Finding extremely submissive bottoms

[Guest hungandmean]

I'm not really sure where i should sign up or what site I should be going to. I want an extremely submissive bottom... the kind of faggot who will let me slap them around and who will take dick on command.

Dudes on grindr are too conservative and bbrts is just a quick hookup. i appreciate a cumdump but im looking to find a long term slut i can mold into the perfect hole.

Any suggestions on where i should look?

[hotguy02]

It's hit or miss.  I'm a sub that your described it's the same trying to find a masculine alpha top like you for us

[skinster]

H&M, if you apply the effort looking, I am not sure if you'd find it. I've spent a ton of time and years looking for the same thing, then not looking and still not finding that same very thing. IMHO it is mostly unrealistic now to expect anything serious long term within dom/sub frame just because of proliferation and wide acceptance of electronic hookup tech. The old-fashioned (awh-gawd!) relationships are flat out of favor. May be in your area that demos a smaller effect, but in major US cities - oh well.

Everybody watched all the porn by now, we know what there can be, could have been, because someone has already done and shown it. On the fly, around literally any corner (in like ole New York), continuous sexual buffet of near unlimited variety of dick and ass and random kinks. People simply (and surprisingly - very willingly) accepted the notion to be majorly fucked in the head with this. Fag-related ADHD is no longer the diagnosis (that you simply can't focus long enough to produce the next meaningful mutually-satisfying 5-minute relationship) because something else is blinking at you from the screen of your phone. It is at the itchy junkie drug addiction level. I-will-walk-through-traffic-without-looking level. Any kinky tweak has to be satisfied now, right now, right this second, can't-wait-half-hour-for-subway itch level. That is before the flaking out is added in.

Bath houses used to carry the scorn of promiscuity. Now it is in your own pocket since you were so willing to pay for it. And an hour ride on the train is now the new long-distance relationship. That's where old 'Bridges-and-Tunnels crowd' term comes from. Everybody wants an EASY button and immediate gratification. This shit is flat out sad.

I haven't heard from any of my friends for a long while now that someone went on a proper date. 1 couple did get married (under very unclear to me circumstances). Repeat Fuck-buddies seems to be the most there is. And the bulk of interactions are still sex parties and one-time hookups when I don't even need to see your fucking face, just give me that warm hole. God forbid you mention any other non-sexual and socially-acceptable future activity - they run away screaming scared. There is no Cancel button,  but they seem to prefer to disappear than keep things going.

[submissivebottom74]

Sir, as a faggot who has been serving as a submissive bottom slave since I was 5, it has always been difficult to find an Superior Alpha Male God Top who would own this faggot. The problem that I encounter is that most so-called Masters/Owners are not truly schooled in owning a slave or submissive. They find that when I would go beyond the depths of depravity, it was too much for them. Still waiting, as it has been 8 years since I have had a true Alpha Male God.

[raunchycumslut]

I don't know if it's an option for you, but you could check out local bars (especially leather or bear bars). As for sites, you could try Recon, and (depending on your age) Daddyhunt, I'm sure there are other sites as well.

[AnnaBBWhore]

Here's one now

[ErosWired]

hungandmean -

Recon is one place to look - I found my former Master of five years there. It wasn't a smack-me-around kind of relationship, but it was a Master-submissive relationship, and although he's moved on to a permanent relationship with someone else, we're still close friends.

Another avenue you might try is FetLife. FL isn't a hookup channel, it's more of a fetish community, and a way to get connected with the IRL fetish communities in your area, which is the only way you're going to actually get into a relationship in the first place. Any Dom/Sub relationship is like any other kind of human relationship: They Take Time. You get back what you invest in them. You want to mold the person? Fine. Look at it like planting a garden. It will take a season for things to come to fruition, and it will take sweat, and hard work (and plowing, ha ha get it out of your system) but you're going to be in it for the long haul if it's going to amount to anything, for both of you.

