General fuck club norms clash with local custom at PNW bathhouse

[NWUSHorny]

Yesterday was Pride here in Portland, plus it was a cold rainy day with highs in the 50's here in Portland (which seems to be better for sex than a warm sunny day), so I headed out to Steam with decent hopes. I arrived and found a huge crowd and very little sex happening as usual, what I didn't realize was we there were also a significant number of out of town visitors present, and eventually found there were small groups fucking (almost unheard of here) at least briefly in the various play spaces in the club. The problem was the regulars kept killing the action once it started up.

The 1st group I got involved with I started fucking a guy (who turned out to be from Ft Lauderdale) when several other guys joined us. The 1st guy to join was a verse top who fucks me regularly who wanted to fuck the new bottom, and was soon switching off fucking both of us. The problem occurred when 2 local bottoms sort of joined the action with a top Id never seen before. One of the local bottoms tapped out after just a few strokes and the new top started to move to the other bottom offering his hole when the local bottom told him loudly, and in my opinion rudely, that he need to wash his dick before he could fuck him, which caused the action to break up fairly quickly. 

The 2nd time it happened, there were 3 couples going at it in the sling play area. I was fucking a guy from Brazil, 2 tops I've never seen before were fucking 2 local bottoms when one top decided to move on and the other bottom came and wanted his top to stop, when the top who was still horny tried to fuck the newly vacated bottom, but was asked to go wash his dick 1st. Once again the action broke up.

3rd time I wasn't actually one of the participants but looking to join in, but the same local bottom from the 1st group scene did the same thing again, once again breaking up the small orgy that was just starting.

All in all not a bad night for Portland, I had my dick up several guys, wound up cumming both the guy from Ft Lauderdale and Brazil, and took loads from my regular and a guy from Denver and got 2 other new dicks in my hole that didn't breed me. I just have to wonder what could have been, without the regulars, that are actually pretty big sluts by local standards, doing their normal thing.

[xxbjn2]

8 minutes ago, NWUSHorny said:

Yesterday was Pride here in Portland, plus it was a cold rainy day with highs in the 50's here in Portland (which seems to be better for sex than a warm sunny day), so I headed out to Steam with decent hopes. I arrived and found a huge crowd and very little sex happening as usual, what I didn't realize was we there were also a significant number of out of town visitors present, and eventually found there were small groups fucking (almost unheard of here) at least briefly in the various play spaces in the club. The problem was the regulars kept killing the action once it started up.

The 1st group I got involved with I started fucking a guy (who turned out to be from Ft Lauderdale) when several other guys joined us. The 1st guy to join was a verse top who fucks me regularly who wanted to fuck the new bottom, and was soon switching off fucking both of us. The problem occurred when 2 local bottoms sort of joined the action with a top Id never seen before. One of the local bottoms tapped out after just a few strokes and the new top started to move to the other bottom offering his hole when the local bottom told him loudly, and in my opinion rudely, that he need to wash his dick before he could fuck him, which caused the action to break up fairly quickly. 

The 2nd time it happened, there were 3 couples going at it in the sling play area. I was fucking a guy from Brazil, 2 tops I've never seen before were fucking 2 local bottoms when one top decided to move on and the other bottom came and wanted his top to stop, when the top who was still horny tried to fuck the newly vacated bottom, but was asked to go wash his dick 1st. Once again the action broke up.

3rd time I wasn't actually one of the participants but looking to join in, but the same local bottom from the 1st group scene did the same thing again, once again breaking up the small orgy that was just starting.

All in all not a bad night for Portland, I had my dick up several guys, wound up cumming both the guy from Ft Lauderdale and Brazil, and took loads from my regular and a guy from Denver and got 2 other new dicks in my hole that didn't breed me. I just have to wonder what could have been, without the regulars, that are actually pretty big sluts by local standards, doing their normal thing.

Call me a pig, but I love taking a cock that's just been up some other sluts hole.

[NWUSHorny]

1 minute ago, xxbjn2 said:

Call me a pig, but I love taking a cock that's just been up some other sluts hole.

I love both going from hole to hole, and taking dicks that are going from hole to hole, but group scenes rarely happen locally and when we do it is almost guaranteed that a bottom will reject a dick that is going from hole to hole. Most of them would be horrified at what I do when I travel.

[Alexpdx]

It really is bizarre how uptight the scene is here in Portland. 

[Justaholeff]

8 minutes ago, NWUSHorny said:

I love both going from hole to hole, and taking dicks that are going from hole to hole, but group scenes rarely happen locally and when we do it is almost guaranteed that a bottom will reject a dick that is going from hole to hole. Most of them would be horrified at what I do when I travel.

If I am in the zone and my dick is so hard that I could engrave glass with it, then the "cute lil' bottom" ain't getting fucked if he tells me that I need to wash my dick! I'll move on to a more horny bottom that can read the room and can appreciate a good rutting in his ass and a good group play!

