Dirtysouth Posted June 24, 2014 Report Share Posted June 24, 2014 So I use CL and BBRTS for almost all of my fuck hole shenanigans. I love quick pump n dumps, just a hole to dump my load in, making me and the bottom cumdump happy. BUT, in the last year, I've had three instances where I show up, bottom is on all fours hole lubed, and I just can't get hard. I eat their holes, jerk my dick... and nothing. By the end of it I am super ashamed and wonder what is wrong with me. I don't get it, and feel less of a top for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jakelc Posted June 24, 2014 Report Share Posted June 24, 2014 (edited) Don't feel bad, a good bottom will return the favour, eat your ass, suck your balls and nipples. Play with your dick and if it doesn't happen then it doesn't happen. Still lots of fun to be had even if you don't get hard. I'd have let you fist me and fill my ass with piss. Edited June 24, 2014 by rawTOP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 24, 2014 Report Share Posted June 24, 2014 that's why I look at the pics on the sight, I like to see a nice hard cock, I want to be fucked good, bareback, if he doesn't get it up, it is a total waste of time, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jcklvrga Posted June 24, 2014 Report Share Posted June 24, 2014 Thats part of the reason i mostly bottom. I just dont get reliably hard on the spot when needed to be a good top. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rawfuckr Posted June 24, 2014 Report Share Posted June 24, 2014 By the end of it I am super ashamed and wonder what is wrong with me. I don't get it, and feel less of a top for it. As a bottom it bothers me if the top can't perform. What's the point? I don't have any problem per-se with guys not being able to get hard. There are many other things that can be done sexually. But if you are advertising as a top be ready to perform. I'm assuming you've looked into it what you are not getting hard? there maybe some medical underlying condition that's making things worse. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VersatileBreeder Posted June 25, 2014 Report Share Posted June 25, 2014 I wouldn't get too down about it dude. Versatile here, and same thing has happened to me a small handful of times as a top. Though there is no way to answer your question about what is "wrong" with you over the internet, it may be worth considering the following things... What was different about the times you met with these guys? Did you feel nervous/anxious for any reason? Were you tired? Had you cum already those days you met? It's natural to be afraid erectile dysfunction is the culprit, but if you don't think it is or you feel you're not at that age yet, it can be any other factor that just put your dick into non-performance mode. Also, I'm noticing some bottoms on this thread commenting that when it comes time for them to get fucked, they expect full performance from the top and can't understand why they wouldn't get hard. My only response to that is, shit happens. No hook up is ever going to be perfect. As a top, I've had a few experiences where the hook up didn't work out because the bottom couldn't function properly. As in perhaps they weren't as cleaned out as they thought they were. Or they start taking my dick and they complain that their hole is too tight and they can't handle my dick that day, etc. So moral of the story- top or bottom, sometimes we just have our off days. Happens to the best of us. Forget about it and just move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seaguy Posted June 25, 2014 Report Share Posted June 25, 2014 Were there any similarities with the three instances that might indicate a pattern of something that is causing it? Have you tried cock rings, viagra or Cialis? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bearbandit Posted June 25, 2014 Report Share Posted June 25, 2014 Have you tested for diabetes? One of its nastier little tricks is to damage the nerve which controls blood flow to the dick; viagra was originally developed to solve this, amongst other physical problems. In the UK many pharmacies will do the test, though it's so simple if you know with someone diabetes you can do it yourself. Fast for ten hours (no food, no water, spit out any water you use to wet your mouth), a sharp prick in the finger to get a drop of blood and place the test strip in the blood to soak it up to the meter. Reading a few seconds later. A reading of over ten (old) units suggests you should see your doctor for advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rtpbbcub Posted June 25, 2014 Report Share Posted June 25, 2014 A top isn't an appliance, neither is a bottom. Just as "shit happens" to bottoms, so too does an occasional limp dick happen to tops. Fuck for fun and pleasure, or get a vibrator and stay home. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
otebbtop Posted June 25, 2014 Report Share Posted June 25, 2014 (edited) Getting so very bored with the blindfolded, on all fours, ass in the air scene. Was novel at one time but everyone has done it. I'm often left to wonder: do I say anything? do I get any deep throat action to get me going? what about flipping him to a different position? why is the only thing i notice here a picture of his mother on the nightstand? Like RTP said above, the top isn't an appliance, and neither are all tops or bottoms are created equal. If there is chemistry that makes the bottom attractive to you in the first place, then the bottom should be able to find some way to arouse you (barring any physical impedance or lack of interest on your own part). Edited June 25, 2014 by otebbtop Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest PozGoat Posted June 25, 2014 Report Share Posted June 25, 2014 I blame the bottoms. Fucking worthless holes.. My job as a vers bottom is to get my top hard. My words alone can make most tops shoot, hands free. My job is to drain balls dry. Simple. I have an entire bag of tricks to make that happen. Your balls will look like raisins when I get done.. Oink. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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