Do you feel masculine when you bottom?

[Ben1970]

On 5/31/2024 at 5:30 PM, pupHawaii said:

to me getting fucked (and sucking dick!) isn't masculine or feminine - as a bottom it's what i love to do ..  i just want "him" to feel good and unload in me!

That’s says it for me

[Tiboer]

As a bottom, I am the top’s equal in that act:  he needs me as much as I need him.  I give him pleasure as he gives me pleasure.  I’m not particularly submissive or aggressive—I just do what the moment allows.

 

[Room4ustwo]

I much prefer getting fucked when I am naked or dressed in a jock or thong and not dressed like a woman.  If a guy wants to fuck a feminized guy, why doesnt he just fuck an actual woman?  I want to feel masculine but it doesnt matter what I want.  

[OnMyKnz]

No, I feel very submissive and femme. I love being manhandled nd roughed up a little. I especially like being called a whore, slut, cum faggot and being talked down to. The more I get those things the more femme I feel and the more I want cock in me, either end.

[topblkmale]

On 10/9/2025 at 2:19 PM, Room4ustwo said:

I much prefer getting fucked when I am naked or dressed in a jock or thong and not dressed like a woman.  If a guy wants to fuck a feminized guy, why doesn't he just fuck an actual woman?  I want to feel masculine but it doesnt matter what I want.  

 

Good question.

There's a lot more to it

but short answer:

some dominant tops enjoy the process of turning an alpha masculine man into their bottom bitch

 

[RobertBottomSlut]

2 minutes ago, topblkmale said:

 

Good question.

There's a lot more to it

but short answer:

some dominant tops enjoy the process of turning an alpha masculine man into their bottom bitch

 

And some of us so badly need to be turned into that alpha masculine man’s bottom bitch. 

[blackrobe]

8 minutes ago, topblkmale said:

Good question.

There's a lot more to it

but short answer:

some dominant tops enjoy the process of turning an alpha masculine man into their bottom bitch

Sex is about power. 

I know that breeders mounting and using me are expressing their power. For some, they know how surrender feels around their dick. They can feel when you dissolve into a compliant fuck sheath for them to seed.

For others, they need more visible symbols. More overt submission, feminization, surrendering of male power, etc. Most every top's favorite fuck position has something to do with expressing their power over the bottom. We can't be surprised at their enjoyment of transgressive fucking expression sexual domination. 

[WhoringForCrystal]

Not that this is all encompassing or authoritative, and it is just the effect on myself both emotionally and psychologically, but  bottoming is gender-affirming and emasculating for me, not to mention submissively degrading in a power-exchange dynamic.  I know very well and fully understand that not everyone experiences the event the same way, but that is my take. I love it, and I love being pushed beyond my limits which adds to the effect- and I could go into that more, but I won't bore or upset people. 

[NLbear]

8 hours ago, blackrobe said:

Sex is about power. 

I know that breeders mounting and using me are expressing their power. For some, they know how surrender feels around their dick. They can feel when you dissolve into a compliant fuck sheath for them to seed.

For others, they need more visible symbols. More overt submission, feminization, surrendering of male power, etc. Most every top's favorite fuck position has something to do with expressing their power over the bottom. We can't be surprised at their enjoyment of transgressive fucking expression sexual domination. 

Could be. I'm getting on in years and I now have a fuckstastic young stud who fucks me several times a week. I love to surrender to him. But in my younger years I was a real power bottom. And I do clearly remember who (sometimes, often also not) was in control haha and that wasn't the top haha!! 

[blackrobe]

5 hours ago, NLbear said:

Could be. I'm getting on in years and I now have a fuckstastic young stud who fucks me several times a week. I love to surrender to him. But in my younger years I was a real power bottom. And I do clearly remember who (sometimes, often also not) was in control haha and that wasn't the top haha!! 

The clue is right there in the name "power bottom".

I have breeders who push my primal buttons and get the most aggressive version of me taking their dick and harvesting their nut. Whether I'm riding them like I own their dick, or they are pounding me like they own my ass, or a combination of the two, it's still about power.

Remember, we were talking about why some breeders are into feminizing and being transgressive with the bottoms they fuck. Power bottoms are another subject altogether.

[rawinme]

I do not feel masculine when I bottom.  I do feel submissive and like I'm nothing more than a hole for the top to get off in.  But I love the feeling of being submissive and being used.  I tell the tops that my ass is theirs and they can fuck me however they want.  So I do not feel masculine, I feel sort of weak and wimpish.  But I love feeling like that, letting the top have his way with me.