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I think the method of making contact with you reflects a guy who's not all that experienced at best, or a guy who gets off on harming others at worst. Why would a guy that's interested in you go to all that effort to make contact? Sex is so easy to find these days, it seems a bit thick to me. Maybe he's just "out", trying to learn how to cruise guys. Maybe he doesn't have a lot of backbone. Maybe this, maybe that or the next thing. If you decide to proceed, do it with caution. How about agreeing to meet the guy somewhere in public - a restaurant, bar or whatever - someplace neutral to give you the chance to take his measure. If that happens (meaning an in-person meeting), you might consider asking a buddy who knows the arrangement in advance to call you at some specific time, and if you don't answer, it's a signal that things aren't what they seemed. That's standard practice in some areas of the country, particularly with guys looking for BD/SM sex. Good luck, and take care of yourself first - the rest will follow if/when the time is right.
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SOMEONE possesses a truly filthy, delicious, magnificent imagination. May all your fantasies cum true !!!
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Interesting issue ... but exactly what constitutes a "thank you"? Sure, it's nice to hear the words said, but a happy sigh of fulfillment, satisfaction can suffice too. A genuine smile - a sparkle in his eye - a final grope, even a meeting of the eyes can say a lot. So can a kiss (in French). Maybe the bottom is one of those Heaven-Sent permanently hungry guys, on the prowl for more as soon as the present Cock fills his gut. Maybe he's not all that experienced, maybe this or that. He's already fulfilled his function, but it doesn't bother me if he says anything or not. He knows, I know, and that's all that really matters.
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That's for sure. The world doesn't need more and more (and then even more) mouths to feed, particularly given the Major Exporter of food-assistance to the rest of the needy world is denying that food aid for political reasons. It's nothing less than depraved. There is certainly every conceivable reason to slow the birth-rate, particularly in areas that simply must depend on the charity of wealthy nations. Why not export "you-know-whats - those little baggies that prevent pregnancy virtually 100% of the time. I'm not saying everyone shouldn't have sex - but we could easily manage boatloads of rubbers to be sent elsewhere. How is it that a nation that produces far more food than it needs, suddenly decides to yank that excess from the millions of hungry, even starving fellow-human beings in areas of globe? Is starving to death the only answer for those whose need is a matter of life or death? I wonder how some of these people can sleep at night.
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Where do you hide your toys?
hntnhole replied to Utmostdiscretion's topic in Hardcore Fetishes Forum
sigh ..... houses in Ft. L. seldom include attics - at least in this area. I had a huge one back in Chgo, as well as a full basement. I miss them tremendously .... but, it never snows, so there's that ... -
Where do you hide your toys?
hntnhole replied to Utmostdiscretion's topic in Hardcore Fetishes Forum
Hide the gear? Why would I do that? Anyone who knows me, knows what kind of tree I'm barking up. There is a door to the sling room, in the event I need to close it for some reason. That's enough. -
I think I always sensed there was something different for me. As a little kid, of course, I didn't understand what it was, and I had no idea of what "having sex" even was. I just always liked hanging around with other boys, and had plenty of friends to race bikes with, see who could climb highest in a tree, all the mischief boys like to get into; silly kid-stuff. As I grew a bit older my dad never mentioned anything at all about "sex", let alone having it, but he did take me downtown to the YMCA for "the great reveal" - apparently and annual event wherein some "expert" lectured all the boys on the physical intricacies of physically having sex. There must have been well over a hundred Dads and sons there, a number of which I recognized from school. It was more like a clinical lecture on the physical differences between boys and girls than anything else. It was a very "Lutheran" city, and devoid of any hint of sexual excitement, and "good" Lutherans never so much as mentioned anything about sex - ever. It was in undergrad that I found out what was what, and in a big way. There were tons of guys like me, and we were all horned up and ready to "get to it". The manager of the student union would unlock the basement door on Saturday nights, and it was guys only - and a dizzying awakening for me. Sometime 50-some, occasionally more, and it was fantastic to realize how many other guys needed sex with other guys. My eyes were opened, as was my fly, and that was the beginning of the "real" me.
