tired of my tight ass.

[rawTOP]

PLEASE don't use dildos... I hate bottoms who use dildos a lot - you can tell it when you fuck them - it just doesn't feel as good - and visually their asses look abused and tired. Which would you rather have - a dildo or a real dick?

I'd suggest trying butt plugs. IMHO, they're something more bottoms should use. I wish a bottom would show up at my place with a butt plug in him. If you've been wearing a butt plug for a couple hours, when you pull it out your hole won't completely close up for quite a while. An open hole is sorta hot... Because it clenched around the butt plug it will be tight, but not as tight as if you didn't have it in. The slight be more looseness might be enough to get you over your problem.

Back when I was in college and versatile I used to like butt plugs. I'd put them in and go to class. It was sorta hot walking around with something big and substantial up your butt. You knew, but no one else did...

Do be careful the butt plus is completely smooth - I had one that had a defect - sort of a slightly sharp bump. I sometimes wonder if that's how I got a tear down there (which is a big part of what turned me into a top).

[PhoenixGeoff]

Do be careful the butt plus is completely smooth - I had one that had a defect - sort of a slightly sharp bump. I sometimes wonder if that's how I got a tear down there (which is a big part of what turned me into a top).

This is exactly why I say that if you're feeling pain, you need to at least stop and probably back off and take a break. Pain is a signal that there's something wrong; failure to pay attention can end your career as a bottom.

[Cumhunt]

Great advice. Thanks. Nice hearing how others work through the tight hole issue.

Hey geekyandkinky, same here. LOL Sometimes it's frustrating, isn't it? You're longing for a rough ride but, once you take it, your ass stings for days.

Well, I guess some people are luckier with that, but I guess it CAN be trained. You should use dildos, of course. I don't like them particularly: if we agree that condoms chafe, why would one take a latex or silicone pole up and down one's hole? I recommend you use butt plugs. They're solely made for stretching your ass. No throbbing game, just plug it in and leave it there for a while. Your body will try to get rid of the butt plug, but keep it there for a while.

My personal experience is that I recently bought one, played with it for a while, and had a decently open hole for the rest of the day. I was fucked twice, with no problems (quite amazing for me). But I don't know for how long the effects will last, or how often I should use it. I envy my bf, who can take really thick cocks with no prob., only pleasure and enjoyment.

On the lubricants side, I use vaseline too, just to lube my hole during the day. I realize it's more relaxed and open. I bought a cheap bulky pot at the supermarket, supposedly made for lips or whatever... When I use it some hours before being fucked, I realize my ass will open up more smoothly and everything will slide in. I've heard there exist some specific ass-relaxing sprays. I've never used them since they're quite expensive, and you might as well use poppers for a general effect... but you can try.

I suppose that what we need is a training plan for our assholes. Does anybody here know some? I've googled it so many times...

[TonyRedux]

This is exactly why I say that if you're feeling pain, you need to at least stop and probably back off and take a break. Pain is a signal that there's something wrong; failure to pay attention can end your career as a bottom.

u would hate my fuck...

[Male22192]

Try an enema. You can grab a kit at Wal-Mart for $5. I use it once or twice a week. Not only do I feel cleaner,

but I also feel healthier since I started using them. The other benefit is that my extremely tight hole has now become more receptivite to having things in it.

[cockjockey]

couldn't have said it better myself.

[geekyandkinky]

FYI been using my hole a lot the last couple of months with cocks and toys while partying. i started to notice tonight i can take stuff easier and it feels so much more amazing in me. i am finally breaking in my hole. cant wait till i can get plowed like those slutty bare bottoms i watch in porn all the time. i want to work on getting a gaping well fucked and fisted cum filled hole. i want my ass to be as used as a real slutty bottoms ass should be.