Edited 3 hours ago by Justaholeff

[RotzBBengel]

Sorry, but those bottoms' point totally escapes me. Ain't that supposed to be the fun part of having a bare anonymous group fuck?!? -  having a guy's sloppy, slimy, cummy dick shoved up your ass or down your throat. 

If he really thinks that Top's cock is too dirty for his ass, IMHO he should just lick it clean... 😋

[topblkmale]

 

The local "go wash your dick first'" bottoms don't want to contract HepC and perhaps are aware of some local cases.

I can't blame them.

But they shouldn't be buck naked - ass up at the gay bathhouse during Pride week if that's the concern.

 

[Justaholeff]

16 minutes ago, topblkmale said:

 

The local "go wash your dick first'" bottoms don't want to contract HepC and perhaps are aware of some local cases.

I can't blame them.

But they shouldn't be buck naked - ass up at the gay bathhouse during Pride week if that's the concern.

 

If a top has HepC then how does washing his dick keep it from being spread?

[topblkmale]

21 minutes ago, Justaholeff said:

If a top has HepC then how does washing his dick keep it from being spread?

 

The top doesn't have HepC in this scenario. It's spread from hole to hole via the top's dick.

This was discussed in the HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues Forum where I learned it.

Perhaps the two local bottoms in the OP's post read that thread also.

 

[NWUSHorny]

1 hour ago, Alexpdx said:

It really is bizarre how uptight the scene is here in Portland. 

Any idea how to change it? It has frustrated me for almost 2 decades.

[NWUSHorny]

55 minutes ago, RotzBBengel said:

Sorry, but those bottoms' point totally escapes me. Ain't that supposed to be the fun part of having a bare anonymous group fuck?!? -  having a guy's sloppy, slimy, cummy dick shoved up your ass or down your throat. 

If he really thinks that Top's cock is too dirty for his ass, IMHO he should just lick it clean... 😋

 

55 minutes ago, topblkmale said:

 

The local "go wash your dick first'" bottoms don't want to contract HepC and perhaps are aware of some local cases.

I can't blame them.

But they shouldn't be buck naked - ass up at the gay bathhouse during Pride week if that's the concern.

 

Group sex, at least of the variety that includes switching partners is almost unheard of here. We get a little bit of multiple couples fucking side by side in the same place, but no partner swapping, no spit roasting and definitely no train fucking. I suppose fear of HepC could be a factor, but I'm inclined to think it is more a cultural aversion to fucking than anything else. By just offering their holes in a group setting, those 2 bottoms are further down the road to slutdom than most guys here. They are no doubt used to being slut shamed themselves.

[NWUSHorny]

17 minutes ago, topblkmale said:

 

The top doesn't have HepC in this scenario. It's spread from hole to hole via the top's dick.

This was discussed in the HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues Forum where I learned it.

Perhaps the two local bottoms in the OP's post read that thread also.

 

Both my hole and the bottom from Ft Lauderdale had cum in them so the risk was there. I would be inclined to think the local bottom that the new top tried to switch from to the other local bottom did not, I don't think I've ever seen him take a dozen strokes without tapping out. The bottom that insisted that tops wash there dicks twice is even more rare, he can actually take and seems to enjoy being pounded, I've fucked him a few times and have probably bred him a time or 2. If he lets sluts like me fuck him with a clean dick he is already at risk for HepC.

Edited 1 hour ago by NWUSHorny

[bareback-flipflop]

Neither as a top nor as a bottom I require cock washing (except any accidents). 

While I totally understand the concern about HepC or other STIs, I would suggest to the concerned person to play safe. HepC is infected by blood, so if there is a micro wound on either the hole’s or the dick’s surface a washing the dick is not really a solution. 
Sorry for saying that but if anyone has fears about STIs raw bathroom orgy is not for him. 

Finally, HepC is also a curable disease. It’s expensive and I know that it depends on the insurance in the USA. But in my anyway fuckedup country the social and health insurance pay for it. I know because I am a totally recovered ex-HepC patient. 

[NWUSHorny]

8 minutes ago, bareback-flipflop said:

Neither as a top nor as a bottom I require cock washing (except any accidents). 

While I totally understand the concern about HepC or other STIs, I would suggest to the concerned person to play safe. HepC is infected by blood, so if there is a micro wound on either the hole’s or the dick’s surface a washing the dick is not really a solution. 
Sorry for saying that but if anyone has fears about STIs raw bathroom orgy is not for him. 

Finally, HepC is also a curable disease. It’s expensive and I know that it depends on the insurance in the USA. But in my anyway fuckedup country the social and health insurance pay for it. I know because I am a totally recovered ex-HepC patient. 

Come to think of it, his boyfriend is a total slut and he has no problem watching him get bred by 2 or 3 guys then plunging his dick into the creampie. I think we can rule out the fear of STDs in his case. He has at least partially broken free of the local cultural mores, but for whatever reason couldn't make a full break last night. I didn't fuck or even see his boyfriend last night.