Disabled Guys?

[phillygwm]

I'm wondering whether any of you are attracted to guys who have some disability (broadly speaking.)

I never really thought about it.  Once, many years ago, I met a guy who had a progressive condition which left him in a wheelchair.  Things still worked down there.  That didn't turn me on or off, per se, but I knew he didn't see a lot of action and knowing that I was the only guy who would get him off DID turn me on.  Not least because he blew like Mount Vesuvius whenever I sucked him off.  Don't get me wrong, it wasn't a pity fuck; I enjoyed it as he did.   It never really went anywhere because he was living in a long term care environment and it kind of weirded me out.  I thought people knew about us and I was semi-closeted at the time (late teens/early 20s.)  Call it paranoia.

More recently, I was talking to a guy in a similar situation and found myself oddly turned on.  Again, not because of the wheelchair but because I assume he doesn't have any sexual outlet.  In this case, it's possible he can't even jerk off (I didn't ask.)  But even non-physical issues, like guys on the spectrum etc. would turn me on, not least because I consider myself to have a number of the same characteristics and I know how difficult it can be to get to know guys.

I'm still very much into able-bodied guys but maybe I have a hero complex or something...coming to the "rescue" of guys who have no other outlet.

Anyone else share this?

 

[tallslenderguy]

For me, one of the biggest elements of great sex is the connection of mutual need/desire.  Given the individuality and complexities of attraction, i think that factor ranks high for most people?  I.e., if i perceive how badly a Guy wants to penetrate, fuck and breed me, that pretty  much overshadows a lot of other considerations for me.

i hooked with a guy in Palm Springs a few years ago who was wheel chair bound because he had no legs from a childhood motor vehicle accident. His legs were gone, all the way up to his pelvis, which also meant He had no glute muscles as well.  i love a Mans ass, but not for fucking, it's just a visual turn on for me... visually, even more than cock? Go figure, and i'm a "total bottom."

 But He said He wanted to fuck me, and that is all it really took. i'm a critical care nurse, so i don't find it awkward when someone is different, emotionally i've been de-conditioned from social conditioning about that sort of thing. Consequently, we just had pure lust/desire for each other and we had a great time. i touched and kissed him in places few if any ever had, and that unleashed a lot of pent up need and desire in Him, which in turn unleashed a lot of pent up need and desire in me.  

i think "disabled" is often a misnomer that society uses mindlessly. This guy was different, but He was still quiet able to havre the kind of sex we both wanted/needed. 

[Guest btmdad]

I hookd up with a guy that wore a leg prothesis. His leg was missing from mid thigh down.  It made no difference to me.  He was a great fuck.  The only limitation was that he could not fuck me doggy style. 

[Rillion]

My partner was paralyzed in a car accident when we had been together for about four years. Fortunately his fun bits still work for the most part. He was a total bottom before the accident so the loss of some sensitivity in his cock isn't a huge barrier, but there are times when he'll let me know that he isn't going to be able come. 

To me it didn't make him more or less attractive. There are some guys out there that are devotees that are into people with disabilities but that really turns my partner off. To have someone fetishize him because he was crippled in accident is off putting. There are a lot of guys that will stop chatting him up online when they realize he is in a wheelchair and that does fuck with his self esteem and self confidence. He definitely gets less sex because of being in a wheelchair. 

[BlindRawFucker1]

Just because we might have a physical or mental disability, it doesn’t mean that we have no sexual feelings.

 

Many even in the medical community believe that disability community are sexless.

 

Trust me, we mostly all love sex.  It might have to be done differently in some cases, but we are also sexual beings.

 

Please don’t ignore us.  If nothing else, at least approach us and say hello.

[Rillion]

32 minutes ago, Guest btmdad said:

I hookd up with a guy that wore a leg prothesis. His leg was missing from mid thigh down.  It made no difference to me.  He was a great fuck.  The only limitation was that he could not fuck me doggy style. 

Yeah, a lot of positions are no longer on the menu.