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[biskit]

6 hours ago, Danny74 said:

Hello I’m a new member here👋🏽 I enjoy reading about the experiences a lot of guys have on here. It’s so hot to know that there are guys out there experiencing the things that I want to experience. I’m young, I have a boyfriend, but I also have a strong urge of becoming a cumslut. I want to satisfy men and let them use me. I’ve been fighting the feeling but it only grows stronger. I hope to fullfill this urge and start my journey. Any advice helps, especially if you understand what it’s like to have these urges, but are also in a relationship. It feels impossible to choose…

Welcome Danny! I'm in the same situation, although I get the feeling you're much younger than my 51 years 😉
I'm in the beginning of my cumdump journey after being in denial for decades about my true self. I may be speaking out of turn because of how new I am to this world, but to me being a cumdump is more than a fetish, it is who you are. I've been through a few relationships, and just about every one ended because I wasn't up front from the beginning about who I was. Tell your boyfriend that you think you might be meant to serve as a cumdump and see where that goes. Some can compartmentalize their role and serve on the side of their relationships, but I can't for the life of me think of one person where hiding their true self worked out.
I hope your journey helps you find who you may be.

[Guest]

2 hours ago, biskit said:

Welcome Danny! I'm in the same situation, although I get the feeling you're much younger than my 51 years 😉
I'm in the beginning of my cumdump journey after being in denial for decades about my true self. I may be speaking out of turn because of how new I am to this world, but to me being a cumdump is more than a fetish, it is who you are. I've been through a few relationships, and just about every one ended because I wasn't up front from the beginning about who I was. Tell your boyfriend that you think you might be meant to serve as a cumdump and see where that goes. Some can compartmentalize their role and serve on the side of their relationships, but I can't for the life of me think of one person where hiding their true self worked out.
I hope your journey helps you find who you may be.

Thank you biskit for your advice. I’m glad to hear that you’re starting your journey as well 🙂 Within a year of dating my bf, I told him if he was willing to do an open relationship and he was. It didn’t work out tho, and I’m struggling to tell him that this is who I really am. My boyfriend would understand, but I also know it would be the end of our relationship. He just couldn’t be with me knowing I’m a slut wanting to get used by other men. Don’t get me wrong, my boyfriend pleases me just fine and I’m happy with him, but it’s the feeling of wanting more loads and cum that I want baldly. So I guess when it comes down to it, I would have to hide my true self, or leave him. I’ll just have to see what happens.  

[hntnhole]

7 hours ago, biskit said:

Tell your boyfriend that you think you might be meant to serve as a cumdump and see where that goes

First, welcome to both of you guys.

To the quote:  There are plenty of gay guys around that haven't dealt with issues like yours, and at some point, biskit's right.  Whether that's in the near future or not so much, it's an issue you'll need to be forthright about, and ready to deal with the potential consequences. 

Those may range from the boyfriend being even hornier for casual sex than you are, and you both go get what you need, come home and regale each other with tales of tails (and Cocks).  Or, you might go out together for group-sex.  Or, he might not be ready to hear it, and that could be the end of the relationship.  The important thing is to be honest with the guy you care about, even if it means eventually splitting up.  Take your time, get all your thoughts in order, and when you're ready, have that conversation.  

Even if he reacts poorly, which would be a shame, at least you don't have to carry the burden of being dishonest.  Try to avoid the trap of "cheating" - despite what some guys on here like to go on about.  Dishonesty isn't good for anyone.  

Good Luck, you hotassed piggies !!!

[biskit]

3 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

First, welcome to both of you guys.

To the quote:  There are plenty of gay guys around that haven't dealt with issues like yours, and at some point, biskit's right.  Whether that's in the near future or not so much, it's an issue you'll need to be forthright about, and ready to deal with the potential consequences. 

Those may range from the boyfriend being even hornier for casual sex than you are, and you both go get what you need, come home and regale each other with tales of tails (and Cocks).  Or, you might go out together for group-sex.  Or, he might not be ready to hear it, and that could be the end of the relationship.  The important thing is to be honest with the guy you care about, even if it means eventually splitting up.  Take your time, get all your thoughts in order, and when you're ready, have that conversation.  

