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PozBearWI

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  1. And in truth; in most cases your risk is still less than 2%. So more than likely no conversion is going to happen. Risk? Yeah, Probability? low.
  2. Does it even matter anymore "Liberal" vs "Conservative" Shoot the Rs don't even have a platform to publish- just a vague "whatever the orange jeezus says". This is more like rooting for sports teams than how our government is managed. Utter BS
  3. OMT (One More Thing) 🙂 the above is where Curmudgeons come from....
  4. Indeed as a reference it is offensive. I am however getting tired of our societal verbal "walking on eggshells". I believe we are collectively too quick to take offense, and in part I think this comes from this type of and all too frequently repeated course correction. I am poz. It is my choice whether I am going to be offended when someone asked me if am clean. If in person my response would be "yup, douched awhile ago.". We are in a society of intentional ignorance. And most of those folks don't give a crap about how this poz guy feels about much of anything. I don't take offense to the other epithets classically tossed my way fifty years ago either. F word or Q word my response is "yep!", which after moments of stunned silence has gone further in effecting course corrections.
  5. <sigh> It does seem to be the way... Maybe we can stop trying to fix our issues by making up a new word every few years....
  6. I met my husband when I was 50.... We've had a sexually open relationship the whole time and so my answer to you is, you'll be you.... Enjoy it.
  7. That is always the risk of serialized stories... Some never get finished. Bottom like, did you enjoy what was there?
  8. Exactly. At a point I accept that "I can't fix stupid". I gave up reacting to epithets decades ago; a defensive decision that has served me well. Truly I would rather someone speak words many take as offensive than not speak at all. These days our society is to quick to take offense and it isn't making things better....
  9. I am picky about guys I fuck. If they are fucking the virus in me; great but I might not be into him.... A similar argument; I poz so I don't have to worry. But I do worry. The neg guy I might run across who goes nucking futs I didn't give him the talk even though all my profiles are clear on my status. Hell I've even had guys message me the lovely "are you clean" message my obvious poz status notwithstanding. Suffice to say there are some on aps that aren't worth the bother as their head is so far up their own hole they are oblivious to the world around them.
  10. I've been with guys like that; we're supposedly having sex while he is staring at his fucking phone. Ultimately I stopped and told him it was time to leave. I wasn't angry. But I was done with him.
  11. Back to the original question. I really would not expect a non chaser to understand. Depending upon which frame of reference it truly makes no sense at all. And yet some of us did/do. Less important that we actually understand so much as recognize that each of us should be able to make the choices pertaining to their own body. Yes there are consequences for our choices and on balance I see my fellow chasers accepting them gracefully.
  12. I do, really to quell dingleberries.
  13. Can we stop taking offense to the imperfect questions others ask us? Indeed if a guy asks if I am clean I am going to answer "yes"; or if applicable, I haven't douched yet. At least he is asking; we can work towards understanding given that start....
  14. Thanks for those perspectives. We should also note that we weren't as a whole a particularly well educated society; and thus many couldn't read or write; which was also a significant factor in created EC.
  15. Perhaps but honestly I am tired of people "correcting" each other. It's gotten to the point for me that those correcting are offensive as well.
  16. @PozTalkAuthor We all have lives outside of BZ. Thanks for your efforts.
  17. LOL obviously that's why it's hard to remember @hntnhole 🙂
  18. Thanks,  Actually Toronto is deceptively far when one factors in the great lakes which are between us.  Last drive was 750 miles and a long long day's drive.  

  19. All well said above. In so many domains we really seem to get into foisting our opinion on what everyone else should do. If a guy insists on condom sex with me and I'm not agreeable to that, then I don't have sex with him. No need to shame. I understand he wishes to influence his risk that way and that is his to do. If he starts to try to 'rip me a new one' because he thinks I am a cheap whore (and typically I respond to that with a 'fuck right I am asshole') we can go our separate ways. Mostly it never proves to be an issue. A guy sets his limits we hopefully reply "thanks".
  20. My fuckbuds are for the most part suck buds. Every so often a lovely surprise raw fuck occurs.
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