Do you refuse tops that insist on condoms

[jcklvrga]

Are there others here like me? As a sub bottom on the one hand I don't like to turn down an interested top. But, when a top insists on condom use honestly I lose all interest in sex with them and turn them down. Do you let tops that require condoms fuck you? And the whole time someone with a condom is fucking me I cannot stop thinking the condom will come off and get stuck up my ass...have had that happen where I have to pull a condom out of my ass..hate that.

Edited August 4, 2023 by jcklvrga

[plisken]

If I crave the fuck I'll take the fuck, condom or not

[rockhard801]

Since I went bare only, I have not had a top insist on a condom.  If a top goes to use a condom or asks about one, I just say I prefer bare.  I have had a few leave but most willingly plunge in raw.

[Trek53]

Normally if they insist on fucking safe I can usually convince them to at least finish in my mouth 

[Guest]

I refuse them emphatically.  

[GingerLoadChaser]

No condoms ever. I want the raw cock and the hot load

[Vancrawman]

4 minutes ago, GingerLoadChaser said:

No condoms ever. I want the raw cock and the hot load

As it always should be!

[norefusal]

luckily it rarely comes up. 

one guy insisted and at the time i figured it was better than not getting fucked at all but, eh. 

another time was with a repeat guy who is married. i got his reasoning but once we built up trust he gave up the condoms. 

[rawsatyr]

At a sex=party I typically join the smirking DISBELIEF crowd when an old-school, nervous 'safe sex' player mumbles something about 'oh fun, let me find a condom'. That shit won't get me. I want me sex RAW, bb, BAREBACK, skin-on-skin as in DEVOUTLY UNSAFE and anxious to accept or share random DNA. Won't know his name, his 'status' or possibly what he 'looked like' in a police line-up... but if I see or hear anything about CONDOMS I hop up and out like it's KRYPTONITE!

OOPS look at the time! I politely decline!

[jcklvrga]

10 minutes ago, rawsatyr said:

At a sex=party I typically join the smirking DISBELIEF crowd when an old-school, nervous 'safe sex' player mumbles something about 'oh fun, let me find a condom'. That shit won't get me. I want me sex RAW, bb, BAREBACK, skin-on-skin as in DEVOUTLY UNSAFE and anxious to accept or share random DNA. Won't know his name, his 'status' or possibly what he 'looked like' in a police line-up... but if I see or hear anything about CONDOMS I hop up and out like it's KRYPTONITE!

OOPS look at the time! I politely decline!

I 1000% agree with you 

[Vancrawman]

35 minutes ago, rawsatyr said:

At a sex=party I typically join the smirking DISBELIEF crowd when an old-school, nervous 'safe sex' player mumbles something about 'oh fun, let me find a condom'. That shit won't get me. I want me sex RAW, bb, BAREBACK, skin-on-skin as in DEVOUTLY UNSAFE and anxious to accept or share random DNA. Won't know his name, his 'status' or possibly what he 'looked like' in a police line-up... but if I see or hear anything about CONDOMS I hop up and out like it's KRYPTONITE!

OOPS look at the time! I politely decline!

Totally! It's not really sex if it's not RAW.

[GingerLoadChaser]

7 minutes ago, Vancrawman said:

Totally! It's not really sex if it's not RAW.

exactly!

[Hottightass4u]

No.  A fuck’s a fuck.  Would hope the condom breaks, though.

[Guest Indynudeguy]

I got fucked with a condom once.  That was the first and the last time.  I hated it.  The smell, the feel, the sound.  Never again.  Raw only.

[PigFaggot2904]

Long time friend of mine (almost 20 years) is a huge pig & nasty piss daddy, but never fucked bareback until PrEP came along--he's in his late 50s, and he had a partner in the 1990s who died of AIDS complications.  The sex was hot, but knowing a condom was in the way, was always a bit of a buzz kill.  In addition, even in my 20s, I couldn't stay hard when fucking with a condom but it was required for sticking it in my friend's hole--his body, his boundaries.  For the first time recently, I got to feel his bare dick in my hole--all 8" of it.  It was heavenly.