Even if he reacts poorly, which would be a shame, at least you don't have to carry the burden of being dishonest.  Try to avoid the trap of "cheating" - despite what some guys on here like to go on about.  Dishonesty isn't good for anyone.  

Good Luck, you hotassed piggies !!!

Great post, and I want to reinforce the part about taking your time. I lied to myself and my partners for a long time, but I stopped that by taking a time out and using that lengthy time to reflect on myself via therapy. Once I had that "coming out" of sorts, it was like a new lease on life, and I found peace I didn't know I was looking for. Sounds silly, I know, it's just my experience.... And, oink. 

[hntnhole]

3 minutes ago, biskit said:

Sounds silly

Not in the slightest.  Once we take the time, put in the intellectual effort to figure out who we are, what we need to do, and then go do it - over and over and over again - we're in a comfortable place - we've found our "place" - even if that's wallowing in a pigpen with our brothers. 

Our "truth" may not be for others, but it's our truth none-the-less, and no one can fault us for being true to ourselves.  

[Guest]

Hi im a Bisexual guy looking to explore, got so many fantasies and just like to say hi to everyone on here and can't wait to have a chat and poss hook up.XX

[Guest]

Just heard about this place and signed up. I've started becoming the slut I've been pretending to be for a long time and groups like this are good for helping that along.

San Francisco, look like I'm in my late twenties/early thirties but I am older, gay, didn't come out until late so not nearly as experienced as most here, bottom who may turn vers bottom. I'm a fan of any kind of group sex where I'm getting used and loaded up: bathhouses, parties, gloryholes, motel rooms. I've gotten into sensory deprivation if I know nothing about the guy I'm with, exhibitionism, leather, and some rough sex and want to go further like having sessions recorded and posted, bondage, and power dynamics especially getting slutted out. I recently tried on a puppy mask and was torn so I am still learning what my kinks are. Maybe people here can help with that.

[Guest]

Hello to everyone. I'm 32 years old and have questions about living as a sissy / trans-fem - I currently identify as male and have a GF. If you have feedback on that, please see the details in my topic in the trans fem forum: 

 

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[Guest]

Hi im a guy in my forties, just cum out as Bi I'm scared I'm nervous, I'm looking for sex and just to fulfill all the dirty fantasies running through my head, my names Phil and I'd love to talk to you guys and explore all the feelings I'm having.X

[Meld]

Hi I can't believe I've found a site like this  exists it opened a door that I've just gone through by registering  here's to opening more  doors

 

[pig-latin]

Hi. Im Leo

Brazilian here. I live now in Brazil, but used to live in NYC.

Pig, bottom, negative but i dont care. i love to see my men to fill me.

if you are vitisiting or living send DM

[hntnhole]

Welcome, new members ... We look forward to hearing more from each of you! 

[imafemboy]

Hello everyone I'm new here. 

[FunDevilpig]

New member, recently moved to Vancouver. Looking for other Pigs who like to get as nasty and twisted as me. Love the community of site and what its all about. 

[Guest]

Hey I'm Turnpikemike,

I been here on the site for a about a month now. I've been in the closet for most of my life. I thought I was straight for a long time. However in my teens when I started looking at the porno mags and films I felt more attracted to the guy and his cock than the girl. I sucked my first cock and ate my first asshole in college and loved it. ( I was seduced by a gay friend). It took me awhile to process the experience. Growing up in a very strict conservative household didn't help much. In my 30s I was in a relationship with a woman.

Though that lasted a while. the thought of sucking dick, eating ass and never left my mind. I'd still watch gay porn and fantasize that it was me getting barebacked.  I ended that relationship 5 years later when the pressure was on for me to marry and pump a kid into her. I'm in my 40s now and I decided to come out this year and be my authentic self. I love kissing and cuddling and  have a burning desire to explore my sexuality without limits. Im a chub who loves sucking cock and eating cum and ass. I'd like to find someone who enjoys filling up my ass with his dick and cum but doesn't mind kissing and cuddling too. I'm in Essex county NJ