why guys flake ?

[ShaneJF]

sometimes I got approached by guys on apps and we pretty much hit it off, after long chats we decided to meet, 

however, some of them just flake and never respond to my message again, I am just a bit curious wh y they flake last minute? 

[Aixactif]

I think it is often when fantasy meets reality. It’s easy to talk about sex. Showing up, being naked, not blowing your load too fast. Lots to make some guys flake. 

[Bottom Jim]

Some guys love to talk about fucking a man .Maybe they get off that way Don’t be discouraged I must get two flakes a week I can tell because they talk far too much. When I offer my address they disappy

[Oldercumslut]

Sometimes they are just whacking off also.  Usually if they disapear int he middle of a conversation, that’s what happened.

One of my jobs is investigating health care workers that run afoul with social media.   There is a theory called the Online Disinhibition syndrome.  When online they feel safe and free to do what they want, and then like mentioned above the reality scares them.

[BlackDude]

Most guys are holding out for something better. They’ve made a calculation that they’d rather save their nut for that perfect situation/guy.