Advice for beginners

[JamesinMac]

I'm a middle ages married guy that gets hard as much from solo jo porn as I do straight porn. I get serious urges to suck a cock. I've tried a couple of times but haven't quite gotten the hang of it. Any advice from those of you more experienced? I really want to experience a nice cock shooting a load.

[InsatiableSub]

I'm guessing you're trying to emulate porn star pros by attempting to deep throat other guys. Kudos to you if you can. I cannot. Once I figured that out, I learned to concentrate in slow stroking movements, licking, running my lips up down his shaft, swirlimg my tongur around his cock head.

When you realize hes gettimg into it, start using your lips and tongue to just go up and down in a smooth motion, taking as much into your mouth as yiure comfortable doing.

He'll cum, trusy me.

[BruxoCub]

Start slow lick, sniff, tease.

I like to start when the cock is soft (if possible), nothing is hotter than making a man throb with your mouth.

A good blowjob is more than sucking. Your tongue should be rolling, twirling, and swirling the entire time.

Wrap one hand around the shaft of the penis. So that you can stroke in time with the up and down motion of your mouth. Feel free to use varying degrees of pressure. Swivel and corkscrew around the shaft, keeping rhythm.

Don't use teeth!

If your jaw gets tired, shift the focal point to your cheek (rather than the center of your mouth toward your throat). This will give your jaw a break while continuing to provide stimulation to the head of the penis.

If you're afraid to deep throat (or your gag reflex isn't cooperating), use your hands to isolate your mouth to the head, or point the cock toward the top of your mouth.

Every cock is different, (size, shape, width, smell, hair, etc)... practice!! 🙂

[ShyBBFag]

My biggest note is spit makes everything better. Drool all over that cock and it’ll make it easier for you to deepthroat too. Which then makes it even sloppier so it’s a good cycle

[Bokkierob]

First, concentrate on his cock. Kneel before him. Tease his cock to erection, nuzzle his balls, flick your tong on his shaft and helmet. When he’s fully erect place one hand round the base of his shaft and cup his balls with the other. Take as much of his shaft in your mouth as you can manage. Now close your lips round his shaft and keep your teeth well clear. Use your tongue top red his cock hard against the roof of your mouth - this makes your mouth feel tight on his cock - he will love it. He will want to thrust so you can control how far down your throat he goes with your hand round his shaft. Breathe through your nose and keep your tongue pressed on the underside of his cock. When you sense he’s about to cum get ready to swallow - do NOT pull off his cock while he is cumming, let him finish emptying  his balls in your mouth. Swallow all his sperm and keep his cock in your mouth until he is ready to withdraw. Thank him for his load. Enjoy buddy, hope you get to swallow some massive loads.

Edited February 3, 2021 by Bokkierob

[Bhamneg]

If you’re feeling nervous about sucking a big cock or you have a sensitive gag reflex, hit some poppers. You’ll be more relaxed and hornier yourself.

 

All good suggestions above, and you’ll probably find it comes naturally too you anyway. Just remember to vary your movements so he doesn’t get bored

[Guest]

Just relax and keep sucking.

Each time you suck you’ll get better at it.

I sucked at sucking for awhile but my friend didn’t complain.

[YourNoLimitsBottom]

I've found that tracing the tip of my tongue under his cock head usually gets a favorable reaction. I try to do that on the up-stroke, then swallow him into my throat on the down-stroke.

While it is one of my favorite positions, the throat-swab position (laying on your back on a bed with your head hanging over the side) was great for helping me learn to deepthroat. The angle is great for helping him reach deeper, and you can work on controlling your gag reflex. You can swallow as he pushes in to draw him into your throat. It's great for practice, and I recommend A LOT of practice. Lots and lots of messy, slutty practice....

Enjoy!

[camelblue]

Find out what he likes and learn to do it. Pay attention to how he responds. Every guy is different so you have to find out what's doing it for him. Make sure you stay active whatever you're doing. 

The first stage for me is enjoying his cock, licking and sucking it how I want, testing the waters for what he likes. When you want to make him cum, use a constant rhythm and motion and don't stop. 

Don't be afraid to swallow his cum when he shoots it. Get used to that ultimate submission early, as nervous as you might be. The easiest way to do it is to accept that it's not your choice, it's his. When you realize that, the rush of eating his load will likely make you cum.