InsatiableSub Posted December 31, 2020 Report Share Posted December 31, 2020 I have played several times with a couple of different guys who were into BDSM. I enjoyed it. Each session was nothing more than beginner-level for me but I want to go further. I've posted my interest on various sites but no dice. Any advice on how to become a regular BDSM sub for an experienced man willing to train me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimmi Posted January 1, 2021 Report Share Posted January 1, 2021 Recon, is my advice. And be honest in your profile about what you’re looking for. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Qilly55 Posted January 13, 2021 Report Share Posted January 13, 2021 It's all about trusting someone. I got into the bdsm lifestyle for a while. My master and I started with just me sucking his coc, getting to know me. We then went to him tying my hands up, slapping my face. I started to trust him and he gave me a safe word. By the end I let him do what pleased him. I was shaved, then he put ben gay on my cock and balls, elec.stim. , anal hooked while tied to his board that I laying on, caned, whipped, paddled, being video taped while he did this things to me. Made me fuck guys he used to bring to his house with me blind folded. After everything we went in his shower, he used to piss on me ,told me I was worthless. Then he would soap me up, rinse me, hug me. I was never allowed to cum. Once in a while before we showered he would jerk off on my face, made me jerk off and cum in my hand and made me eat it. I miss him still. Been about 2 years after serving him for about 10 years. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manseeker Posted February 3, 2021 Report Share Posted February 3, 2021 On 1/13/2021 at 7:43 AM, Qilly55 said: It's all about trusting someone. I got into the bdsm lifestyle for a while. My master and I started with just me sucking his coc, getting to know me. We then went to him tying my hands up, slapping my face. I started to trust him and he gave me a safe word. By the end I let him do what pleased him. I was shaved, then he put ben gay on my cock and balls, elec.stim. , anal hooked while tied to his board that I laying on, caned, whipped, paddled, being video taped while he did this things to me. Made me fuck guys he used to bring to his house with me blind folded. After everything we went in his shower, he used to piss on me ,told me I was worthless. Then he would soap me up, rinse me, hug me. I was never allowed to cum. Once in a while before we showered he would jerk off on my face, made me jerk off and cum in my hand and made me eat it. I miss him still. Been about 2 years after serving him for about 10 years. Sounds like a great relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shotsfired Posted April 22, 2021 Report Share Posted April 22, 2021 If you have a local leather shop or bar, get to know the staff. They will not only usually steer you to safe players, but warn you about the dangerous guys. They also can steer you to some great specialists who are masters at their kink. Young guys. Avoid the trap of age-sorting. The Senior players are often more than willing to show you everything they know and are a lot of fun. They are there to play not pose. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beefykinkysub Posted April 23, 2021 Report Share Posted April 23, 2021 On 1/13/2021 at 7:43 AM, Qilly55 said: It's all about trusting someone. I got into the bdsm lifestyle for a while. My master and I started with just me sucking his coc, getting to know me. We then went to him tying my hands up, slapping my face. I started to trust him and he gave me a safe word. By the end I let him do what pleased him. I was shaved, then he put ben gay on my cock and balls, elec.stim. , anal hooked while tied to his board that I laying on, caned, whipped, paddled, being video taped while he did this things to me. Made me fuck guys he used to bring to his house with me blind folded. After everything we went in his shower, he used to piss on me ,told me I was worthless. Then he would soap me up, rinse me, hug me. I was never allowed to cum. Once in a while before we showered he would jerk off on my face, made me jerk off and cum in my hand and made me eat it. I miss him still. Been about 2 years after serving him for about 10 years. So beautiful. You were lucky. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cum4cubber Posted April 23, 2021 Report Share Posted April 23, 2021 (edited) 7 hours ago, Shotsfired said: Avoid the trap of age-sorting. The Senior players are often more than willing to show you everything they know and are a lot of fun. They are there to play not pose. This is so true! I had many veteran players show me the ropes. Edited April 23, 2021 by cum4cubber 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimmi Posted August 23, 2021 Report Share Posted August 23, 2021 Oh, some other advice, be a bit patient; let the intensity build as the trust does. you don’t have to try everything thing at the first meeting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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