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#jealous Thank you for letting the rest of us live vicariously through your adventures!!
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Please, please, please forgive me in advance everyone for how this may 'come across' as I mean no offence. Perhaps this is more of a personal revelation of my own relationship with my diet, ass, bowels, and long-term relationship (with a partner that only wants "spontaneous" sex)...perhaps I am "triggered" 😉 Because it is precisely THIS reason, that I wish I had a vagina and uterus (I mean no disrespect as I imagine the convenience comes at a cost). So @dude8688, I am guessing that the reason there are no responses yet from the hundreds of bottoms on this site and the hundreds of views to-date is because there is no way to reconcile "spontaneous" sex without the possibility of getting a dirty dick. Having said that, I marvel at the handful of bottoms on this site who basically get fucked every-day (it sounds from reading their posts) they have developed a routing to enable this. However, for mere mortals (like me) who are just down for the occasional [spontaneous] breeding, I can never do it. It is always a mess for me and I would rather pass on the opportunity that deal with a mess...but that's me.
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I love you guys! This community is awesome. The content on this thread is germane to understanding and sympathizing with the overall human condition and the various forms it takes and expresses itself. I had a cousin who fits this description, and while perhaps we knew what the diagnosis was, we also knew not to treat him any differently. I think we all had different expectations of what he would be able to achieve regarding the cultural and religious upbringing we shared, but beyond that I never thought of him in a sexual way. I also remember working with these types of students when I was young, and developed a sincere respect for and appreciation of how diverse the human condition is and the types of challenges we are each confronted with in our own journey. One of my favourite instagram guys fits the OP description. These are lovely people and I have the same curiosity (e.g. their relationship with sex), as I have entertained ideas of what it might be like to engage in sexual physicality with them. Having said that, I appreciate this dialogue. I love men. I am open to meeting and experience all types of men. Which has lead me to at least one hookup from a sex app that brought me to someone like this. He was capable enough to live in alone in subsidized housing, and to have a phone and invite me over for sex...so I never questioned the desire or the consent. Personally, I am the one who always feels awkward in these settings...I don't mind sharing a physical experience with these fellow humans but I find it can take practice to set aside your own personal biases.
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All I can do is add my post the volume of others... Over time and as life circumstances have changed; I have realized that all I care about is having a horny erection inside of me with full balls grinding or slapping against me. I want to help a horny man in need realize his animal instinct to mount, rut and breed. Count me among the guys who welcome any erection, of any size, with any amount of ejaculate, as long as they desire to mount me and unload inside me - they are my type.
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What’s up with dudes who don’t want it raw?
anonCUMtainer replied to Jose's topic in General Discussion
I don't think we "disagree" - this is mostly semantics. The OP was asking what is preventing men from indulging in RAW sex. You basically confirmed that those who are - have accepted the RISKS, or have a life-style that accommodates this type of risk. We are talking about everyone else... My point remains - that all the tools and technology exist (today, in 2024) to get tested and to KNOW one's STI status. We also have modern medicine to treat or manage most all infections. The presence of STI's is still the driving FACTOR behind why a person would choose [at the last minute] to reach for the condom, even if they desire raw sex. -
What’s up with dudes who don’t want it raw?
