Anyone have a guy freak out on you after they cum?

[Guest MattDillan]

I just had a guy come over to my place and really wreck my hole (typical closeted married bi- guy from A4 ,  no profile photo).  After he shot his ball juice up my cunt, he totally freaked out.  He was shaking and just started saying “aw fuck, aw fuck” and literally RAN out the door.  It’s not like he got shit on his dick or something.
 Not to sound conceited, but I consider myself a really fuckable guy -  but damn...what could have triggered this guy??

Edited December 16, 2020 by MattDillan
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[kinkysuBB]

Closeted, bi, married. He got a lot less horny very quickly once he came, stopped thinking with his dick, and his brain went into overdrive.

[BBArchangel]

You have to remember that you’re not responsible for someone else’s triggers. You can’t possibly know what was in his head or in his past. He chose to be there and he chose to fuck you (good choice!). You did your part. I hope that doesn’t sound cold.

but if he contacts you again, ask directly what caused his reaction and explain that it made you uncomfortable. If he won’t talk, let him go. There are plenty of other men, and do you really need his drama?

 

 

[Dinoo]

When watching BiLatinMen and similar porn, that’s one of the ways to tell if they’re REALLY straight (among with them enjoying a half-assed blowjob but that’s outside this scope) so don’t feel offended at all - I can almost guarantee you he’s gonna be jacking off and thinking about your session before long!

[bbzh]

One of my good friends sucked off a guy at a porn theatre in Italy years ago. After the guy came in him, he insisted that my friend take the money he was offering. My friend said no it's not necessary, and the guy threatened him. So he took it because he was actually kind of frightened.  

[FFPuppigboi]

Yes, it was some random guy who hit up a friend on one of the apps... after he came and railed and even dp'ed me with my buddy he suddenly got the 'what did i just do' freak out and left. He was hot and he was back on the app with a new user last I heard from my buddy. So yeah closeted or dl guys who are still trying to come to terms that they enjoy guys as much if not more than gals.

[Close2MyBro]

I had that happen once before with a married str8 guy I met on adam4adam. We had been chatting for a couple of weeks, he had never been with another guy before so he was reluctant but he finally came over. Things went well considering he was new and he even seemed to be really getting into it, fucking my face and ass with no abandon, then he suddenly seemed have a guilt trip just as he was shooting his load deep in my ass.. he started saying "oh fuck what have i done, what have i done.. my wife is going to kill me if she finds out, what have i done..." etc.. he quickly pulled out, ran into the bathroom, cleaned himself up real fast, threw on his clothes and darted out without even saying goodbye. I logged in later that day and his profile has been deleted.

[DarkroomTaker]

Many years ago, A Priest, go figure? He wanted me to pray with him for my sins, I had his cum dripping out of my young ass too. So I did confession lol

[Close2MyBro]

1 hour ago, bbzh said:

One of my good friends sucked off a guy at a porn theatre in Italy years ago. After the guy came in him, he insisted that my friend take the money he was offering. My friend said no it's not necessary, and the guy threatened him. So he took it because he was actually kind of frightened.  

Some guys actually get off on paying for sex, and they don't get the full satisfaction unless they do. Other guys feel that if they paid for sex, then "it didn't mean anything" and they feel like they're not cheating on their spouses.

[Guest MattDillan]

3 hours ago, BBArchangel said:

You have to remember that you’re not responsible for someone else’s triggers. You can’t possibly know what was in his head or in his past. He chose to be there and he chose to fuck you (good choice!). You did your part. I hope that doesn’t sound cold.

but if he contacts you again, ask directly what caused his reaction and explain that it made you uncomfortable. If he won’t talk, let him go. There are plenty of other men, and do you really need his drama?

 

 

You’re right, thanks!!! But damn it was a good breeding session!

[Guest MattDillan]

3 hours ago, bbzh said:

One of my good friends sucked off a guy at a porn theatre in Italy years ago. After the guy came in him, he insisted that my friend take the money he was offering. My friend said no it's not necessary, and the guy threatened him. So he took it because he was actually kind of frightened.  

Wow! Now that’s fucking hot!

[Guest MattDillan]

1 hour ago, Close2MyBro said:

Some guys actually get off on paying for sex, and they don't get the full satisfaction unless they do. Other guys feel that if they paid for sex, then "it didn't mean anything" and they feel like they're not cheating on their spouses.

Really good perspective - thanks.  Guess I should have charged him instead of giving my hole away 🙂

[Pig4Fucking]

When I was young, back around the time that speech replaced sign language, after I had gay sex I just wanted to get away from the guy. Not freak or getting mean, just felt sort of grossed out by the whole thing BUT to  paraphrase  a previous poster, that was until the next time I got horny.

To answer your question, I had two guys, different times, flip on me after sex.  Both were straight, or claimed to be or were at that time etc...First guy just wanted to run away as quickly as possible as though he'd just come back to reality and realized what had just occurred and wanted to remove himself pronto. The other one was similar but started yelling at me that I "tried to make (him) me a fag, and I'm no fag !" followed by "you're  lucky I don't kick your ass", I damn near held the door for him to get out and was concerned for a while that he might come around again. He didn't.  Both happened years ago. 

Sounds like textbook cases of 'gay panic' and don't kid yourself, guys who suffer from homosexual panic can be dangerous.  Used to be referred to as Kempf's Disease. Now,  most homosexual related diseases/Illnesses have all been removed from the DSM which is great BUT there have plenty of legal cases where the defense will use the 'Gay Panic Defense' and get their client off.  Many straight men still believe that they would be perfectly justified in physically attacking a man for making a pass at them.  Murderers of gays have even gotten off or had greatly reduced sentences when their attorney used that defense. 

[Guest MattDillan]

2 hours ago, Pig4Fucking said:

When I was young, back around the time that speech replaced sign language, after I had gay sex I just wanted to get away from the guy. Not freak or getting mean, just felt sort of grossed out by the whole thing BUT to  paraphrase  a previous poster, that was until the next time I got horny.

To answer your question, I had two guys, different times, flip on me after sex.  Both were straight, or claimed to be or were at that time etc...First guy just wanted to run away as quickly as possible as though he'd just come back to reality and realized what had just occurred and wanted to remove himself pronto. The other one was similar but started yelling at me that I "tried to make (him) me a fag, and I'm no fag !" followed by "you're  lucky I don't kick your ass", I damn near held the door for him to get out and was concerned for a while that he might come around again. He didn't.  Both happened years ago. 

Sounds like textbook cases of 'gay panic' and don't kid yourself, guys who suffer from homosexual panic can be dangerous.  Used to be referred to as Kempf's Disease. Now,  most homosexual related diseases/Illnesses have all been removed from the DSM which is great BUT there have plenty of legal cases where the defense will use the 'Gay Panic Defense' and get their client off.  Many straight men still believe that they would be perfectly justified in physically attacking a man for making a pass at them.  Murderers of gays have even gotten off or had greatly reduced sentences when their attorney used that defense. 

Holy fuck you’re right.  It’s kind of hot AFTER it happens, but I

guess things can go south quite quickly.  I need a ‘wingman’ to watch on a security cam in case something happens!

Edited December 17, 2020 by MattDillan
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[Pig4Fucking]

We’d talked about me being your handler one night. Offer still open big guy.