stretch increments

[FF69]

hello ffriends,

 

what's a sensible size up in dildos. hit a wall with stretching - how big should you look to increase your toys?

[ffabbian]

It depends  on the texture of your existing and new toy.  Smaller increments for a firm dildo and larger ones with softer dildos. 

About a year ago  I bought a new dildo 1 inch wider in circumference but it was  really firm and it took ages to get it pass my second hole. I then bought larger softer dildos that I managed easier. 

I had a lot of getting there though

[Slzybtmldn]

Love to try some large toys. I once took cock and fist together. Amazing! And nearly managed double ff

[Chrisjoci]

28 minutes ago, Slzybtmldn said:

Love to try some large toys. I once took cock and fist together. Amazing! And nearly managed double ff

It's been a while for me, but I'm about due for a larger size dildo. My last one was 10 inches, but I want to go for a 13inch and a fist.

[ffabbian]

1 minute ago, Chrisjoci said:

It's been a while for me, but I'm about due for a larger size dildo. My last one was 10 inches, but I want to go for a 13inch and a fist.

Length or circumference,

[Slzybtmldn]

13 inch length sounds amazing. 13 inch circumference? Incredible

[Chrisjoci]

4 minutes ago, ffabbian said:

Length or circumference,

Length circumference 4-6 inches

[Sfmike64]

3 hours ago, FF69 said:

hello ffriends,

 

what's a sensible size up in dildos. hit a wall with stretching - how big should you look to increase your toys?

Have you tried inflatable toys? I used to really enjoy those when I was bottoming a lot. That gives you a lot of options about how fast and far to stretch your hole.

[FF69]

14 hours ago, ffabbian said:

Length or circumference,

I should have stated that - circumference

[FF69]

11 hours ago, Sfmike64 said:

Have you tried inflatable toys? I used to really enjoy those when I was bottoming a lot. That gives you a lot of options about how fast and far to stretch your hole.

I have and they're fun but I never felt they did much - maybe a revisit is due

[Sfmike64]

12 hours ago, FF69 said:

I have and they're fun but I never felt they did much - maybe a revisit is due

Maybe find someone who has a selection and play together. Then you can find toys that you like.

I found that the inflatables were sometimes hard to manage (perhaps the ones I had where cheaper and thinner) so they folded up when you were trying to insert them. But once you got it in your hole you could play up and down with stretching your ass (remember those are muscles and respond to use) quickly and easily.

[PozBearWI]

Also, inflatables are essentially a balloon.  The more air the more it resembles a ball.  Still, as a stretch trainer?  Inflatable let's you feel the stretch as it occurs.  You set the pace with the pump and those are typically easy to control, increments pretty small.  

It was that ball effect where I learned it was best when I figured at what depth that occurred.  Ultimately it seemed to want to "slip off center" of the tendon we're trying to relax.  

An inflatable also has the benefit of being able to do this alone; increase one's "capacity" (as it were) before it is needed....

[MuscledHorse]

Inflatbles are a good budget stretch. If you are looking for a variety of way to incrementally stretch your anus and rectum with consistent sizes, Topped Toys has some excellent lines that do just that. Instead of just the big jumps form small to medium to large to extra large, theses toys move in smaller increments. I use their Grip (traditional plug shape), Gape Keeper (egg shaped), Mare Maker (Deeper ovals shaped stretch) and Deep Space (looks like an old school bomb with the fatter part being up top and the slimmer part at the bottom for a deeper stretch) With the S, M, L, XL type toys the jump from one to the other might be so much that it's impossible even begin to try taking the new size. With the incremental ones, the jump is enough you can take all or most of the new size and still challenge your hole and accomplish stretching it to the next level. For instance, I recently conquered my new size up Grip 134,, which stretches the anus and rectum to 13.4 inches (34 cm) circumference at its widest point before hitting the plug neck, which keeps the anal sphincter dilated to 10 inches (25.4 cm) circumference. Previously I had taken and mastered the Grip 126, which was 12.6 inches (32 cm) circumference at its widest point and 9.6 inches (24.3 cm) circumference on the neck. It doesn't sound like a huge jump but your hole can sure feel the difference of that added stretch it's being asked to accomplish. (This i snot an ad for Topped Toys, they happen to be the brand on incrementals I use. Other companies, such as Square Peg, make incremental lines too.