anonCUMtainer replied to Jose's topic in General Discussion
For whatever it's worth...my 2 cents: Someone who follows through on their claims and actually "breed" (ejaculate unprotected into) an essentially unknown or anonymous man outside of monogamy in our current social, religious, and cultural environment is worthy of claiming the "title" BREEDER This is not everyone, and I would guess that most are members of this site. Finding a BREEDER is not as easy as I thought it would be. I find that a lot of men (I interact with) are already in a relationship and cannot risk introducing any STIs back into the relationship. This produces the necessity for condoms. Many reasonable men are not prepared to blow-up their "world" and current relationship for some random dudes load. Even though I think they would if they could get away with it (see previous point). Perhaps this statement will be inflammatory, but IMHO the reason most "reasonable" men are NOT breeding one another is because of the RISK associated to random, anonymous, M4M sex in contracting all sorts of unpleasant STIs. If sexually active men were part of the pro-active solution to reducing the transmission and spread of these diseases - I think breeding would see a revival - perhaps a renaissance. Sadly it seems that we allow ignorance to run rampant in this space. Unfortunately, I am sad that the fetishisization of bug chasing translates into actual behaviour which is self-destructive and undermines everyones else's pleasaure for unprotected sex. So until the risk of STIs is gone - it seems that you're really asking a guy what his comfort level is with getting a disease and whether the sex is pleasurable enough for them to take or make that risk assessment. Thoughts? -
Darkroom bareback - best way to get it?
anonCUMtainer replied to VersGuyAnon's topic in General Discussion
Question: Is this because there are so many bottoms in attendance and available that TOPS believe they can find the "right" hole if they just keep searching long enough? Hopefully, they eventually get exhausted searching and breed the closest match. -
Seriously!! So excited for you. xoxo
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This is a good question @Danny74 however, there is no easy way (or answer). Open relationship does NOT equal getting or having sex anytime you want. Search the forums, there are so many in this community who have shared their story and the depth and breadth of these stories may or may not provide you any insight but they are all worth the read and will raise aspects you had likely not considered. It also depends entirely on the dynamics of the person with whom you are negotiating with. Where does the good will and/or the jealousy begin and end? HINT: It is never where you think or where they claim it is or will be either - but it's there. One of you will likely always feel like you have to ask the other to make time and space for the other to have sex... unless you make a rule to always play together. It's never fun to bring up as it usually places stressors on other already frayed aspects of any relationship. Good luck!!
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Can we all please agree on one thing?? DILF = COMPLIMENT If you are referred to as a DILF - it means they want to fuck you. I am sure someone could turn DILF into an insult - but in the context of the OP inquiry it sounds like a compliment. Ageism is relative. If the person calling you a DILF is generally younger and you are generally older - it's definitely a compliment (regardless of the age difference).
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There are more and more news stories and headlines of this happening. I am pleased to see that this community is able to provide support and encouragement on how to protect ones self online. It is more and more important to spot the "red flags" and not to let your guard down. My concern is that sometimes when I am horny and possibly intoxicated - I am prone to let my guard down in a desire to "get that top". This is a great reminder to always be vigilant.
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My type is cis-male with the ability to get a hard erection and who likes to cum balls deep in my @anonCUMtainer
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I simply have to add that my BIGGEST "Pet Peeve" is when "SIDES" continue to use traditional penetrative roles to describe themselves. I am sorry but if you aren't interested in anal you should stop false-advertising and creating hope for all the bottoms out there that NEED to be penetrated. I almost want to kick "SIDES" off breeder island. LOL
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I love this thread, thanks @Davidc for putting it out there. It sounds like a consensus is emerging from those "in the know" that when you let yourself indulge the delight of a pre-loaded or cum-filled hole that it's something so "good" that you likely begin to seek out, or at a minimum don't pass it up when it is offered or available. I find this proposition intimidating for most men. As such, I find it difficult or "rare" to find enough men within the same geography and time-period to actually make this a reality (unless of course you are at a location or venue that caters to men having sex with men).
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Do you bottom with guys that have small dicks?
anonCUMtainer replied to Iker80's topic in General Discussion
What can I say that has not already been said. This is one reason why I do appreciate and cherish this community. I do find it "sad" that we even have to ask this question. I do not refuse any size erection. If a man wants to use my holes to complete his innate animal instinct to breed and seed, then I want to be that @anonCUMtainer to receive their seed. As others have pointed out, sometimes those modest cocks are pretty mighty and hard. -
What I appreciate about this question @Dirtysouth is that it reveals that there are so many breeders (like yourself) on the sidelines, trying to figure out how to get in on the action. Please allow me to echo all of the comments from others who have confirmed that not only is this "okay" you are not a "shithead" in anyway. You just may not conform to all the social norms and expectations. De-coupling yourself from what society expectation is "normal" along with a healthy dose of reality and knowing that it also comes with knowing and managing your STI status and getting tested often and treated whenever anything undesirable pops up is how it works for most reasonable persons. If you can reconcile that then just get out there! There are so many bottoms that want (I would argue "need") your seed, just put yourself out there and don't by shy. xoxo
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This is poetry!! I love it, lol. You guys are the best.
