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Hey men!  Where are good places to find others into S&M?  I have not really had any luck and would like to find some Sadistic men in and around Indiana.  But I’m sure this topic could help others as well.

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Recon.com

I have met some sadistic guys on there. But 4 years on it only 2 guys I have played with.  It's slow. Maybe in your area it's good.

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4 hours ago, Njn0mc said:

Recon.com

I have met some sadistic guys on there. But 4 years on it only 2 guys I have played with.  It's slow. Maybe in your area it's good.

It's definitely a dead end where I am. I received a total of one message in 4 years.

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i've had similar experiences w site like recon or buddy etc. anyone you chat w is way far away and the 3 guys even remote close are of course the polar opposite of what your looking for. any effort to make s&m happen always seems to come up short, not sure why. 

even joining the local leather group produced nada, although i've had some fun w sadists i've met thru the local nudist group. go figure. 

anyone else i've met on sniffies or scruff or even live cruising areas and just been lucky to find a fellow kinkster. although they've all similarly petered out too.. mostly because so much of s&m also seems to be chemsex and i'm not ready to make long term commitment w a drug addiction. 

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15 hours ago, TaKinGDeePanal said:

It's definitely a dead end where I am. I received a total of one message in 4 years.

Yea. It has been a dead end for a few years here. The two guys I did meet a few years ago are gone. One passed away and the other is not on recon any more.

The one that passed was a lot of fun.

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On 4/18/2024 at 8:13 AM, norefusal said:

i've had similar experiences w site like recon or buddy etc. anyone you chat w is way far away and the 3 guys even remote close are of course the polar opposite of what your looking for. any effort to make s&m happen always seems to come up short, not sure why. 

even joining the local leather group produced nada, although i've had some fun w sadists i've met thru the local nudist group. go figure. 

anyone else i've met on sniffies or scruff or even live cruising areas and just been lucky to find a fellow kinkster. although they've all similarly petered out too.. mostly because so much of s&m also seems to be chemsex and i'm not ready to make long term commitment w a drug addiction. 

Same here. Most sadistic guys I have chatted with are far away. Never know if they are serious or just there to wank (alright with me). 

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I recently had a few hits where I am, not much but there are some hidden.  I recently got a older guy into it and brought out his darkside.. lol

Told him to tie me up arms and leggs wide with rope. It got him him so hot and wild with me in a slave state and gave me a grest session with toys and his cock.

I have to laugh.  He bought leather restraints and chaps with more toys. All he talks about is getting me back in that position.. lol

He told me after our last meet it turned him into a evil guy and tied a twink the next day.  I told him to watch more bsdm porn for ideas..lol

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My only idea is Recon, but agree with the others, It is ore dead than it used to be.   And more guys seem to be looking for sex more than BDSM.

Is the S/m scene dying because PreP has made BB encounters the norm?  Maybe I'm wrong, but I kinda suspected the kink scene surged as an alternative to higher HIV risk play.

Sad.  Can't find a flogging top to save my life.

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