Relationship with two tops. Anybody in the same boat?

[Guest Foreskincumlover]

I love my partner but we’re both tops and so we don’t really have much of a sex life. It’s hard because I often fantasie about being with a bottom but I couldn’t bare to cheat. 

Was just wondering if anyone is in the same boat and what you did that helped with the issue? I feel trapped because I love him but am missing an important part of what I need in a relationship. 

Any advice is welcome xx

[Guest unitedforces91]

I often see couples on Grindr or Recon looking for a bottom to tag team. The couples are usually like you (top or top/vers). These are open relationships of course, which might not be the stage where you are at yet. Generally the couples have a shared profile, to minimise cheating risk I suppose. The usual arrangement would be that they browse for a bottom when they're in the mood, and invite them over for an hour or two of fun to satisfy their topping needs. 

Open relationships aren't my cup of tea, and I'm not nearly as slutty as I try to make out to be on this site. 

[Guest takingdeepanal]

As a bottom, I've played with guys who were both in a relationship. It's a precarious existence, especially when both of them use crysTal. Have to tread lightly at times, and adhere to agreements which should be discussed before anything happens.

It's all about trust, honesty, respect, and boundaries.

Edited April 2, 2018 by takingdeepanal

[Guest Foreskincumlover]

Hmm both very interesting points. I’ll maybe bring up the open relationship thing and see how that goes. He has previously said that he’d in no way want to do that but maybe if I say that it’s starting to become a bigger issue he might try it. I don’t know. Thank you both ??

[Hungryholeforyou]

You two should find hot bottoms to play with and find some guys as your regular fuck buddies. 

[Guest Foreskincumlover]

I wish it were that easy. Also. It was a straight out no on the open relationship thing. He tried bottoming and it did work but now things have gone back to how they were. It’s like he tried once and that was enough for a while ? hmmm