You know the feeling...

[NWUSHorny]

23 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

i can't speak universally, but for me the connection is mutual, primal lust.  When i realize the lust in Man to penetrate and breed me, it connects to my desire/need to be penetrated and bred... it almost seems autonomic lol. 

The primal lust is really important, I guess I've never really considered that a connection. The general lack of primal lust in the fuck venues is probably what I dislike the most about living in the PNW, it seems like really good fucks are few and far between. 

[hntnhole]

On 10/17/2023 at 4:53 PM, NWUSHorny said:

I'm curious, what makes up the "connection" in wanton casual fucking?

It's a bit difficult to describe / translate into script.  That said ....

There are times when one (or more) of the following occurs:  not all that often, but occasionally.

a)  a guy, T or b, walks into a fuckjoint, and witnesses several guys taking loads.  One in particular fascinates him more then the others - not physically, but mentally/emotionally.  It might be the reactions the bottom is expressing, it might be something else, but it's something more than just "I wanna fuck each of those guys, but somehow that one's even more special".

b) A bottom walks into the same room, and finds one particular Top fascinating, not really knowing why.  The more he watches the Top rut, the more he knows he needs that particular Cock up his gut.  The Cock belonging to that particular Top.  

The attraction is more an ephemeral thing than an overt thought that "I need that Cock/Man in my Hole".  When two men of similar mental/emotional mindset fuck, it can be more than just a fuck - it can be a sharing, an exchange, and exponentially more thrilling.  It doesn't mean love, it doesn't mean they're going to even exchange names/numbers.  It does mean that for a beautiful few minutes, the two men are mating not only physically, but mentally/emotionally/spiritually.  Spirituality certainly exists; the problem with using that word immediately summons  forth the Organized Religion mess, which seldom has much to do with the "connection" we're talking about.  

It's similar to meeting some person (not necessarily in a sexual situation - regardless of the context), and you both really "hit it off".  You want to see more of that person, and they want to experience more of you.  Neither of you know exactly why, but each person realizes there's a special "vibe", and finds it particular fulfilling.  In a sexual context, that means fucking/mating/sharing of their deepest needs, without necessarily speaking one word.  

I know it sounds nutty to folks that haven't experienced it, but for those who have, it's magical.  Hope this helps ....