Where can I start?

[InsatiableSub]

I have played several times with a couple of different guys who were into BDSM. I enjoyed it. Each session was nothing more than beginner-level for me but I want to go further.

I've posted my interest on various sites but no dice.

Any advice on how to become a regular BDSM sub for an experienced man willing to train me?

[Jimmi]

Recon, is my advice.  And be honest in your profile about what you’re looking for. 

[Qilly55]

It's all about trusting someone. I got into the bdsm lifestyle for a while. My master and I started with just me sucking his coc, getting to know me. We then went to him tying my hands up, slapping my face. I started to trust him and he gave me a safe word. By the end I let him do what pleased him.

I was shaved, then he put ben gay on my cock and balls, elec.stim. , anal hooked while tied to his board that I laying on, caned, whipped, paddled, being video taped while he did this things to me. Made me fuck guys he used to bring to his house with me blind folded. After everything we went in his shower, he used to piss on me ,told me I was worthless. Then he would soap me up, rinse me, hug me.

I was never allowed to cum. Once in a while before we showered he would jerk off on my face, made me jerk off and cum in my hand and made me eat it. 

I miss him still. Been about 2 years after serving him for about 10 years. 

[manseeker]

On 1/13/2021 at 7:43 AM, Qilly55 said:

It's all about trusting someone. I got into the bdsm lifestyle for a while. My master and I started with just me sucking his coc, getting to know me. We then went to him tying my hands up, slapping my face. I started to trust him and he gave me a safe word. By the end I let him do what pleased him.

I was shaved, then he put ben gay on my cock and balls, elec.stim. , anal hooked while tied to his board that I laying on, caned, whipped, paddled, being video taped while he did this things to me. Made me fuck guys he used to bring to his house with me blind folded. After everything we went in his shower, he used to piss on me ,told me I was worthless. Then he would soap me up, rinse me, hug me.

I was never allowed to cum. Once in a while before we showered he would jerk off on my face, made me jerk off and cum in my hand and made me eat it. 

I miss him still. Been about 2 years after serving him for about 10 years. 

Sounds like a great relationship.

[Shotsfired]

If you have a local leather shop or bar,  get to know the staff.  They will not only usually steer you to safe players,  but warn you about the dangerous guys.  

They also can steer you to some great specialists who are masters at their kink.

Young guys.  Avoid the trap of age-sorting. The Senior players are often more than willing to show you everything they know and are a lot of fun. They are there to play not pose.  

 

[Beefykinkysub]

On 1/13/2021 at 7:43 AM, Qilly55 said:

It's all about trusting someone. I got into the bdsm lifestyle for a while. My master and I started with just me sucking his coc, getting to know me. We then went to him tying my hands up, slapping my face. I started to trust him and he gave me a safe word. By the end I let him do what pleased him.

I was shaved, then he put ben gay on my cock and balls, elec.stim. , anal hooked while tied to his board that I laying on, caned, whipped, paddled, being video taped while he did this things to me. Made me fuck guys he used to bring to his house with me blind folded. After everything we went in his shower, he used to piss on me ,told me I was worthless. Then he would soap me up, rinse me, hug me.

I was never allowed to cum. Once in a while before we showered he would jerk off on my face, made me jerk off and cum in my hand and made me eat it. 

I miss him still. Been about 2 years after serving him for about 10 years. 

So beautiful. You were lucky. 

[cum4cubber]

7 hours ago, Shotsfired said:

Avoid the trap of age-sorting. The Senior players are often more than willing to show you everything they know and are a lot of fun. They are there to play not pose.  

 

This is so true! I had many veteran players show me the ropes.

Edited April 23, 2021 by cum4cubber

[Jimmi]

Oh, some other advice, be a bit patient; let the intensity build as the trust does.    you don’t have to try everything thing at the first meeting.