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I have only recently started using websites for meets. So far every guy I've met ones on the profile say no BB either activly encourage it or casually mention I don't need to wear one. I've met quite a few across 2 cities. Its really close to 90/95%. This makes it hard as I don't want to but its just so good.

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I don’t think there is a lot of people nowadays who would strictly adhere to condoms. This transformation took place because of prep, I also do not know anyone who is not in prep. Having said that, I think we are all better off now, since we have better tools for our own protection. Unless of course you’re a bug chaser. Then it’s actually harder for you now, I think. 

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When I went on PrEP a few years ago, I stopped asking tops to wear condoms.  Since then I have only had a couple of tops insist on using a condom.  A few have gotten a condom out but discarded it when I said they could go bare, but most just go bare without saying anything.

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My experience is similar to @GuelphGuy72 . On apps and websites, I am open about being a 100% bareback btm, and during a hookup, I have never had a guy even take out a condom to fuck me. That said, if condoms are mentioned in the pre-hookup chat I will be blunt about saying no to that.

In sauna/bathhouses, the vast majority of tops fuck bareback without a word. There's an occasional condom, but I just walk away from that. Sometimes the top will follow me and offer me bare, at which point I gladly give my ass.

Cruising areas, I have only met one guy who absolutely insists on condoms. I've seen him about 3 or 4 times, and he always hits on me, even though I have turned his condom down each time. He won't fuck without. Everyone else either fucks bare, or will jettison the condom if I say 'bare only'.

I posted a cruising 'Last Load' story recently, which included a guy who wanted to fuck me with a condom, but abandoned that idea when I promised I could make him cum in 2 minutes if he fucked me raw. Story at the link below - see Guy #1 😉 

 

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In my experience as both topping and bottoming bareback is done 95% of the time and rarely is it ever discussed beforehand. 

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13 minutes ago, NicNorth said:

I couple of guys have insisted on wearing a rubber - I’ve turned them down tbh I’d rather do without.  

I’d rather go without than have a rubber up me. Instant turn off and I lose any interest. 

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There is a high percentage of DL guys on the apps I use in the UK many with safe in their profiles but most will expect me to provide the protection. I don’t carry condoms so it’s their decision whether they come or go. I’m most cases they end up fucking raw.

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I advertise that I'm bareback only.  Rubber inside me is for toys/dildos, not condoms.  And if I top, putting on a condom makes me go flaccid instantly.  

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100%, regardless of what their profile says since prep and u=u. I rarely come across any profile that states condoms only and I will never hook up with a bottom that states condoms only on their profile as it takes me ages to cum without a condom and with one I've never been able to cum. As for tops if they want to wear a condom I will still hook up with them and respect their choices but over the last year out of 100 probably more hook ups there have only been two.  One was open for discussion and the other condoms only and both fucked me raw and raw many times since

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