Visiting a Masseur

[Eagerindayton]

I don't know if I'm violating any guidelines for posting this particular question. When guys go to a masseur what type of services do you usually expect? I consider myself to be vers so when I go I am usually looking to be fucked and bred. When looking for a masseur I am usually able to figure out through their posting or ads what they do or do not offer. So when I go for a massage, I am usually looking to get naked with the guy, to be massaged and to be fucked and bred. When the masseur starts to give me a handjob I will stop him. I always tell him that I want him to cum first and to breed me. I had a hot masseur (in Chicago - I love chicago) one time tell me" that won't be a problem - I always cum first then it's your turn".  For me, at this point in my life, it is easier for me to go this route in order to get fucked and bred real good. Anyone want to share their insights or experiences? Thanks.

[theplayerking]

16 minutes ago, Eagerindayton said:

I don't know if I'm violating any guidelines for posting this particular question. When guys go to a masseur what type of services do you usually expect? I consider myself to be vers so when I go I am usually looking to be fucked and bred. When looking for a masseur I am usually able to figure out through their posting or ads what they do or do not offer. So when I go for a massage, I am usually looking to get naked with the guy, to be massaged and to be fucked and bred. When the masseur starts to give me a handjob I will stop him. I always tell him that I want him to cum first and to breed me. I had a hot masseur (in Chicago - I love chicago) one time tell me" that won't be a problem - I always cum first then it's your turn".  For me, at this point in my life, it is easier for me to go this route in order to get fucked and bred real good. Anyone want to share their insights or experiences? Thanks.

In my experience, massages, even erotic massages by gay masseurs, don’t typically involve anal. I’ve been fucked by therapist, but that was more about us getting carried away and not a usual service. 

Most erotic masseurs will offer two options, with or without “release,” which is usually just a handjob. 

If you’re looking to get fucked, you really want an escort that offers some massage as foreplay. It’s pretty common, but don’t expect a real massage and negotiate everything beforehand to set expectations and let him prepare properly. 

[Eagerindayton]

2 hours ago, theplayerking said:

In my experience, massages, even erotic massages by gay masseurs, don’t typically involve anal. I’ve been fucked by therapist, but that was more about us getting carried away and not a usual service. 

Most erotic masseurs will offer two options, with or without “release,” which is usually just a handjob. 

If you’re looking to get fucked, you really want an escort that offers some massage as foreplay. It’s pretty common, but don’t expect a real massage and negotiate everything beforehand to set expectations and let him prepare properly. 

Thanks!

[foryouruse]

I don’t know if New York has a lot of variety or I used to have a good butt (I used to bike a lot) when I was younger and went for massages.

I was mostly looking for a great massage that broke through the knots, so I was also in agony at times and I don’t know if letting them dig in and cause maximum pain had anything to do with it.

That said, one guy I went to a lot for deep tissue massages did end in release every time and we hadn’t discussed it. Several guys just wound up in my butt while I was still face down and still expected me to be able to roll over for the other side. One guy pulled me to the end of the table at the end saying my butt was his, and another told me to get into his bed as I was planning to get onto his table.

I sort of think New York may be a little more aggressive, but there are also guys who only give great massages here (totally non-sexual) or may give totally unique experiences: one guy put every vertebrae back into place by having me lie on his back and bending over (my husband I did that to each other for years it worked so well) and I can’t even describe what the guy who taught yoga did other than it also blew my mind and I kept asking  “how he did that?” all the times I was there. I mostly don’t go anymore (I sort of think I should be in better shape, but I also have less neck stress now I don’t spend 3 hours in New York traffic a day), but a couple I’ve talked to seemed like assplay was on the agenda and I should try them (they say they do massage, but it doesn’t mean they really are trained in massage).

Well, this was probably no help other than what I used to find.