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It appears that there is no magic "formula" for making something like this work. The human condition is a head-scratcher...most of the time we are working against our own best interests - even when it comes to something we want so badly. Good luck, all. Please continue to share your experience(s) as I find them helpful in navigating this journey we call life. xoxoxo
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Pig Breeding With Ugly/unattractive Men
anonCUMtainer replied to SweatyKum's topic in General Discussion
Interesting...quite the spectrum of responses. For whatever it is worth, my feeling on the subject is that "beauty" is in the eye of the beholder. If a horny man wants to mount my ass and leave his seed balls deep inside me - I find him to be the most sexy and beautiful create in that moment. For him to give me his seed is the biggest compliment and I would be extremely flattered to receive any man who wants to mount me. I love men. I love anon because it focuses the exchange - like a hand shake. A friendly hand-shake where my ass gets to meet your hard horny cock and receive a souvenir of our meeting when you leave me your seed balls deep...the way nature intended. -
Were you born a bottom? Or made one?
anonCUMtainer replied to blackfeeder's topic in General Discussion
I was definitely born this way. I have always desired men. All men (especially breeders). If a guy just wants to use me to quickly satisfy his carnal urge to spread his seed. I want to be there to receive his erection and the discharge of his orgasm balls deep. Ultimately, it is what I crave the most. -
I have so many thoughts about this I don't even know where to begin. Let's just say I wonder how differently my life might have turned out if this label or way of describing one's sexual desires existed back when I was dating. In full disclosure, I am in the population of people who are mostly only looking for penetration. So, I tend to ignore, block, and delete anyone who isn't enthusiastic about penetration; either giving or receiving.
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Another excellent topic and question from @ErosWired! How did this one get lost...last response from 2019?!!! I did a search for "Fresh Meat" because this is ultimately the question I wanted answered. In today's vernacular we might also refer to this as "taming strange." Should we set this up in the form of a POLL Question? Would that make it easier to "vote"? Would you seek out a new or different partner even if you had a good, reliable partner available [for sex]?
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It took me three hours last night to clean out (I blame my diet). I think at some point we can all relate to this desire for a quick(er) easier way. I am also open to additional insight, or wisdom. My understanding from having read all the other topics and conversations available in other threads (aka search is your friend on BZ): Diet matters a lot, more than we think Supplements may provide an advantage in the proper dose The right tool for the right job (aka use a good douche you can control water flow and pressure) Not over-stimulating your bowels (there are other forums where guys have posted a "How to" guide that is very useful) Beyond that, I guess it is just down to learning your own body, your diet, and how that affects your ability to get a better faster clean.
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Tops - can you always get ass when you want it?
anonCUMtainer replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
Did this thread get lost?? Great question @ErosWired How easily accessible is ass these days? -
My thoughts...for whatever they are worth is that "sex trips" are totally necessary. Perhaps I should do a POLL question to confirm this, but in my experience most men like to tame new strange. So, once you've fucked (or been fucked) by all the locals, it's difficult to realize repeat fucks unless they really like you and / or there isn't any new strange available to tame locally. I also read so many replies in other threads that allude to this. For example, people have described traveling across town for a hookup that exposes them to "new" or different men looking for some new or different strange to tame. So, sex trips are 100% necessary when you live in a small town or less populated geography. Especially if your goal is to actually get fucked. Go be the new or different strange for someone to tame in their local area.
