What is the Worst Reaction You've Received to Disclosing Your Status?

[seaguy]

My worst reaction I was told "You need to be voted off the Island" like we're on survivor. He was cute as hell dumb as a post.

Even now It never surprises me when guys are just clueless as the difference between AIDS and being HIV+. There is a major difference as those are two different conditions.

@ Jtonic, I'm sorry your having a struggle with all this, I believe this is why this site was created. If you ever wanna vent hit me up, more then happy to listen/chat with a fellow POZ guy.

@Site Admonistrators, thanks for starting the site.

Voted off the Island WTF?  I would have said you should have been aborted ass hole and blocked the fucker.

[seaguy]

Met this great neg guy about a month ago, I disclosed I was Poz and not on meds, he fucked me anyway.  Started meeting regular, was even talking about a potential LTR

 

Then one night he suddenly blocks me on FB, Whats-App, Phone everything.  No reason given, the previous night we were chatting normally the next day I wake up and I was blocked.  Was like WTF... thought fuck it I'm going round to get the blister pack of Viagra I gave him and the poppers.  He relents and we discuss meeting for a drink to talk but he can't because he has 'an appointment he cant cancel'.  So talked to him after that appointment and it turns out that he thought I was undetectable because I wasn't on meds (WTF???).  He then starts going crazy at me for being poz and how he is fucking up his life seeing me, turns out the appointment was the GUM clinic.  The fact I put my dick in him on his insistence was suddenly my fault (i hate topping, and never cum from it, I only do it if I really want to please someone).  His profile on recon was 'needs discussion' and he 'never used rubbers'.

 

Basically I was up front and open about my status he assumed all sorts of things that if he had asked me I would have told him were not true.  It surprised me really because he was 20 years older and had BB'd his way through the 80's and was a very intelligent guy - we used to discuss continental philosophy and stuff in bed after fucking, it was one of the things I liked best about him, his intelligence (OK and his 10 inch penis!!).

 

Anyway the short and tall of it is that he blocked me again and I doubt I'll see him again.  The moral of the story is even when you are honest if a neg guy has a hard cock he'll probably overlook your status until he has blown his load a few times, then he'll kick you to the curb and tell you its your own fault.

Not all neg guys are fuckers like this guy is.  Obviously he has a lack of education when it comes to HIV and he has issues dealing with things that are unpleasant to him hence blocking you instead of communicating with you.  And he is some kind of delusional person if he thinks that it is your fault that he was freaking out all the sudden because you told him your status. But I just want to reiterate not all neg guys are like that.  I hope he was hot because he seems to lack some things in mental department.  Your better without him.

[SFPOINTMan]

I went on a couple of dates last year after being coupled for 20 years! My poz status wasn't an issue 20 years ago. I'm still a good looking guy and in both cases the guys panicked and never called back! I said to myself WTF this is San Francisco and you haven't thought through the possibility that almost hang the gay men in SF are poz? So now I just go online and hook up once in awhile with fun party boys who don't care about poz/neg BS!

Now if your question what's to go to the awful meds that are marketed as EASY to take we can talk!