Poll - Ram It In Or Go Slow?

[Bottomhole]

Slow at first, then pump away

[Guest Bearman]

Love my hole well wet from a good rimming and then the cock sliding slowly in until I can feel the guys balls against my arse.After that am happy to take a good hard pounding until delivers his load

[travelingbutthole]

I voted for the ram but thats only because I have been recently getting interested in rough sex.

Besides I've usually spent at least 30 minutes of my journey with a lot of silicon lube and a plug in me.

That way I am ready for action as soon as I arrive.

[timm32]

Definitly go in slowly at first, then once I'm use to your dick in me pound away.

[Guest ff-whole]

When I know that I might get fucked, I clean and train to be ready for anything, anysize...

He can come in slow, as long as he goes hard and deep after that.

But because I've already prepaired myself, I will be kind of open for the ram bam thank you mam...

[HotBlkVersPig]

I think maybe some tops never got that topping is more than sticking your dick in a hole and fucking away.  Unfortunately, the larger the penis, the more awful the entry and resulting fucking can be. 

 

I always make a point to express that I like it slow in the beginning and then once I am opened......do most tops listen??  Nope.  Most think this way has worked before, so it must be a good technique.

 

Ultimately, for me at least, it boils down to communication.  If my back is rounded and not arched, if I am not pushing my ass against the dick, but moving in the opposite direction:  it might be time to reassess whether it is a joyful encounter.  The question then becomes what do you do about it???  End promptly having learned absolutely nothing?  Mentally, blame the bottom and bark more orders as if that would help?

 

Here's an idea.....switch positions.  The top needs to spend more time as a bottom....I sometimes suspect a few really are frustrated bottoms.  That way they can see/feel what I do...and I get to take out some built up frustrations (evil grin)....

[SugarWalls]

Be like the tortoise and not the hare--slow and steady wins the race every time!

[donewiththis]

It depends for me, if it's the first time a cock is entering my ass I like it slow, I like to feel the whole cock slowly stretching and filling me, my fav way for first penetration is to sit on the dick and lower my self down. Now if we've been goin a while an are switching positions, or a different person is about to start fucking me after someone else they are more than welcome to just ram it in my ass

[Guest BgchaserATX]

Personally, I like both. I love to have a Top who draws it almost all the way out them rams it in as hard as they can. But, I also love a Top who will lay down on top me, and slowly grind it in deep for hours.

[chie]

Depends if I'm loosened up, and how much time we have. If I know a guy is coming over for a quick fuck I will use a dildo for 5 minutes or so to loosen up...then he can go at me hard as soon as he gets through the door (i will be on all fours with my ass in the air as soon as he does). Also if it's multiple guys fucking me then just the first guy will have to start slow...the others as hard as they like.

[Ddawg]

I love a top that's somewhere in between. Love a top who knows to go slow enough to not let it hurt but fast enough where I'm slightly uncomfortable... Tight but not painful... I know he's in control . In this balance, my hole guides him straight to my prostate and I'm completely helpless to his use.

[Bttm2go]

I generally like it slow to savor the penetration. However, there are times when i'm in a slutty mood and just want it rammed in.

[NLbear]

I previously said I like the top to go slow at first. I still mean that. But recently I already had a load in me when the 2nd top entered me balls deep and started plowing roughly. He just rammed it in and fucked me for about 20 mins. I came like crazy, handsfree too. Just by the feeling of his thick dick ramming my hole.

Didn't mind because I was pre-lubed by the other guy's cum. If I hadn't cum in me already I would have told him to take it easy at first.

[chargedodger]

Each method of entry has its benefits.Also depends on the size of the cock and length.Also where you are fucking makes a difference.In a tops bed making love you can take it slow and savor the sensations produced.In a video booth with low lights,maybe a buzz and poppers rush and a bit of lube fast dominating furious fucks are great!Often at such locations the top is well primeed having watched porn for half ab hour or so.He is way horny hard and leaking lots of precum.Poppers are used to get you ready quick as clothes get torn off pants pushed down and a hard cock is pushed into a wet hole.Fucking is fast,deep determined.Your heart races from the poppers and situation,the pain is real.But he soon cums,that semen a balm to your pain.He pulls out and leaves quickly.Thats great adult bookstore sex.

[averageslut48]

slowly first and then hard and deep.