Fickloch Posted December 28, 2014 Report Share Posted December 28, 2014 I have this "problem", if you can call it that, where i'm not horny after I blow my load. I'm just totally not horny at all for at least 20 minutes after sex. I keep reading all these hot stories where guys cum swap and flip-fuck and all the rest, but I'm always eager to get out of there after my wad has gone. When I watch pornos of a guy depositing a load into another dudes ass and felching it out, honestly bit is one of the hottest things to wank to. But when it's ME depositing the load, honestly I have no interest in doing anything after I've blown. Of course about an hour later I'm back looking to to fuck again .... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bottom_gewillig Posted December 28, 2014 Report Share Posted December 28, 2014 (edited) Same thing here ;-) you're not alone, i know a lot of men who have that "problem". I guess it's just your nature... Don't know if you can do something about that Edited December 28, 2014 by bottom_gewillig Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
omboy24 Posted December 28, 2014 Report Share Posted December 28, 2014 I'm another with that exact same "problem" and the desire to get over it. Any tips anyone has who have overcome similar "issues" would be very helpful. Thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbsam Posted December 28, 2014 Report Share Posted December 28, 2014 (edited) This is an "issue" for 99% of men, it's just the way we're wired. Once we've cum, the sexual desire immediately turns off. Some have a longer "recovery" period than others, I find that for myself its about 30 mins although it does take longer for me to get a hard on if i'm trying to go again quickly after i've cum. Although that's not too much of a problem as i'm a bottom If i'm having a real dirty, piggy session I try as much as possible to make sure i'm the last member of the group to cum. That way I have no problem getting straight into the "nasty" stuff while i'm still horny as fuck. Eating spunk out of a hole, drinking gallons of piss... That's no problem while i'm still edging my cock and horny as fuck, but as everyone else has said, my desire to get involved with that sometimes dissipates after i've shot my load. You know when you're jerking off and you're determined that you're gonna eat your cum when you've shot, and then as soon as you blow that interest immediately fades? Same thing! I find that occasionally in a really intense, horny, dirty session I can carry on without a break immediately after i've cum. But about 8 out of 10 times, I do need a little bit of a recovery period. And most men are the same... Edited December 28, 2014 by samshadowxxx 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BestCatcher Posted December 28, 2014 Report Share Posted December 28, 2014 This really isn't a problem and I agree with samshadowxxx: it's just the way we as men are wired. It's how we handle the recharge time after we cum that can be sweet. If I'm 1-on-1 with a guy and whether I've cum or not, I pretty much always want to cuddle and hold my Top after he's cum in me and is spent. I find that not many guys don't like to be held. I get off on getting boned, so I like telling a Top how hot it was taking his dick. If I've cum, it usually only takes about 20 mins for me to recharge and I find that I can get my Top aroused again in 20-30 mins. That second fuck is really nice. He's got me hot, I'm way wet and my Top is fucking in his own cum. Often, even Tops that are used to blowing and going will recharge and fuck again given some time... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbsam Posted December 28, 2014 Report Share Posted December 28, 2014 I'll also say that the second orgasm in quick succession for me is usually awesome and often feels better than the first. I think thats because it's harder to achieve as it takes me longer to get a boner and my cock is still ultra-sensitive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest FinalDL2021 Posted November 8, 2019 Report Share Posted November 8, 2019 On 12/27/2014 at 9:36 PM, Fickloch said: I have this "problem", if you can call it that, where i'm not horny after I blow my load. I'm just totally not horny at all for at least 20 minutes after sex. I keep reading all these hot stories where guys cum swap and flip-fuck and all the rest, but I'm always eager to get out of there after my wad has gone. When I watch pornos of a guy depositing a load into another dudes ass and felching it out, honestly bit is one of the hottest things to wank to. But when it's ME depositing the load, honestly I have no interest in doing anything after I've blown. Of course about an hour later I'm back looking to to fuck again .... I was the same way, yet I am getting into not blowing my load through, Chastity, and conditioning/ training myself to focus my pleasure around my tops orgasm, and making my man cunt (ass) my focus of pleasure, and moving my cock out of the sexual equation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ragnar13 Posted November 8, 2019 Report Share Posted November 8, 2019 I've developed a way that works for me to overcome the sudden loss of horniness after jacking off. I change my focus from my cock to the puddles of cum. I don't try to eat it, but I rub some on my nips and work the rest into my ass, using the fingers that are already covered in jack-off slime. It keeps the nasty feelings going for me during the recovery period. Usually by the time the cum dries on my nips, I can start playing with them again, and begin feeling horny again. Something else I do is go to some exceptionally piggy porn that I didn't use while jacking off that time - group piss wallowing and drinking often does it, since I always have to piss a lot after jacking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VersAlwaysLooking Posted November 9, 2019 Report Share Posted November 9, 2019 I have a very high sex drive (blessing and curse) and I can easily keep going. Agree with what others have said about orgasms getting more intense each time. I do find it a little hard to get fucked after I've cum. However, in my experience, if I grin and bear the intensity for a minute or so, it become enjoyable again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ozpig Posted November 9, 2019 Report Share Posted November 9, 2019 My ex used to make me cum sometimes before he and other guys would fuck me. I have no problem getting fucked after cumming I have ofte4n been fucked three or four times in succession after I have come. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaysk8er86 Posted November 10, 2019 Report Share Posted November 10, 2019 I have the same problem so I try to be the last guy to cum. Love being a piggy slub when im horned. The good part is that if i wait 10-15 mins after cumming, I normally get horned again. Then I dont cum for a long time so tops love using my hole Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousone Posted November 12, 2019 Report Share Posted November 12, 2019 I used to be able to stay hard and horny after cumming in my early 20s but sadly I lost that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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