anonCUMtainer
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#jealous Thank you for letting the rest of us live vicariously through your adventures!!
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Please, please, please forgive me in advance everyone for how this may 'come across' as I mean no offence. Perhaps this is more of a personal revelation of my own relationship with my diet, ass, bowels, and long-term relationship (with a partner that only wants "spontaneous" sex)...perhaps I am "triggered" 😉 Because it is precisely THIS reason, that I wish I had a vagina and uterus (I mean no disrespect as I imagine the convenience comes at a cost). So @dude8688, I am guessing that the reason there are no responses yet from the hundreds of bottoms on this site and the hundreds of views to-date is because there is no way to reconcile "spontaneous" sex without the possibility of getting a dirty dick. Having said that, I marvel at the handful of bottoms on this site who basically get fucked every-day (it sounds from reading their posts) they have developed a routing to enable this. However, for mere mortals (like me) who are just down for the occasional [spontaneous] breeding, I can never do it. It is always a mess for me and I would rather pass on the opportunity that deal with a mess...but that's me.
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I love you guys! This community is awesome. The content on this thread is germane to understanding and sympathizing with the overall human condition and the various forms it takes and expresses itself. I had a cousin who fits this description, and while perhaps we knew what the diagnosis was, we also knew not to treat him any differently. I think we all had different expectations of what he would be able to achieve regarding the cultural and religious upbringing we shared, but beyond that I never thought of him in a sexual way. I also remember working with these types of students when I was young, and developed a sincere respect for and appreciation of how diverse the human condition is and the types of challenges we are each confronted with in our own journey. One of my favourite instagram guys fits the OP description. These are lovely people and I have the same curiosity (e.g. their relationship with sex), as I have entertained ideas of what it might be like to engage in sexual physicality with them. Having said that, I appreciate this dialogue. I love men. I am open to meeting and experience all types of men. Which has lead me to at least one hookup from a sex app that brought me to someone like this. He was capable enough to live in alone in subsidized housing, and to have a phone and invite me over for sex...so I never questioned the desire or the consent. Personally, I am the one who always feels awkward in these settings...I don't mind sharing a physical experience with these fellow humans but I find it can take practice to set aside your own personal biases.
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All I can do is add my post the volume of others... Over time and as life circumstances have changed; I have realized that all I care about is having a horny erection inside of me with full balls grinding or slapping against me. I want to help a horny man in need realize his animal instinct to mount, rut and breed. Count me among the guys who welcome any erection, of any size, with any amount of ejaculate, as long as they desire to mount me and unload inside me - they are my type.
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What’s up with dudes who don’t want it raw?
anonCUMtainer replied to Jose's topic in General Discussion
I don't think we "disagree" - this is mostly semantics. The OP was asking what is preventing men from indulging in RAW sex. You basically confirmed that those who are - have accepted the RISKS, or have a life-style that accommodates this type of risk. We are talking about everyone else... My point remains - that all the tools and technology exist (today, in 2024) to get tested and to KNOW one's STI status. We also have modern medicine to treat or manage most all infections. The presence of STI's is still the driving FACTOR behind why a person would choose [at the last minute] to reach for the condom, even if they desire raw sex. -
What’s up with dudes who don’t want it raw?
anonCUMtainer replied to Jose's topic in General Discussion
For whatever it's worth...my 2 cents: Someone who follows through on their claims and actually "breed" (ejaculate unprotected into) an essentially unknown or anonymous man outside of monogamy in our current social, religious, and cultural environment is worthy of claiming the "title" BREEDER This is not everyone, and I would guess that most are members of this site. Finding a BREEDER is not as easy as I thought it would be. I find that a lot of men (I interact with) are already in a relationship and cannot risk introducing any STIs back into the relationship. This produces the necessity for condoms. Many reasonable men are not prepared to blow-up their "world" and current relationship for some random dudes load. Even though I think they would if they could get away with it (see previous point). Perhaps this statement will be inflammatory, but IMHO the reason most "reasonable" men are NOT breeding one another is because of the RISK associated to random, anonymous, M4M sex in contracting all sorts of unpleasant STIs. If sexually active men were part of the pro-active solution to reducing the transmission and spread of these diseases - I think breeding would see a revival - perhaps a renaissance. Sadly it seems that we allow ignorance to run rampant in this space. Unfortunately, I am sad that the fetishisization of bug chasing translates into actual behaviour which is self-destructive and undermines everyones else's pleasaure for unprotected sex. So until the risk of STIs is gone - it seems that you're really asking a guy what his comfort level is with getting a disease and whether the sex is pleasurable enough for them to take or make that risk assessment. Thoughts? -
Darkroom bareback - best way to get it?
anonCUMtainer replied to VersGuyAnon's topic in General Discussion
Question: Is this because there are so many bottoms in attendance and available that TOPS believe they can find the "right" hole if they just keep searching long enough? Hopefully, they eventually get exhausted searching and breed the closest match. -
Seriously!! So excited for you. xoxo
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This is a good question @Danny74 however, there is no easy way (or answer). Open relationship does NOT equal getting or having sex anytime you want. Search the forums, there are so many in this community who have shared their story and the depth and breadth of these stories may or may not provide you any insight but they are all worth the read and will raise aspects you had likely not considered. It also depends entirely on the dynamics of the person with whom you are negotiating with. Where does the good will and/or the jealousy begin and end? HINT: It is never where you think or where they claim it is or will be either - but it's there. One of you will likely always feel like you have to ask the other to make time and space for the other to have sex... unless you make a rule to always play together. It's never fun to bring up as it usually places stressors on other already frayed aspects of any relationship. Good luck!!
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Can we all please agree on one thing?? DILF = COMPLIMENT If you are referred to as a DILF - it means they want to fuck you. I am sure someone could turn DILF into an insult - but in the context of the OP inquiry it sounds like a compliment. Ageism is relative. If the person calling you a DILF is generally younger and you are generally older - it's definitely a compliment (regardless of the age difference).
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There are more and more news stories and headlines of this happening. I am pleased to see that this community is able to provide support and encouragement on how to protect ones self online. It is more and more important to spot the "red flags" and not to let your guard down. My concern is that sometimes when I am horny and possibly intoxicated - I am prone to let my guard down in a desire to "get that top". This is a great reminder to always be vigilant.
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My type is cis-male with the ability to get a hard erection and who likes to cum balls deep in my @anonCUMtainer
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I simply have to add that my BIGGEST "Pet Peeve" is when "SIDES" continue to use traditional penetrative roles to describe themselves. I am sorry but if you aren't interested in anal you should stop false-advertising and creating hope for all the bottoms out there that NEED to be penetrated. I almost want to kick "SIDES" off breeder island. LOL
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I love this thread, thanks @Davidc for putting it out there. It sounds like a consensus is emerging from those "in the know" that when you let yourself indulge the delight of a pre-loaded or cum-filled hole that it's something so "good" that you likely begin to seek out, or at a minimum don't pass it up when it is offered or available. I find this proposition intimidating for most men. As such, I find it difficult or "rare" to find enough men within the same geography and time-period to actually make this a reality (unless of course you are at a location or venue that caters to men having sex with men).
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Do you bottom with guys that have small dicks?
anonCUMtainer replied to Iker80's topic in General Discussion
What can I say that has not already been said. This is one reason why I do appreciate and cherish this community. I do find it "sad" that we even have to ask this question. I do not refuse any size erection. If a man wants to use my holes to complete his innate animal instinct to breed and seed, then I want to be that @anonCUMtainer to receive their seed. As others have pointed out, sometimes those modest cocks are pretty mighty and hard.