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As do I, assuming a meaning of Israel's right to exist, as well as other countries in the Middle East. No WWII-era nation went after the other Semitic populations. Only one, with breathtakingly hellish results. However, that was 80-some years ago, and that particularly hellish era is well over now. Those days are a crystalline example of how a population of a nation, once the very font of the arts, culture, accomplishment, can return from the depths, becoming a valued nation again within the community of nations. I can understand (if not endorse) the hatreds the Islamic nations hold for the Israeli's. That land (Israel) was traditionally Arab for centuries, and after the holocaust, the leaders of the world decided to take a sliver of the British Empire, and create the State of Israel, in a gesture of recompense for the horror recently experienced in Europe. I would be surprised to learn that none of those WWII-era leaders considered the repercussions that would result, but it may well be the case. After enduring a holocaust, of course some measure of compensation should be offered, even if not much thought was devoted to later developments. Thus, the world has implacable enemies living within a stone's throw of each other - literally, How this finally gets resolved is beyond me (but it surely wouldn't be creating the biggest sea-side "resort" on the face of the earth either).
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Once we give in, jettisoning our cultural/religious taboos, and actually do what we know we must, the fears, phony disinclinations tend to dissipate like a bad smell. We're still the same men, with the same desires, the same family, all of the same baggage - except that we've experienced the actual thrill of whatever our particular sexual bent happens to be. Fortunately for me, I jumped into the fantastic life we lead before hiv came along, when everyone fucked everyone else, and condoms were nothing more than a fetish a handful of guys observed. When hiv did come along, my other half and I turned Victorian, and only shared sex with each other. Finally - it seemed like forever - there were measures to take and we returned to our thrilling, fulfilling, exciting previous ways. When we decided it was probably going to be relatively safe, we both started achieving the thrill of wanton sex again, and I felt whole - unavoidably, insistently horny, as did my other half. What we felt was denied before became even more pressing, more dominant, more insistent. What had been something of a siren's call became a full sforzando of pounding, Wagnerian symphonic thunder. I can't say I dwell on what was back then, but I haven't forgotten either. This is Thursday - and tomorrow night I'll be back at my favorite fuckjoint, repeating that same sweet reply to the beautiful, insistent, recurring call again and again. Life is fan-fukkin-tastic, when we allow ourselves to be the men we were born to become.
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He's built a career in exploiting the (assumed) "weak spots" of other nation's leaders. But, as the old saying goes, flattery will get some folks everywhere. Of course, that's only if the flatter-ee is susceptible to being flattered in the first place. In the US, that susceptibility is world-renown by now. What I wonder is, how deeply the EU leaders stooped to it.
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Well said. Isn't it odd how human beings prefer to cling to their own outmoded belief-systems, which demand strict obedience to those systems, to the exclusion of every one else's differing belief systems? How more inflated could a nationality of people be? "Our way is the Only Way" is self-limiting for any group, whether political, religious, nationalistic, whatever. We're all residents of a planet that has developed quite a number of belief-systems, and if we demand that everyone else honor our own particular system, while we denigrate everyone else's, we're only limiting the progress of everyone. That's a recipe for disaster for all of humanity, if we can't overcome these self-limiting contrivances.
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hntnhole replied to leakyhole's topic in General Discussion
Someone should tell him that there's a small garment which exists to prevent Prideful Moments like this .... it's called a jock strap 😄 -
tips for increasing horniness, fulfilling fantasies?
hntnhole replied to profwhtforhung's topic in General Discussion
Perfectly said. The thing about using electronic contrivances is, we sit around typing or texting or whatever, and don't go out and fuck. Yes, phones, computers have their place, but nothing takes the place of getting out there and giving/taking loads. Interacting with our peers. Fantasies are for beginners - acting on those fantasies is the only thing that actually counts. -
My supplier advises PReP every day (one pill), and Pep for only 3 days, one per day (after exposure). So far, so good ... it's working for me. I am also - at this very moment - knocking on wood. No, not my head - actual wood.
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It is, to my mind anyway, inconceivable that these nations could be anywhere near to "friends" - that is simply asking too much. What is not asking too much however, is that the hatreds carefully built up over the centuries be turned into at least some measure of co-existence, if not anything close to friendship. It occurs to me that there are too many similarities between belief-systems - each with their own concrete belief that they - and only they - are beloved by some Deity. It's well past time to consciously set these false divisions aside, and focus on what unites us, rather than that which divides us.