And he's going to have to be the right guy for you, and you for him, and that's just peachy, ain't it, because wouldn't it be great it we had a detector for that? We don't, and that's because Power Exchange relationships are very complex and a lot deeper than most people realize. (I'll never forget one evening at camp when I was being rough-fucked on a picnic table by a Dom Top who was calling me a cunt every third word and a his bitch every second sentence, and somehow I managed to overhear the voice of a young guy in the audience (yes, the audience) saying, "How can he talk to him like that? Who does he think he is?" before an older and wiser man shut him up.) The negotiations have to satisfy deep-seated needs on both sides for it to work. Just because you have a need to apply some rough treatment to a sub doesn't mean that's enough for the sub; there's probably going to be more to it, and if you don't realize that the sub is always the controller of power in a Power Exchange, you've got the wrong end of the stick anyway.

The Master who trained me - in a very real, very very effective mental sense - to believe that I am, in fact, meant to be a cumdump and a sexual service for other men, the man who trained me to orgasm on his verbal command and could make me do so at this moment, was not the perfect match for me. That man is still out there, somewhere. I may never meet him. Maybe it's just as well, because God knows what that man would turn me into.

But, and I say this with all due respect to Skinster's experience above, the only way to be certain you won't find yours is if you never start looking. All I can tell you is that there is a submissive out there wistfully wishing he could find the right Dom who would take him in hand in just the right way for him. How do I know this? Because I'm one of them.

[Guest 120DaysofSodom]

<---- very submissive lil slut

[Eptxbttm]

Maybe nasty kink pigs? Also depends where you are located. 

[Guest]

If you're near Spartanburg I'll give you my address. I party and my only limits are kids and s hit. I am truly open to anything I'm told/made to do. I don't mind choking on cock, or it being forced down my throat till I puke, as long as we can clean the puke up. I love piss, and will drink if made to. I'm ok with being slapped, hit, kicked, spit on, just no broken bones or bruises on my face. I absolutely love to be held down by the throat and choked while having my Brian's pounded out via my asshole. I enjoy having my hole opened up, being fisted, foot fucked, toys, ball bats, speculum. I like being sounded while restrained. I know I have to be leaving stuff out, but there is no way to list it all!

[RandyCubby]

<--extremely submissive bottom... and I'll do anybody. ANYBODY

[Guest bbbearlover1]

It takes a great deal of time, and it really is hit or miss. I had the pleasure of finding a sub who took one of the hardest ass whippings I could muster (drew blood, and then pounded his pussy as a reward), but he flaked out on me, only to hit me up months later with apologies. He was the first local sub that I'd found who was a solid enough match for me (I really did love seeing that phat white ass with whelps from my belt). I found him on a site that's focused on Black Doms and white subs. I recommend looking for sites that are Dom/sub specific. But just know that there are liars, fakes and flakes (as in general) out there, and they outnumber the legit guys. Stay vigilant.

[badjamie]

Hungandmean - Could you describe what you mean by "slap them around"? Without having more details, it seems to me that you intend to abuse your submissive. 99.9% of Lifestyle submissives draw a line at being abused. You may actually be looking for an extreme masochist.

[NeedBlackCock]

1 hour ago, bbbearlover1 said:

It takes a great deal of time, and it really is hit or miss. I had the pleasure of finding a sub who took one of the hardest ass whippings I could muster (drew blood, and then pounded his pussy as a reward), but he flaked out on me, only to hit me up months later with apologies. He was the first local sub that I'd found who was a solid enough match for me (I really did love seeing that phat white ass with whelps from my belt). I found him on a site that's focused on Black Doms and white subs. I recommend looking for sites that are Dom/sub specific. But just know that there are liars, fakes and flakes (as in general) out there, and they outnumber the legit guys. Stay vigilant.

Cute white Italian in NYC and desperately need a Black master, I only love Black men and wish to submit even more...

[BottomKink]

On 12/7/2017 at 8:18 PM, submissivebottom74 said:

Sir, as a faggot who has been serving as a submissive bottom slave since I was 5, it has always been difficult to find an Superior Alpha Male God Top who would own this faggot. They find that when I would go beyond the depths of depravity, it was too much for them. 

This is the case for all sexually depraved bottoms. We are so fucked up sexually and vivid with our kinks that tops have no way to really surprise us. Its, like, they think they're being "edgy" and "alpha" when they repeat the same fantasies we have lol.