What do you think about strapons?

[MoonDreamer]

I'm very confused about men who like being fucked with a strapon. I can't understand whether they're gay (or bi at least) or they really like women. If the idea of being dominate is the key characteristic, isn't it weird to use a "male part" to achieve this domination? And if the means of domination and domination itself is the key characteristic does that mean that they would enjoy being fucked by a man? Furthermore, does the size of the strapon/dildo count? Wouldn't they think bigger is better? In such porn videos I always thought the dildo to be tiny and the woman who fucks to moan for no reason. Plus, isn't it boring since the woman can't feel?

[NWUSHorny]

I'm bi, so I would let a woman use a strap-on or a double headed toy with me at least occasionally if she had a desire to do so.

With another man, hell no, I do not want to play dildos, strap-ons, double headed, or fake extensions with you. Since we are men and have the penetration equipment there is no excuse for using toys instead of a cock. I've never had this problem anywhere else I've lived or traveled, but I have made a few local guys mad for refusing to play dildos with them. We have cocks and should  use them in sex, I have no interest in replacing the cock with a toy when having gay sex.

[barebackbro]

I have used a dildo precisely twice. For me, it's the real thing or nothing.

If I were with a woman, or a man who couldn't get or hard didn't want to fuck, it's simple: I do the fucking.

[Latinbtm9764]

I agree and disagree. Assuming the male partner is female, then OP brings up an interesting question about the man sexuality. And I honestly don't know the answer to that being a gay man that hasn't played with women since my late teens. Now what if the partner is FTM then I can see a reason for a strap on. But if we're talking man on man sex, then it doesn't make sense to me to throw on a strap on if you already have the equipment. Unless your equipment is on the smaller side, I guess I can see an argument for it. But even then, for me personally, I would never want my male partner to use a strap on. I would want him to fuck me and breed me. You just can't get that with a strap on. 

Dildos. Now this is a whole other story. I have a dildo and use it often. In fact my partner has used it on me many times and help me reach climax with it. BUT. and thats a big but. We don't bust out the dildo until after he has had his way with my ass and bred my ass good. Its always secondary.

-Much love and cum Fellas.

Edited October 21, 2022 by Latinbtm9764
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[ErosWired]

I have been bred by a woman using a strapon, and she railed me with as much gusto as any man. But it wasn’t the same experience (I’m not into FemDom for aa start) and I would generally not expect a male to use a strapon. The exception would be a Top suffering from an intractable form of erectile dysfunction who nonetheless wanted to feel the sexual satisfaction of intimacy in being able to fuck someone. Also, I can see a place for it as an augment to regular fucking. Recently my regular local Top, who has a quite serviceable cock of average dimensions, took one of my oversized dildoes, held it to his groin, and began fucking me with it as though it were a part of him. It took the fuck to a new level for both of us before he finished up with his own cock.

[TaKinGDeePanal]

If my top has drained his balls and wants to keep fucking but is starting to get soft (various reasons, some of which I can't allude to in this forum) I can sometimes convince him to strap it on and continue fucking me. For me, it's about being totally dominated which means that my top has 100% permission to use whatever he wants on me.

I've also been with women who wanted to see what it was like to have a cock (plus it's basically the only way that a lot of them think they can dominate a man, so I love making them occasionally feel superior - and the only one who didn't want to try it with me of my 4 relationships was my ex-wife - there again, she is a Latina and the overwhelming consensus seems to be that they only ever feel the need to be subservient to men). I like to make EVERYONE'S time and experience pleasurable.

[downtownswallow]

I own several dildos, sleeves, plugs and other toys.  I use them to dilate my hole and some of my sex partners enjoy using them on me or watching before we fuck.  My ownership is to make my sex life better.