Seeking Tops Preference/Opinion

[ChaserBtm84]

Hi there. I love these forums and getting different opinions about what pleases Tops and Bottoms more in certain situations. In my opinion you can never have too much info on how to please your guy!

Question about butt plugs! We btms know all too well that many of us over prepare for having sex or a long fuck session, etc. While I'm fine with extra cleaning preparation (personally I like to make sure I'm clean rough to literally eat off) I want your thoughts on btms using butt plugs before the main event.

Some btms use em because it can generally make fucking easier and less painful so we can take more. Some use them because they haven't had anal in awhile and like to make sure they're relaxed and open to accept what you have to give.

So tops, do you prefer a bottom who uses a plug before? Can you tell a difference? What turns you on more and feels better for you?

And bottoms, do you prefer using a plug before you play? If so, what's your main reason for doing so and what do you find more pleasurable?

Thanks guys!

Can't wait to hear your thoughts!

[Guest]

For myself here, am an older BB bottom and unfortunately do not get to be bred all that often, so things are still pretty tight. I don't get to go out very often to get bred, mainly due to work and time schedules, also due to my location, etc. When I know I'm going to be able to go to the baths for breeding sessions, I usually begin the night before a good cleaning out and with the plugs and dildos to loosen things up a bit and stretch out some. I also have a vacum device that will provide me with somewhat of a prolapsed effect that will last for a couple of days if used and left in for several hours previous to my breeding session. The guys seem to like a hole with a slight prolapse as it helps them hit the target quicker and it also makes it easier and more pleasurable for me upon their entry. My usual and normal fucks are with the guys of what I'd call average sized cock, 5.5" to about 7.0" or just above, and can take these without much preparation, but it's that one or two that will show up that are in the 8.0" to 10" range that really tear me up, so it's the preparation before hand that I like to do just in case, just so I can be able to handle them and still enjoy them as well.

[bbzh]

For me, butt plugs and dildos help remove trapped water from douching and they are particularly useful when I am being fucked by someone who has a thick cock. I hate to be that whiny bottom who takes too long to open up for the large ones. 

I think a hung top who has sex with the same bottom regularly would be able to tell the difference. I have one bud that I was nice and opened up for last time we played. It really turned him on and he bred me much faster than he normally does.

I have another very long and thick bud that I will see end of next week. Just to show you how serious I take these "challenges", I bought a special plug from Fort Troff this past weekend because he loves to fuck really hard (jackrabbit style). I am so tired of having to ask him to go easy. I want to see the expression on his face when my walls swallow his beer can on the first thrust and I can take his vicious pounding. 

[ChaserBtm84]

I feel the same way when I bottom. In my last relationship I played more as a top and it would piss me off that my ex would refuse to use a butt plug and made fun of me for owning them. He seriously needed it! There were times that he was SO TIGHT that no matter what I did I couldn't even penetrate him and get my head in! That's a fucking problem!

Then again sex in general with him want that great bc he was always so tight even when I could get in there it wasn't very comfortable or pleasurable for me. Got to the point I'd what for him to shoot from my dick fucking him and then I'd just pull out and make him suck me off.

Gee...why didn't I realize sooner that relationship wouldn't work out? Lol.

[ChaserBtm84]

I really like to hear here some opinions from tops too.  

[Guest Upstateguy518]

I top and I'd rather have a bottom be plugged and ready.  I don't wanna waste my time preparing them, I just wanna stuff my cock in their ass. Having been prepared before hand, I save a lot of the hassle plus the clean up afterwards.

[ChaserBtm84]

[CumBustion]

In my experience, messing around and taking too long to get a dick in me can make some tops go soft.  I usually plug up or at least have the top fnger me hard like (at least three fingers) while I blow him. Nothing beats that initial look of satisfaction ona tops face when he can slide his meaty cock in to the hilt with no squiring or stopping.