Disabled Guys?

[phillygwm]

I'm wondering whether any of you are attracted to guys who have some disability (broadly speaking.)

I never really thought about it.  Once, many years ago, I met a guy who had a progressive condition which left him in a wheelchair.  Things still worked down there.  That didn't turn me on or off, per se, but I knew he didn't see a lot of action and knowing that I was the only guy who would get him off DID turn me on.  Not least because he blew like Mount Vesuvius whenever I sucked him off.  Don't get me wrong, it wasn't a pity fuck; I enjoyed it as he did.   It never really went anywhere because he was living in a long term care environment and it kind of weirded me out.  I thought people knew about us and I was semi-closeted at the time (late teens/early 20s.)  Call it paranoia.

More recently, I was talking to a guy in a similar situation and found myself oddly turned on.  Again, not because of the wheelchair but because I assume he doesn't have any sexual outlet.  In this case, it's possible he can't even jerk off (I didn't ask.)  But even non-physical issues, like guys on the spectrum etc. would turn me on, not least because I consider myself to have a number of the same characteristics and I know how difficult it can be to get to know guys.

I'm still very much into able-bodied guys but maybe I have a hero complex or something...coming to the "rescue" of guys who have no other outlet.

Anyone else share this?

 

[tallslenderguy]

For me, one of the biggest elements of great sex is the connection of mutual need/desire.  Given the individuality and complexities of attraction, i think that factor ranks high for most people?  I.e., if i perceive how badly a Guy wants to penetrate, fuck and breed me, that pretty  much overshadows a lot of other considerations for me.

i hooked with a guy in Palm Springs a few years ago who was wheel chair bound because he had no legs from a childhood motor vehicle accident. His legs were gone, all the way up to his pelvis, which also meant He had no glute muscles as well.  i love a Mans ass, but not for fucking, it's just a visual turn on for me... visually, even more than cock? Go figure, and i'm a "total bottom."

 But He said He wanted to fuck me, and that is all it really took. i'm a critical care nurse, so i don't find it awkward when someone is different, emotionally i've been de-conditioned from social conditioning about that sort of thing. Consequently, we just had pure lust/desire for each other and we had a great time. i touched and kissed him in places few if any ever had, and that unleashed a lot of pent up need and desire in Him, which in turn unleashed a lot of pent up need and desire in me.  

i think "disabled" is often a misnomer that society uses mindlessly. This guy was different, but He was still quiet able to havre the kind of sex we both wanted/needed.