, you'll go in and they will ask what kind if package you want. You can just get a locker, or any various rooms (standard, standard with TV, bigger room, room with sling, etc). I recommend getting a room...perhaps with a TV so you can play porn.

Once you get your room, go find it. The place is pretty much maze, so as you look for it try to keep track of where things are...bathrooms, glory hole rooms, etc. Once you get to your room, take off your clothes and put on the towel provided.

From here, you can do whatever you want. I would always take that moment to look around...hit up the hot tub and sauna...suck a few cocks in the glory hole rooms. You might find a stud you might want to bring back to your room, or you might not.

Rawtop is right about lying on your belly. That was always my favorite way to get fucked there....just lying in anticipation of my first fuck of the night.

Go and have fun. Feel free to always say "no".

[Guest GoodExercise]

I will take you to Steamworks and show you the ropes. Email me on here or BBRT

[Bttm2go]

When I lived in Chicago, I always went to Steamworks on Mondays--discount day. Always busy and fun. Just relax and have fun. You'll love it.

[fuckrogerbb]

Don't just say no, say no thank you. People can be so rude. If someone wants to have sex with you they are paying you a compliment. If you aren't interested say no, thank you. You should appreciate the compliment!

[Bttm2go]

Good point. There is no room to be nasty at the bathhouse. A no, thank you is generally respected. However, don't say no to everyone. I have said yes to guys I would nomally turn down and have been rewarded with amazing sex. The bathhouse is a great place to expand your horizon. Try to be more open. Just have fun.

[Bottom Jim]

I have been several times. Whenever I go to Chicago I go there. I rent a room and lay on my stomach ass in the air. It takes patience but I always get two or three guys who fuck me. They never ask about condoms. They assume that I will take it raw. Of course I will

[slutalex]

I have been several times. Whenever I go to Chicago I go there. I rent a room and lay on my stomach ass in the air. It takes patience but I always get two or three guys who fuck me. They never ask about condoms. They assume that I will take it raw. Of course I will

yeah totally! i hate it when a guy at the baths asks for a condom - turns me off big time! sometimes i tell myself... okay well you're just too fucking hot so fuck me with a condom... DOES NOT HAPPEN OFTEN! but mostly i turn down guys that are not into BB and seeding my hole..