Do you feel masculine when you bottom?

[Ben1970]

On 5/31/2024 at 5:30 PM, pupHawaii said:

to me getting fucked (and sucking dick!) isn't masculine or feminine - as a bottom it's what i love to do ..  i just want "him" to feel good and unload in me!

That’s says it for me

[Tiboer]

As a bottom, I am the top’s equal in that act:  he needs me as much as I need him.  I give him pleasure as he gives me pleasure.  I’m not particularly submissive or aggressive—I just do what the moment allows.

 

[Room4ustwo]

I much prefer getting fucked when I am naked or dressed in a jock or thong and not dressed like a woman.  If a guy wants to fuck a feminized guy, why doesnt he just fuck an actual woman?  I want to feel masculine but it doesnt matter what I want.  

[OnMyKnz]

No, I feel very submissive and femme. I love being manhandled nd roughed up a little. I especially like being called a whore, slut, cum faggot and being talked down to. The more I get those things the more femme I feel and the more I want cock in me, either end.

[topblkmale]

On 10/9/2025 at 2:19 PM, Room4ustwo said:

I much prefer getting fucked when I am naked or dressed in a jock or thong and not dressed like a woman.  If a guy wants to fuck a feminized guy, why doesn't he just fuck an actual woman?  I want to feel masculine but it doesnt matter what I want.  

 

Good question.

There's a lot more to it

but short answer:

some dominant tops enjoy the process of turning an alpha masculine man into their bottom bitch

 

[RobertBottomSlut]

2 minutes ago, topblkmale said:

 

Good question.

There's a lot more to it

but short answer:

some dominant tops enjoy the process of turning an alpha masculine man into their bottom bitch

 

And some of us so badly need to be turned into that alpha masculine man’s bottom bitch. 

[blackrobe]

8 minutes ago, topblkmale said:

Good question.

There's a lot more to it

but short answer:

some dominant tops enjoy the process of turning an alpha masculine man into their bottom bitch

Sex is about power. 

I know that breeders mounting and using me are expressing their power. For some, they know how surrender feels around their dick. They can feel when you dissolve into a compliant fuck sheath for them to seed.

For others, they need more visible symbols. More overt submission, feminization, surrendering of male power, etc. Most every top's favorite fuck position has something to do with expressing their power over the bottom. We can't be surprised at their enjoyment of transgressive fucking expression sexual domination. 

[WhoringForCrystal]

Not that this is all encompassing or authoritative, and it is just the effect on myself both emotionally and psychologically, but  bottoming is gender-affirming and emasculating for me, not to mention submissively degrading in a power-exchange dynamic.  I know very well and fully understand that not everyone experiences the event the same way, but that is my take. I love it, and I love being pushed beyond my limits which adds to the effect- and I could go into that more, but I won't bore or upset people.