First group and first time being bred, advice?

[erk916]

Hello 

Longtime reader here and first time posting.  A little about me, I'm 37 and finally bottomed for the first time about a year ago (with a condom).  This after 5 years or so of using dildos, sucking a couple cocks, and finally getting up enough courage to actually bottom. 

In the last few months I have since bottomed two more times (both with the same older daddy type top) and checked off another fantasy in that they were both raw without a condom.......although he did not cum during either session.   I was even fucked in a sling which was awesome and really look forward to that again.

So my final two fantasies are about to come true probably this weekend.  This same top is going to host and invite over 2 or 3 top friends of his to all share me.   I will be bottoming for 3-4 guys total and this time I will definitely be bred by at least a couple loads.  I think I'll mostly be in a sling for this group.  Do you guys have any advice for me?  How should I handle 3 or 4 tops?  Anything advice for best way to take their loads and what to do after the top cums in me (and move onto the next one?)  Do you think I'll feel them cum in me?

Thank you in advance.

[atlfukbud]

I'd say, relax and enjoy!! Have a shot of bourbon or two. Focus on the fun, the sensations and not the potential for things going wrong. Poppers are a plus for keeping most bottoms amped up and going in a group setting. Clean out extra early and well, careful of what you eat 36 hours before... and yes, if you're like me you will feel the first one cum inside you assuming you don't over stretch, over lube -- spit or a little creamy lube (elbow grease) can be great -- then you'll enjoy the extra heat, wetness and throbbing of the first dick to breed you. Best of luck!! 

[erk916]

Thanks atlfukbud for advice.  I am well aware of the cleanout process and spend a few hours getting prepared even when just using a dildo.  It's important to me to be super clean.  I also eat lightly 24-48 hours out and then fast while drinking a lot of water for the last 12-16 hours.  I do have a lube that I  really like called Lynk Pleasure anal lube that I used the last two times I bottomed and a couple times with toys.  

[Guest BreedMeInVegas]

Dependent on how comfortable you are with the top you've been with, and just overall comfort, using a blindfold will add a different level of experience.  When you remove your sense of vision, your sense of feel and touch will elevate.  You'll find yourself focusing mostly on the feeling of the cock that's sliding in and out of you.  Also, notice I said 'the cock' because you will get so lost in the feeling, you will forget to try and keep track of who is inside you adding to the level of excitement.

Another aspect I enjoy when in the situation you'll be in, is to have my wrists cuffed to the sling.  Again, it adds another level of excitement to the experience, and losing the control to use you hands to touch your cock, or anything else will certainly help you focus even more on how getting fucked is going to feel.

After the first top breeds you, you probably won't need much lube after that.  If you want to keep the loads in you, what I'll do is as the top starts to pull out after shooting his load, I'll clamp down so that when he pops out my hole is closed up tight to avoid any cum leaking out.  Once he's out, you can relax and it should stay closed enough to hold the cum inside, just don't push out at all.  When the next top is starting to push in, you can just relax and your hole will seal around his cock.

Encouraging the tops to push as deep in you as possible right before they cum will also help keep the loads in since it's deeper inside you.  Plus, the tops that follow along will push most of it deeper into you.  If there will be breaks, you can offer for them to put a butt plug in you which can feel good, and some tops really enjoy being the one to either put it in, or getting to pull it out so their cock can take it's place!

Finally, with a sling, try and set the height at a good spot that's comfortable for the tops.  If one of them isn't enjoying the height, hopefully he won't be too shy to suggest an adjustment.

[NWUSHorny]

Just relax and enjoy it!

[ejaculaTe]

Everything that BreedMeInVegas said -- especially about the blindfold (or eye mask), wrist restraints, and the sling position. Being blindfolded not only heightens your other senses, but (at least for me) adds an element of surrender or loss of control, as will the wrist restraints. Have a good time....

[erk916]

2 hours ago, BreedMeInVegas said:

After the first top breeds you, you probably won't need much lube after that.  If you want to keep the loads in you, what I'll do is as the top starts to pull out after shooting his load, I'll clamp down so that when he pops out my hole is closed up tight to avoid any cum leaking out.  Once he's out, you can relax and it should stay closed enough to hold the cum inside, just don't push out at all.  When the next top is starting to push in, you can just relax and your hole will seal around his cock.

Encouraging the tops to push as deep in you as possible right before they cum will also help keep the loads in since it's deeper inside you.  Plus, the tops that follow along will push most of it deeper into you.  If there will be breaks, you can offer for them to put a butt plug in you which can feel good, and some tops really enjoy being the one to either put it in, or getting to pull it out so their cock can take it's place!

