Why Is It So Hard?

[mancunthole]

To get laid in Dallas?

 

Me: 52, big man. Total bottom. I have no pics, would love for somebody to take pics of me taking their cock in my face or ass.

 

Other than stopping in a couple gay clubs I really have little idea of where is good for hookups.

[SuccessfulChaser]

Getting fucked, and by extension POZZED, is not a difficult as it may seem.  However, there are some paths to follow that can make it easier and some that make it much more difficult.  Having a plan that helps you see the route that will result in the most cock in your ass will get you to your goal(s).

 

First, remember there are at least 10-15 bottoms for every top out there.  Some science to that, but also just my own experience.  That means there are as many as 15 other guys wanting that same cock stuck up their ass.  Why in the fuck should a top choose you?   Only you can state that reason....and you had better understand that.  Only by offering the best "reward" for the fuck time invested in reaming your hole will you get a lot of meat.   Perhaps you have mad skills.  Maybe you have great weed to share.  Can you suck the chrome off of a bumper hitch? 

 

Second, the tops are not gonna do all the work.  You have to be willing to seek them out, travel go to them.  Make it easy for them to choose you.   If you think that all you have to do is say you need laid and that tops will line up outside your place, you will be disappointed.  Spoiler alert: while there may be a great top queer in your neighborhood just looking for your ass, it is highly unlikely.   Keep your ass clean and the car full of gas....and be willing to go to them.  That will change over time, but until they are begging for another one of your patented rump rides, you gotta deliver the goods to them.

 

Third, get to know other queers in non-sexual situations.   I don't just mean clubs---are there other activities that you enjoy that have queer groups as well.  Is there a community center for fellow faggots?   Yeah, the apps and on line stuff can help, but knowing real guys...who introduce you to real guys....who see you as a good guy to be around helps as much as anything.  And, if you are indeed chasing, this can be your best way to find the tops that will eventually knock your ass up.

 

Fourth, communicate.   One or two line e-mails or comments do not let people know you.  Do not be afraid of using words to help paint your picture.  Fill out profiles as full as you can.   Most have a word or character limit..use them all.   Remember: you have to be honest and stand out....tell that story well.  Practice it.   Add to it as you get experience.

 

Fifth, know what you want sexually.  Yeah, all of us bottoms what a huge dick crammed up our shithole and have it pump us for a hour before spewing three gallons of cum.....just like in a porn movie.   Get that shit out of you mind.  It is real life fucking not porn.  Know what feels good, what you like GIVING as much as what you like GETTING.   Train your ass to be a great fuck.  Get a good number of anal toys and practice.  It is only sex....learn as much as you can about the ART OF FUCKING.

 

Are you on BBRTS?   It is pretty good in my area.  I can usually scare up a cock on that site.  A fair percentage of the guys who fucked me during my chase came from that site.   But, I am also a known entity---been on the site for a while.  Message all the new guys....not in seeking a fuck...but in welcoming them to the "club".  Start chatting (messaging) guys well before you are trying to coax them to your ass.  Share your experiences....let them see YOU....not just another random hole.

 

Do you know the site Cruising for Sex.   Good source for place to have random sex.....saunas, bookstores, theaters.   Fairly complete and a good source of place to go suck cock.   Not always a direct line to a dick in the ass, but a good way to get more comfortable, create some "story" to tell others and taste a lot of cum.  

 

In the middle of my chase, I relocated some distance for work.  It was just far enough that the circle of POZ cocks I was enjoying was much much less available.   But, I used some of the above and was likely knocked up the first week I was back at my chase after being out of commission for a couple months in relocation etc.  I am still getting plenty of dick.....once I was POZZED, I was really welcomed into the POZ community and have been enjoying that amazing POZ on POZ sex ever since.  For the record, I am over 50, over weight, bottom only....not exactly standout material in a Mr. Leather contest.

 

Coca Cola does not sell sugar water by being begging for customers...they sell the IMAGE of how good life will be drinking their product.

 

What is the beer commercial that tells folks that fucking your ass will be the best thing they can do at that moment?  Once you figure that out and communicate it, you will be as busy as a Budweiser salesman at a hot beach.......plenty of sales.  Better yet, an ass full of that sweet cum will be yours nearly whenever you want it.

 

Being the ass of choice is always better than being the ass of chance........

Edited September 7, 2016 by SuccessfulChaser