my fwb is moving soon and idk what im gonna do

[josh567]

he was the first guy i experimented with and he was so nice and gentle with me.  he didnt wanna hurt me and that turned me on even more,  i felt so aroused and happy when he slid his bare dick in my ass and i was in heaven.  best thing i ever felt in my life.  and now he'll be across the country soon.  idk who i can trust.  i let this guy fuck me bare and cum deep inside my ass and it felt better and more erotic than any girl ive been with.  this really sucks.  i just wanna feel his cum in me as much as possible before he leaves.  never in a million years did i think id have gay urges and love gay sex so much.  his dick was perfect for me too and we were both clean and tested.

what can i do because im at least bisexual now but i dont give a shit.  getting fucked feels so good i dont care what they label me.  i just want that feeling again.

Edited June 7, 2020 by josh567

[ErosWired]

You don’t know what you’re going to do? I’m no fortune-teller, but I can tell your future - you’re going to go out looking for a guy to take his place, because you’ve crossed that inhibitory threshold, discovered how incredible it makes you feel, and you’re not going to want to stop.

So you’ll try out some of the apps you’ve heard about like Grindr or BBRTS, or depending on where you are and what you’re like, you might try out a gay bar or throw caution to the wind and check out a bathhouse. And whatever means you choose, you’ll pretty easily find men willing to cunt you.

But it’s a wild, wild (wild) world out here and you got lucky your first time; there’s no guarantee the next guy is going to be gentle or considerate.

Your best bet, of course, is to follow the traditional, and perfectly respectable, route of getting to know someone and actually becoming friends before moving on to the benefits. In the gay world, however, the fast-forward button seems to be stuck on the porn player, and things tend to advance quickly, if not immediately. I can’t count the number of times I’ve exchanged introductions with a guy only after he’s just fucked me.

Now, your post is that of someone newly aware of this facet of male sexuality, and yet you’re here, on a specialized forum for aficionados of bareback homosexual intercourse. Perhaps you’re genuine; perhaps you’re just having some fun. It doesn’t matter. My answer to the question assumes it’s for real, and there’s very little doubt what you’re going to do.

Have sensible fun, and take care of yourself.

[drscorpio]

You might see if your buddy knows someone  (or a few someones) he can introduce you to who are also good guys in your area.

Do you have any other gay friends you like and trust? They might be good options, too. 

Eventually, you will probably want to learn how to use apps and websites, but those are some good first steps you might take.