bigdick4you Posted April 25, 2014 Report Share Posted April 25, 2014 Have this FWB for almost 2 years now. We have been bf but it didn't work out.... So our relationship changed. I like this guy very much in and out of the sheets.. Our relationship has always been kind of turbulent. I can be kind of jealous when he flirts with other guys when we go out. Normally I'm not jealous with other guys.... Think it kind of am with him as he makes me feel kind of insecure.. I never know where I stand with him...eg. He doesn't take my loads orally while I know he does with others....the other day we had an argument about something totally silly and it developed into much more. Suddenly he started over analyzing our relationship and there were lots of emails back and forth.... I finally told him I wanted it all more simplefied....wanted us to be good friends that slept together and with others but no jealousy.... Now he suddenly comes back to me that he wants us to be platonic friends for a while and that he wants us to hook up with other guys but seperately from each other...the thing is that when we r together I pay for everything, like hotels,tickets, meals and other stuff...I feel like I would be kind of abused if I would pay for stuff and get no sex in return while mean time he would hook up with others...am I'm being a dick about this or is he taking advantage? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JizzDumpWI Posted April 25, 2014 Report Share Posted April 25, 2014 Stop paying for everything... 50/50 or nothing. If then he doesn't want to be friends you have your answer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigdick4you Posted April 25, 2014 Author Report Share Posted April 25, 2014 Stop paying for everything... 50/50 or nothing. If then he doesn't want to be friends you have your answer. The thing is that he is a student. So not much money.... But don't think it's fair that I should pick up tab for just a platonic friend... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LovesBBthemorethemerrier Posted April 26, 2014 Report Share Posted April 26, 2014 Tell him to get a job. He is using you as a meal ticket. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbzh Posted April 26, 2014 Report Share Posted April 26, 2014 Thanks for episode 12 of this saga. It reads much like the others: (see below) Perhaps you might try updating one of the many threads you have started about this guy instead of creating a new one every time. October 2012 https://www.breedingzone.com/threads...-I-feel-guilty October 2012 https://www.breedingzone.com/threads...Is-this-normal January 2013 https://www.breedingzone.com/threads...xpect-too-much January 2013 https://www.breedingzone.com/threads...-Am-I-changing February 2013 https://breeding.zone/threads/18820-Is-it-over July 2013 https://breeding.zone/threads/21961-Moving-on August 2013 https://www.breedingzone.com/threads...-Ups-amp-downs August 2013 https://www.breedingzone.com/threads...ored-so-easily October 2013 https://www.breedingzone.com/threads...s-this-strange November 2013 https://www.breedingzone.com/threads...Still-miss-him March 2014 https://www.breedingzone.com/threads...Is-he-worth-it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigdick4you Posted April 26, 2014 Author Report Share Posted April 26, 2014 Thanks for episode 12 of this saga. It reads much like the others: (see below)Perhaps you might try updating one of the many threads you have started about this guy instead of creating a new one every time. October 2012 https://www.breedingzone.com/threads...-I-feel-guilty October 2012 https://www.breedingzone.com/threads...Is-this-normal January 2013 https://www.breedingzone.com/threads...xpect-too-much January 2013 https://www.breedingzone.com/threads...-Am-I-changing February 2013 https://breeding.zone/threads/18820-Is-it-over July 2013 https://breeding.zone/threads/21961-Moving-on August 2013 https://www.breedingzone.com/threads...-Ups-amp-downs August 2013 https://www.breedingzone.com/threads...ored-so-easily October 2013 https://www.breedingzone.com/threads...s-this-strange November 2013 https://www.breedingzone.com/threads...Still-miss-him March 2014 https://www.breedingzone.com/threads...Is-he-worth-it U r right.... I'm kind of over it myself... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators drscorpio Posted April 26, 2014 Moderators Report Share Posted April 26, 2014 U r right.... I'm kind of over it myself... I hope you are. I hate to see you tying yourself up in knots over this guy. He seems like a use. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators drscorpio Posted April 26, 2014 Moderators Report Share Posted April 26, 2014 I meant "user" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigdick4you Posted April 27, 2014 Author Report Share Posted April 27, 2014 I meant "user" I know what u meant.... Lol. No he is not a user as such.... He is bit fucked up.... But who isn't? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NLbear Posted April 27, 2014 Report Share Posted April 27, 2014 From what I am reading he is using you as a "free meal/travel ticket". If it's a platonic relationship only then it should be 50/50. I agree with JizzdumpWI and LovesBBthemorethemerrier. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigdick4you Posted April 27, 2014 Author Report Share Posted April 27, 2014 From what I am reading he is using you as a "free meal/travel ticket". If it's a platonic relationship only then it should be 50/50. I agree with JizzdumpWI and LovesBBthemorethemerrier. The thing is that from the start I paid for everything as he never had much money.... Bu we were bf then and even when we r FWB it can make sense as he is student. But now he wants to be platonic friends for a while and hook up with others while we go out together which in my opinion is bit disrespectful.... Buy hey I'm ok with that. But what I'm not prepared to do is pay for everything while I get no sexual action from him. He says that I'm not a true friend as I force him to have sex with me. And then I end up feeling like a dick.. C but I have my feelings and needs too.... Why should I pay for him if I get no action!? Doesn't make sense! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UseMe4MyBFsPleasure Posted April 27, 2014 Report Share Posted April 27, 2014 Ok well as a Bottom I have asked men to just pay airfare roundtrip to them and be able to have a place I can crash I don't need to go out and see the town or even car to eat out at nice places I am simple ham and cheese on white bread and a can of dr pepper but yes to take some ones money and not part with sex and give it up to others on the same night is wrong I had a man without asking buy me a watch as a gift very nice watch worth some real cash I did anything he wanted with no expectation that he would do anything again and he did not buy me anything again for years then out of the blue my computer crashed and he got me a new one I never cut him off I feel a good friends can loan or give you cash buy you gifts or even have sex with you in your time of need I have guys that will give me $20 for gas but will never let me suck there cock or fuck my ass when I am in heat they have cooked for me when I was sick with the flu and checked on me but when I hit a dry patch and needed a cock in ass they could not be bothered I friend is there in all times of need Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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