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If you mean the latest iteration of the time-worn troubles in the Levant, I agree. I don't particularly like the fact that there are so many US soldiers on the ground (in various encampments in the larger area), since they're exposed to increased risk these days. Let's hope many have been/are being brought home. That said, this is probably the most perfect example extant of why so many citizens of the World eschew the religious bullshit fomented by temporal leaders, particularly in that region. Using this Deity or that to excuse inhuman behavior never, ever works. It seems the PM of Israel has been stirring this pot since he was in diapers. The current President of the US probably is in them at present. I too find it unconscionable that the US has given so much rope to this particular PM of Israel. I'll trust you to finish that mental picture. The US had reached an "accord" in the area regarding nuclear weaponry, including offensive nuclear weapons some years ago. but a Certain Someone yanked the US out of that agreement during his first term. So, the trail of cookie-crumbs leads directly back to His Corpulence. DIRECTLY. Netanyahu has only taken advantage of that seriously stupid error, but reliable information regarding what the citizenry of Israel feels is not heavily covered; we don't know what Joe average citizen in Israel actually thinks. In the event (just short of the usual "2 weeks") the US does indeed use this so-called "bunker buster" bomb, our hands - by extension - will be covered yet again with Levantine blood. Is this what we want our collective legacy to be? I rather think not. When rabble-rousers (emphasis on "rabble") beat the war-drums, instead of sincerely working to find a solution wherein each party to the dispute gets something, gives up something, a peaceful solution might be found, instead of more oceans of blood soaking the sands of the Middle East.
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Given the circumstances, what more can a guy ask for?
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I remain unimpressed with the President's response to Netanyahu's aggression. It's been too quiet over there for too long, and I've been wondering when the next blow-up would take place. The President is putty in Netanyahu's hands, and the PM of Israel has been self-serving for years. While T's latest response is his usual "I'll figure it out in a couple of weeks" reply to the major media's questions, the PM has been stirring this pot for years. He's used the "Iran issue" since he first was elected, and perhaps with good reason. Fanning the flames of religious differences is his calling card. This is a good example of why I turned my back on O.R. years ago; both sides claim to serve the One and Only Deity, and neither serves anyone but their own ambitions. The US has something around 40K soldiers in the general area, which T may use as an excuse to bomb Netanyahu's enemies to bits. But he can't do it without bombs from the US, and Trump is like putty in his well-experienced hands. All we can hope for, is "advisors" in our Government can dissuade Putty-brain from supporting this misadventure on the part of others. The straights of Hormuz could easily be closed if the US enters this mess, and that would cost the rest of the world dearly. The only "real" solution I see, are new elections in Israel. Until then, it's time to buckle the seat belts. We can't displace the ridiculous one for a few more years (but, we can take back Congress in a few months),
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PDA - Are gay couples still harassed for being an Out gay couple ?
hntnhole replied to brnbk's topic in LGBT Politics
Ahhhh .... That depends on how 'in-your-face" you want to be. I think that whatever a straight couple could do to show affection for each other would apply across-the-board to gay couples. What you "ought" to do is, do what you feel comfortable doing, within the parameters of socially-accepted behavior. If you and I were in some store, deciding on whether or not to buy this or that, came to an agreement, a hug, a quick peck on the cheek, would be no problem, as I see it. We probably shouldn't fuck in the aisle, but then if we have bail money in our pockets, so what? You should do what you believe to be the right thing for you. Outside of starting a physical fight, no one should have an issue with some measure of PDA. If someone doesn't like it, then turn their face the other way. We won't advance our cause by being ashamed to openly love our partner. -
Thanks for that intelligent post. Now. WHERE DID YOU GET THAT SHIRT ????
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That could well be, but there's a far more enticing way to demonstrate a mouth-full of cum: simply kiss it to some other guy.
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PDA - Are gay couples still harassed for being an Out gay couple ?
hntnhole replied to brnbk's topic in LGBT Politics
To the OP though, a lot of the answer depends on the location. The responses would be different from different parts of the country. Some parts of the country wouldn't blink twice at PDA in public spaces - other places, not so much. In major metro areas, public displays of affection (depending on how "graphic" they are, obviously) would barely be noticed. In others, the most innocuous, limited expressions would be demeaned. I think each guy has to sniff this one out for himself; there isn't any cut-and-dried answer. -
PDA - Are gay couples still harassed for being an Out gay couple ?
hntnhole replied to brnbk's topic in LGBT Politics
No surprise to me - a close relative lives just up the road from J.H., I've visited, and I wouldn't live there for love nor money. One morning I woke up to find a gigantic* moose staring in the window at me. Oh - and there's a grand total of 6 weeks of summer. *I mean, as big as a medium-sized, 6-passenger car -
One of the things I learned was, we're a group of men with widely-varying interests. Not every guy is a total bottom, not every guy is a total Top, there's a wide array of inclinations available to us, and assumptions are simply inappropriate. Thus, my reliance on a "negotiation", however brief, to make sure each guy gets everything he wants and nothing he doesn't. Every guy usually enjoys at least one of the "basics" - fucking or sucking - and a brief "I like X, but I love Y" exchange can always make sex hot, as well as avoid regrettable mistakes. Or, just start in with one act, and if he responds well, keep at it. At the tubs, there are always plenty of other guys if one turns out to be not quite what you're there for.
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