Standing Around At Sex Parties.

[tradiemason]

That's one of the benefits of climbing into a sling.

It should be pretty obvious that I'm looking to get fucked.

Gotta agree bro its obvious n they dont even have to ask me just start poundin

[NWUSHorny]

The worst is when the majority of guys at the club or sex party are there to stand around or wait for Mr. Perfect.  If you thing the Cumunion party in LA is bad try coming to the one in the Pacific Northwest, I stayed for 4 hours at a Cumunion party in Seattle and to the best of my knowledge no one fucked in a public are while I was there (if at all), Portland is not quite as bad but if you get a large enough group of the standees it can completely kill the mood and very little fucking happens.  I have been getting to the Cumunion party at LAX every few months and while it does attract standees, the mood and vibe belong to the guys that are actually there to fuck.  There is no way the bottoms could line up on a fuck bench or on the bed and have tops fuck them (and sometimes the guys fucking the guys the total bottoms getting fucked as well) like they do at the LAX Cumunion parties, that kind of group vibe just doesn't happen 3-4 ways are rare even at Cumunion parties.

 

The weird thing up here, is more often than not if 2 guys actually start having sex in a public area the standees will actually clear out and avoid the area even to the point where they are blocking access to guys that might want to join in, so there is little chance of getting them interested or getting an orgy going.  I can't speak for everyone but I like groups, I like having guys join in or joining in and I like having sex with multiple guys at the same time.  I really miss living in cities where guys fuck in the clubs and at parties freely (moving here reduced the frequency I got laid by at least 2/3 overnight) and am glad I am able to travel to get my fill once in awhile.

[SugarWalls]

My one experience at the LAX CumUnion party last September was "poor" at best--I'm not one for stand and model but that night there sure were TONS of guys doing just that. I got on the fuck bench, bent over onto the "stage", and propped myself up on the fuck bed and only one cock (no cum) the whole 4 hours I was there. Perhaps the guys weren't into my slim, smooth, twink build?? I had recently cut all my long hair off so am now very young-boyish looking. I know, not everyone's idea of hot especially here in LA. Funny, I did end up meeting a guy right before I left who was straight-identifying and I ended up taking him back to my place and got a load from him that night (and for a few weeks after as well until his woman came back into town). 

 

My one experience at the TeamPig party back on July 4th was better--I did meet one Top who hogged my pretty ass all night so at least I was getting ample attention that night--on top  of the dresser in the bedroom upstairs nonetheless (got to show off my flexibility with my  legs up on the dudes shoulders or wrapped around his waist, and generally pointing up to the cieling whilst holding both him and me through all that thrusting lol) but again, I played with no one else and put myself on ready display for anyone's taking.

 

Even more interesting was the fact that of the Tops who have had the multiple pleasure of a 1-on-1 play session(s) with me at my place that I ran into at both of these parties made NO moves at all to fuck (or interact with) me in public/at the parties..? Still wonder what may be the case with this observation (I have my own beliefs)...

 

Point is, with group parties, the dynamic really does depend on the energy level of the sex happening there. I agree with NWUSHorny that the sex energy at the LAX party is quite high but despite this there still are more guys who stand and wait around than who are actually fucking (yes--I'm going off my one expereince there I know) but this is somewhat a normal pattern in LA that I have experienced and observed in many other places here which doesn't exist at the same level in other cities I have visited.

[freshxtop5]

My one experience at the LAX CumUnion party last September was "poor" at best--I'm not one for stand and model but that night there sure were TONS of guys doing just that. I got on the fuck bench, bent over onto the "stage", and propped myself up on the fuck bed and only one cock (no cum) the whole 4 hours I was there. Perhaps the guys weren't into my slim, smooth, twink build?? I had recently cut all my long hair off so am now very young-boyish looking. I know, not everyone's idea of hot especially here in LA. Funny, I did end up meeting a guy right before I left who was straight-identifying and I ended up taking him back to my place and got a load from him that night (and for a few weeks after as well until his woman came back into town). 

