Rude tops

[Eagerindayton]

I tend to be more of a versatile top. I was thinking about a rude top that I encountered a number of years ago. When I would be looking to get fucked I would always go through social media and at the time even craigslist. This one time I hooked up with a top who I had been very honest with online. I told him how old I was, that I was about 20 pounds overweight, and just basically an average looking guy. He still invited me over and I could tell when he opened the door that he was kind of disappointed. I still wanted fucked so I decided to stay and he did fuck me really good. I will give him points and appreciation for that. However, when I left he made a comment about my age and my weight and stated that he did not think he would be calling me again because of that. I personally wasn't too offended. I get the reality of anonymous hookups. You get what you get. However this guy wasn't being dominant or aggressive or trying to be in control. He was just being a jerk. It was interesting when I got a text from him a few hours later wanting to know if we could hook up the next day. I was kind of surprised and then had to choose between getting another good Fuck and load from this guy or if I should just tell him no. I did end up telling him no explaining that I did not want to disappoint him again. He became very apologetic and explained that sometimes when he as a good fuck he feels kind of guilty. I guess that made sense because he did identify as a straight man in the ad. So I decided to give him another shot and the next day I stop by and he was a completely different person. He was nice and not insulting. He ended up giving me another hard pounding with a deep load. So I was glad that I ended up giving him a second chance. Afterwards he thanked me for coming and apologized again for what he said the day before. He ended up breeding me probably about 10 more times over the next month or two before he ended up moving. So I was just wondering if anybody has had similar experiences where people are being rude and mean after sex especially from straight identifying men. I will also add that it has been my experience that some of the biggest s**** out there have been men who say they are straight.  Anyway thanks for any response.

[hungry_hole]

1 hour ago, Eagerindayton said:

and I could tell when he opened the door that he was kind of disappointed. I still wanted fucked so I decided to stay and he did fuck me really good.

The guy topping is the one who needs to get horny so he can get a hard-on,  so I understand tops being picky or demanding. As a bottom, I don't even have to get horny, which is why I don't care who fucks my hole and breeds it.

1 hour ago, Eagerindayton said:

He became very apologetic and explained that sometimes when he as a good fuck he feels kind of guilty.

This is the one issue a guy who tops has to accept. Most guys once they cum, they've lost ALL horniness. They have to remember that after 20 minutes or so, they will probably be horny again.

1 hour ago, Eagerindayton said:

So I was just wondering if anybody has had similar experiences where people are being rude and mean after sex especially from straight identifying men.

I once had a young guy chasing me because he wanted to get together. It was in one of those phone systems. I was busy that week, but he was so persistent that I accepted.

He came over to my place and started with touching him and playing with his dick. In no time, I had his cock in my mouth. He was happy getting sucked but he managed to find my lubed hole which I think turned him on. He began to fuck me from behind and it didn't take long before he was groaning while loading my hole.

He then started acting weird and emotional and eventually confessed to me that he was getting married in a week or two and was feeling very bad about this encounter. I knew why he was feeling like that and eventually calmed him down and by the time he left he was feeling OK.

[norefusal]

it's more a vibe. sometimes i can just tell that the anon guy really doesn't want to be cheating on his girl but he's so blueballed desperation has led him here where his body is relieved but his mind is disgusted. 

i just shake it off as what's the whole point of nsa hook ups if you're gonna let yourself get emotionally involved in your nameless guy's  personal journey 

im more bothered by it on dates. ymmv but im shocked at the guys i meet. if they're out they're half my age and if they're my age, they somehow didn't realize they were gay until the kids were off to college. 

i sometimes mentor the young gays at work as it seems more natural. but on a recent date where a retired guy went "how does this work? if i asked you out do i have to pay? i don't know the rules of gay dating its all so new to me" and i repressed the urge to just scream STFU. 😜honestly, i have no patience to educate Rita. you're older than me dude, figure it out.