Sexual arousal and desire

[Olderkinkybiguy]

My response to all 3 questions were all in the majority of answers. Let’s face it, most men love to fuck BB so our DNA is spread amongst the reviving; regardless of sexual orientation and/or preference. Squirting inside a warm hole is what all tops enjoy, whether they admit it or not. 

[barebtmOtt]

On 1/21/2025 at 10:09 AM, Bokkierob said:

No emotional connection. I’m driven to fuck men for the pure physical pleasure of thrusting my cock deep up their arseholes and my need to pump my sperm deep inside their guts.

As a bottom I love tops who want to fill my hole(s) without any emotional connection. It's all about physical pleasure.

[anonCUMtainer]

On 1/23/2025 at 12:52 PM, hungry_hole said:

I'm the same. I only like anon action in saunas, sex shops, parks, etc.

This is hot because as a bottom when the sperm is being pumped my hole is wide open so he can go deep inside to deposit his load. I like it best when the load is anonymous, and the guy just gets up and leaves the room.

Then, regarding the questions, are the questions in regards to anonymous or emotional sexual encounters?

1. What do you believe best reflects your natural instinct behind sexual arousal?
2. Given BZ can be a bit of an "echo chamber" on the above POLL questions, the following SAME question applies to your immediate relations, connections, peer group, etc. In other words, how many of your acquaintances would:
3. Please be honest and think of your non BZ acquaintences when answering this question. How do you think most men would describe their natural instinct behind sexual arousal?

 

 

The questions are in regards to what instinct compels your behaviour - if you need to separate them, I could see how one may have to.

We have our uninhibited animal self, and

We have our social construct which forces too much over riding of your uninhibited animal self. So you tell me, please. I may have revealed my bias. Oops

[ktopper]

Basic instinct is behind our sex drive. But it doesn't manifest as such, in most cases. When we meet an attractive possible partner, male or female, we aren't thinking "hey, I would like to make a baby with them." We are instead thinking "damn, he/she looks like a great piece of ass and it looks like they would be a lot of fun to have sex with."

My answers went with the majority. When it comes to men I am not looking for an emotional connection. I am just looking for pleasure. I do like anonymous encounters but some of my best gay sex has came from fuck buddies. It's not emotional on either of our parts but simple lust and pleasure. That doesn't mean that I don't care about them at all, some of them have became good friends. I only get emotionally involved with the opposite sex, usually to regret it later. I am of course bi-sexual.

I think most of my gay peer group would agree with the majority here. About all of the women I have been around or with would answer very differently. Of course women are not always honest about these things, even with themselves.

[Bokkierob]

23 hours ago, barebtmOtt said:

As a bottom I love tops who want to fill my hole(s) without any emotional connection. It's all about physical pleasure.

I’ve never felt an emotional connection to the men and boys I’ve fucked. The only connection I need is feeling their hot tight arseholes stroking my cock when I’m thrusting it hard into them. My only goal is the physical pleasure I get when my throbbing balls are pumping my sperm deep inside their guts.

[yorkfuckboi]

Love a top owning my arse, fucking me hard and then the feeling when he cums deep in my arse is fantastic and just want more

[barebtmOtt]

6 hours ago, Bokkierob said:

I’ve never felt an emotional connection to the men and boys I’ve fucked. The only connection I need is feeling their hot tight arseholes stroking my cock when I’m thrusting it hard into them. My only goal is the physical pleasure I get when my throbbing balls are pumping my sperm deep inside their guts.

Perfect!