stretch increments

[FF69]

hello ffriends,

 

what's a sensible size up in dildos. hit a wall with stretching - how big should you look to increase your toys?

[ffabbian]

It depends  on the texture of your existing and new toy.  Smaller increments for a firm dildo and larger ones with softer dildos. 

About a year ago  I bought a new dildo 1 inch wider in circumference but it was  really firm and it took ages to get it pass my second hole. I then bought larger softer dildos that I managed easier. 

I had a lot of getting there though

[Slzybtmldn]

Love to try some large toys. I once took cock and fist together. Amazing! And nearly managed double ff

[Chrisjoci]

28 minutes ago, Slzybtmldn said:

Love to try some large toys. I once took cock and fist together. Amazing! And nearly managed double ff

It's been a while for me, but I'm about due for a larger size dildo. My last one was 10 inches, but I want to go for a 13inch and a fist.

[ffabbian]

1 minute ago, Chrisjoci said:

It's been a while for me, but I'm about due for a larger size dildo. My last one was 10 inches, but I want to go for a 13inch and a fist.

Length or circumference,

[Slzybtmldn]

13 inch length sounds amazing. 13 inch circumference? Incredible

[Chrisjoci]

4 minutes ago, ffabbian said:

Length or circumference,

Length circumference 4-6 inches

[Sfmike64]

3 hours ago, FF69 said:

hello ffriends,

 

what's a sensible size up in dildos. hit a wall with stretching - how big should you look to increase your toys?

Have you tried inflatable toys? I used to really enjoy those when I was bottoming a lot. That gives you a lot of options about how fast and far to stretch your hole.

[FF69]

14 hours ago, ffabbian said:

Length or circumference,

I should have stated that - circumference

[FF69]

11 hours ago, Sfmike64 said:

Have you tried inflatable toys? I used to really enjoy those when I was bottoming a lot. That gives you a lot of options about how fast and far to stretch your hole.

I have and they're fun but I never felt they did much - maybe a revisit is due

[Sfmike64]

12 hours ago, FF69 said:

I have and they're fun but I never felt they did much - maybe a revisit is due

Maybe find someone who has a selection and play together. Then you can find toys that you like.

I found that the inflatables were sometimes hard to manage (perhaps the ones I had where cheaper and thinner) so they folded up when you were trying to insert them. But once you got it in your hole you could play up and down with stretching your ass (remember those are muscles and respond to use) quickly and easily.

[PozBearWI]

Also, inflatables are essentially a balloon.  The more air the more it resembles a ball.  Still, as a stretch trainer?  Inflatable let's you feel the stretch as it occurs.  You set the pace with the pump and those are typically easy to control, increments pretty small.  

It was that ball effect where I learned it was best when I figured at what depth that occurred.  Ultimately it seemed to want to "slip off center" of the tendon we're trying to relax.  

An inflatable also has the benefit of being able to do this alone; increase one's "capacity" (as it were) before it is needed....