 

My one experience at the TeamPig party back on July 4th was better--I did meet one Top who hogged my pretty ass all night so at least I was getting ample attention that night--on top  of the dresser in the bedroom upstairs nonetheless (got to show off my flexibility with my  legs up on the dudes shoulders or wrapped around his waist, and generally pointing up to the cieling whilst holding both him and me through all that thrusting lol) but again, I played with no one else and put myself on ready display for anyone's taking.

 

Even more interesting was the fact that of the Tops who have had the multiple pleasure of a 1-on-1 play session(s) with me at my place that I ran into at both of these parties made NO moves at all to fuck (or interact with) me in public/at the parties..? Still wonder what may be the case with this observation (I have my own beliefs)...

 

Point is, with group parties, the dynamic really does depend on the energy level of the sex happening there. I agree with NWUSHorny that the sex energy at the LAX party is quite high but despite this there still are more guys who stand and wait around than who are actually fucking (yes--I'm going off my one expereince there I know) but this is somewhat a normal pattern in LA that I have experienced and observed in many other places here which doesn't exist at the same level in other cities I have visited.

 

Well said this is the kind of stuff I am talking about!

[BrockTop1973]

I've been thinking about this since I'm trying to decide whether it's worth going to Toronto CumUnion tomorrow. I confess I am sometimes one of the guys standing back, because even at a sex party I need to feel like there's mutual attraction between me and the guys I hook up with. I don't fuck any available hole. That said, if there is someone I'm into, and they're into it too, I'm not shy about fucking in a group or with an audience. I do wish spectators would be less handsy though. I hate when guys are trying to grab my cock or balls while I'm in the middle of using them!

Anyway, one of the problems with CumUnion in Toronto is that it's held at Steamworks. There's very little advertising for it so you have no idea whether guys are there for the event or just on a regular spa visit. So guys just default to usual bathhouse cruising behavior. They should change things up with posters, different lighting and maybe give out special wristbands or something to set the scene better.

I also think most guys here have very little experience with sex parties so they don't know how to act or react in an exhibitionist environment. Maybe it's because we're Canadian but there's a tendency to hang back rather than taking the risk of being the first one on his knees in a group setting.

However, I have seen that once a few guys get going things usually take off. You just need a fes guys who are willing to be the spark that sets off the fireworks.

[revemupman]

I went to the Cumunion in LA last week with my regular bottom and it was barely any fucking going on. At the fuck bench all you seen is a cpl asses mounted yet no tops are fucking them. I wasn't complaining though because I like a lot of room when I'm fucking bottoms being that I'm 6'5 320lbs. So I had the fuck bench to my self. When some bottom did managed to get fucked good everyone would crowd around them to watch. To me that's a waste of money. I paid to fuck some ass not watch, that's what porn is for! I guess many guys are voyeurs and aren't really interested in fucking. Many of the guys my bottom wanted to fuck weren't interested. He only managed to get fucked by one other guy besides me. 

[barefootbob]

They are waiting for an invite maybe,or seduction of some sort.Seen the same thing at the baths.Lots of guys are not really self starters sexually.If ya see someone you like just say hi!Wanna fuck?Its a sex party.

back in high school, my best friend would ask girls just that "wanna fuck?" he said more times than not he would get the shit slapped outta him, but the one that did rocked his world. LOL

 

so yeah, just be direct and ask.

[btm2bbred]

I try to get to sex parties more than 30 minutes or so after the posted start time.    If everyone is still standing around, I get aggressive and offer to suck cock.   Almost always someone will quickly fill my mouth.   I try to position myself so that my ass is in full view of the guys standing around.    

While some guys do continue to stand around watching, there usually are a few guys who can't pass up the opportunity to pump their cum into my bare hole.

 

Once I have been freshly fucked and loaded, it's pretty easy to get other Tops to fuck my cum lubed hole.