Using apps to find other guys or using your body language and sexuality instead?

[ErosWired]

Honestly - thank God for the apps or I would never get fucked. I have zero cruising instinct and am utterly oblivious to anyone coming on to me. Of course it could also be that no one ever has, and I wouldn’t recognize it if it actually happened, but I think I would be clueless either way. I like to imagine there’s a sort of innocent-abroad charm about me that could be attractive, but it’s probably more likely that I come across to the average cruiser as simply a little too odd for fuckability.

So, skipping the interpersonal minefield altogether in favor of casting a broad net, I put my best asset (ahem) forward in the app, be as brazen as I would never dare one-on-one, and take what comes along. It works for me because I’m not looking for a relationship - for me, the worst possible risk isn’t an STD, it’s some guy deciding he’s falling for me. Trust me, guy, I’m not the one you want.

[Guest]

No apps.  For me it’s all about the cruise.  I get cruised all the time and when I see someone I want, I can cruise like a pro. 🙂. I need that physical connection.  Of course I have met guys on line too but with less success.  I met Riverfk on here, and one of these days, we will fuck.

[Riverfk]

16 minutes ago, DannyBoyCMH said:

No apps.  For me it’s all about the cruise.  I get cruised all the time and when I see someone I want, I can cruise like a pro. 🙂. I need that physical connection.  Of course I have met guys on line too but with less success.  I met Riverfk on here, and one of these days, we will fuck.

That's true sexy boy, I'm a skilled cruiser too, just returned from successful mission. Maybe we'll have an audience😈.

[Guest POZitiveBoyZ]

LoL 😁 I'd prefer to not using apps and my gay radar is well working, believe me 😈 but honestly I will prefer to not doing something what someone is waiting of me LoL As I'm told before a lot trying to teach me in a pressure method is not a good deal LoL "My Life My Rules" means you MUST stop this game IMMEDIATELY cuz I prefer to make decisions by myself LoL 😜 When the game is stopped and I will hear and feel some apology then all of you will see the result and get what you want. There's absolutely No any compromises to me. Peace ✌️

[Kayne]

Honestly, 

I miss the pre smartphone / internet crusing days. I miss Teavrooms, ddubwaybtunnrldvvand platforms, church basement bathrooms and wooded areas. I feel like the ease and convenience of apps and  broader mainstream sensibilities have eroded an art unique to Gay men

But that's only my opinion.