Top, Bottom, or Versatile?

[hungry_hole]

I'm always curious about the "role labels" that men you use when they have sex with other men. Although some guys don't have any use for either the role or the labels, many others do subscribe to these roles and labels.

I'm curious about what determines the fact that some men are tops, others are bottoms, and others versatiles.

A) If you are a "top", (1) You have you tried bottoming and you didn't like being fucked (2) Used to be bottom, maybe until you pozed (3) Trying to stay HIV-neg by being a top.

If you are a "bottom" (1) You tried toping and didn't like it (why?) (2) You were a top but then switched to bottom

C) If you are "versatile" (1) You like flip-fucking or are you a serial-versatile (2) What determines whether you top or bottom?

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I'll start by saying that I'm 100% bottom. I tried fucking a couple of times and I don't like it. I don't even enjoy getting my cock sucked or even touched. I allow guys to suck me just to reciprocate.

I see myself switching to a more versatile role if I pozed, but otherwise I'll stay a bottom and keep enjoying it.

[obsidian]

I'm versatile. I wouldn't want to be exclusively anything. That's the beauty of being a gay man, there is such a diverse range of sexual experiences that you can have. However, there I do recognise that there are reasons that prevent people from bottoming, even if they want too.

[thick]

i prefer to top and am totally a top now. when I was young i would bottom but it never felt like the correct role for me. besides its easier being a top and less work to prepare for the fuck

[VersBareCub]

I'm just a sex pig. I'll take it any way I can get it. Because of the prevalence of bottoms in the world, I spend most of my time topping and love to breed a hot hole. I kind of enjoy bottoming more simply because it doesn't happen often enough!

[cmmolthr]

Even though many profiles of mine may say something along the lines of "90% Passive", I'd have to say that is becoming closer and closer to 100$....I have topped in the past, but it's been an incredibly long time.

[hungry_hole]

I'm versatile. I wouldn't want to be exclusively anything. That's the beauty of being a gay man, there is such a diverse range of sexual experiences that you can have...

For me the beauty of sex with men is that you can choose the role. As with women you can't.

I can easily jerk-off and cum 3-4 times in a few hours period. And I could be a top and fuck a few times at a bathhouse. As slong as the sex is bareback I can get in the mood very easily, whether is with porn or real-time action.

But I don't enjoy fucking. Maybe I'm turned-off by the possibility of a dirty hole. I know the couple of times I've fucked the bottom has squeezed his hole which I've found very uncomfortable. I'm not into topping but when it comes to sex with men I can choose to bottom then.

[hungry_hole]

...besides its easier being a top and less work to prepare for the fuck

This is a good point. Many tops have no idea that a hole needs to be cleaned and that it takes work and sometimes time.

But still, I'll do the work.

[hungry_hole]

I'm alayws curious of those guys who label themselves as "bottom-versatile". I read many profiles in BarebackRT.com of bottom-versatiles who describe themselves as bottoms (I like taking loads, etc). When is a bottom-versatile toping? Any bottom-versatiles?

[Guest GoodExercise]

I usually top -- like 90% of the time. I will be bottom (with no flip fucking) for a hot guy, or sometimes if I am just in the mood. I flip fuck with any guy that licks my asshole and has a rock hard cock to penetrate my tight hole and seed me.

[MAIKOL20]

I tried it all and now I'm just a bottom and love it! Love the feeling, love my role, love getting serviced, and love takin man loads where they thrill me and fill me.

[Ingulphus]

I describe myself as a complete bottom, both for practical reasons (my dick won't stay hard reliably, and it takes me a long time to cum) and for emotional ones (it feels right for me to submit to a man's lust, rather than dominate). That said, I've topped my husband, as he comes quickly and I don't have to worry about my cock going flaccid after a few minutes. When I have topped him, I can get rough and dom, which is what it takes to get him off.

[hungry_hole]

But I guess "versatile" is sometimes being horny and needing to blow your load. Last night I saw a guy taking a load from another guy who I had seen getting his hole creamed in his room. If asked the guy may say he's verastile because he can give and recieve loads. But is he really versatile in the sense that he really enjoys toping and creaming holes? Or toping is just using a hole instead of the hand, usually shooting quickly. I don't top because I've tried it and don't like it. So when I get fucked I usually wait till I get home and jerk-off before going to sleep.

What I do, jerk-off, is almost the same some "bottoms" do, but instead they use a hole.

I think that to be versatile one has to really enjoy fucking as well as getting fucked.

[VersAlwaysLooking]

100% top. I've tried bottoming and just don't enjoy it at all.

[Ingulphus]

YngBBTop -

Absolutely nothing wrong with that - 100% tops are what we 100% bottoms dream of...

[Guest Boxir55]

I mainly top because I enjoy it and I have a dominant personality, I will bottom though if I really like a guy enough. I am also a bit lazy LOL when I top I don't have to worry about cleaning myself and as I always bareback i don't need to worry about getting the condom off, the load is neatly packed into the bottoms hole. Sometimes I get a dirty hole but as long as its not too bad it doesn't bother me.

Although I do describe myself as versatile I am a bit picky about who I let fuck me, he needs to have a good sized cock, thin ones don't do much for me, and it needs to be raw I don't like condoms in my hole.