Thank you very much and this is exactly the kind of advice I was looking for.  Great advice on how I can better take the cum deep inside of me and keep it in me.

I'll take your other suggestions about wearing a blindfold and/or handcuffs under consideration but I'm probably not quite ready for something like that yet especially the blindfold.  Something to try and look forward to in the future though.  Remember this will only be my 4th time bottoming in total.  Taking multiple cocks/loads will in itself be a huge step for me.  Blindfold suggestion is certainly intriguing though and will keep it in mind.

 

Edited March 10, 2020 by erk916

[JamesTheBBJedi]

4 hours ago, BreedMeInVegas said:

Dependent on how comfortable you are with the top you've been with, and just overall comfort, using a blindfold will add a different level of experience.  When you remove your sense of vision, your sense of feel and touch will elevate.  You'll find yourself focusing mostly on the feeling of the cock that's sliding in and out of you.  Also, notice I said 'the cock' because you will get so lost in the feeling, you will forget to try and keep track of who is inside you adding to the level of excitement.

Another aspect I enjoy when in the situation you'll be in, is to have my wrists cuffed to the sling.  Again, it adds another level of excitement to the experience, and losing the control to use you hands to touch your cock, or anything else will certainly help you focus even more on how getting fucked is going to feel.

well said!  Probably exactly (or very close to) how I would have replied. 
there’s something about the feeling when a guy cums inside of you. I have a hard time putting it into words that would do it any justice. Mind blowing? Epic? Life changing? Spiritual? Freeing? Nope - none of those capture how it feels to me. I’ve talked to some fellow bottoms who say that they can’t feel it at all when the guy cums - I honestly have no idea how that’s even possible, and if it is true, than I am sincerely sorry for them as they are missing out on one of the most incredible sexual experiences a person can have (in my humble opinion hehe).  But seriously, just relax and go into the night with ZERO expectations or assumptions, or even a plan for that matter. Let it happen organically, enjoy each moment for what it is, as it flows into the next moment...go with the flow and where the mood and chemistry take you, and embrace what you do get to experience without any regret or disappointment over things you did not get to (this time! 😈😊😉🐷). I didn’t experience sex with more than one partner until just this past October (10/16/2019, 4:30pm - 1:45am) what a night!  I asked a good FWB if he would help me finally live out this one specific fantasy, and he enthusiastically agreed. Knowing him and trusting him, then knew anybody he’d invite over was fully “vetted” 🤣👌🏻 and wouldn’t pit me in a position where my safety etc would be an issue. He even agreed to host (which was great since he has a fucking awesome sling, huge 65” screen tv playing a continuous stream of porn from whatever “genre” you would like, fridge stocked with plenty of water and other rehydration choices, nice shower with a clean-out attached, all the blindfolds, harnesses, lube, and other accessories to ensure the playroom is prepared for whatever goes down at any given time. He invited 4 buddies that night, 3 tops and one Vers top who agreed that he would not try and sneak in one of the cocks meant to plow and breed me himself.  Ended up taking 9 loads it total that night. By the time my buddy shot his first deep in my gut (he went first), I had the blindfold on and my wrists were strapped to the poles near my head....and fucking WOW!  Even though I had met each of them when they arrived and knew who was in the room - it was absolutely an incredible almost religious experience not knowing which one was inside of me at any given time. I highly recommend giving it a try. Just breath, relax, agree with your friend that he’s “got your back” and will know if you are in a bad spot or mindset. Enjoy it my friend - but be warned, you may just not be ready for how much you like it and how good it feels. It’s addicting. 

[Guest BreedMeInVegas]

On 3/9/2020 at 9:30 PM, erk916 said:

Thank you very much and this is exactly the kind of advice I was looking for.  Great advice on how I can better take the cum deep inside of me and keep it in me.

I'll take your other suggestions about wearing a blindfold and/or handcuffs under consideration but I'm probably not quite ready for something like that yet especially the blindfold.  Something to try and look forward to in the future though.  Remember this will only be my 4th time bottoming in total.  Taking multiple cocks/loads will in itself be a huge step for me.  Blindfold suggestion is certainly intriguing though and will keep it in mind.

 

The few times I've worn a blindfold in a open setting like at a bathhouse has always been when I've been with a fuck buddy who can keep an eye on things while it's happening.  Should have added that to my original suggestion since doing that on your own isn't something too many guys would be comfortable with, that's for sure.