CNC?

[norefusal]

i feel like you guys will get this. 

i just had a buddy come over to fuck and i don't know how to explain it cause if i describe the nuts and bolts of it it sounds like rape but it def wasn't cause i fucking loved every minute of it. if anything i'm surprised how well i could take it 😜

this guy is a 40ish beefy latino str8 guy on DL with a fat uncut cock. we've hooked up a few times and he has gotten a bit rougher each time pushing the boundaries. 

he asked to come over and i readily said yes. i waited on the couch smoking some 420 and chilling in a leather harness, used jock and gym socks. 

he arrived just as the buzz was starting to hit. i offered him some and he started smoking before sitting down so i noticed he was already raging hard under his shorts. i got on my knees, pulled his pants down  and started sucking while he smoked but then he put the pipe down, grabbed my head and really started throat fucking me fast n deep, calling me bitch etc 

recently a buddy referred to me as a throat goat at a sex party but it's all comparative: i'm often disappointed how quickly i gag. but i guess the 420 had me relaxed because not only did i last longer but i could really just be in the moment and enjoy the feeling of getting deep throated. 

eventually  i did gag and came up for air, he immediately said " come'on im gonna fuck you" i bent over the sofa and was surprised that he just shoved the whole fat thing in dry without even spitting on my hole. but what really surprised me was that it didnt hurt even a bit. he just went straight to pounding me hard and i fucking loved it. he pulled out the poppers and would take breaks sliding in slow and soft but then grab my harness and fucking drill me like a wild man. my moans we're loud and gutteral. so different than during a long session. 

i guess he was really pent up cause when he came it went on for a long time with him shouting 4 letter words like one does when the orgasm is super intense. 

other than a few quick pleasantries he was dressed quickly and out the door. and even though i'd been used like cheap rag doll, i was just sittin there panting in ecstasy because it felt great. 🐷

have i reached full fledged pig status? 😈

Edited Saturday at 05:06 PM by norefusal

[viking8x6]

I find your title puzzling. That doesn't sound at all like rape to me, not really even like CNC play. It just sounds like consensual rough sex, enhanced by your lowered inhibitions.

Go you!

[bbslutdanny]

HOT!

[topblkmale]

What is CNC?

I’ve heard of bi/DL but str8 guy on DL seems like an oxymoron. 
 

[blackrobe]

2 minutes ago, topblkmale said:

What is CNC?

Consensual Non-Consent.

[topblkmale]

4 minutes ago, blackrobe said:

Consensual Non-Consent.

Another oxymoron. 

🤷🏾‍♂️

[Hungryforbbc]

I also love the sexual excitement of being dominated and playing out a scene where I am powerless and have to surrender to my top and he knows what to say and how to be aggressive dominant and take it from me without any serious pain and within the limits of “consent” where I can a safe word at any point but won’t want to and there was no safe word but it doesn’t matter because I wouldn’t say it anyway lol 

I was just talking about this with the amazing black guy who bred me Thursday. He’s all top now but he said he did have a bottom phase and ended up getting “broken” by a top when he was younger and how that experience taught him how to top like a true stud and helped him understand the psychological aspects of gay sex especially the dom/sub dynamic.  he said that also learned that while he didn’t generally enjoy bottoming he will always be that  one top’s bottom. He’s a total top otherwise and seems to be exactly my type so hopefully it’ll become a regular thing 🙂

he told me about when he got broken and it was very similar to my experience being turned into a total bottom for black men- the top slapped him hard and made him submit- telling him that he wouldn’t hurt him unless he fought, ran or tried to resist. He said it was an incredible experience but also realized that it wasn’t his destiny but instead an opportunity to learn and become an exceptional top which i can attest that he certainly is now cause he turned this pussy out in the best possible way.

happy to discuss this further as I have always loved being totally owned and have only found a handful of tops who can actually deliver the experience im looking for- call me bitch spit in my face and mouth, make me take it all deep hard and rough make me whimper & beg and make me know who’s in charge. If you can do that I will be happy to do as you say and you can pretty much do whatever you want with and to me 

[Sfmike64]

9 hours ago, norefusal said:

 

i guess he was really pent up cause when he came it went on for a long time with him shouting 4 letter words like one does when the orgasm is super intense. 🐷

have i reached full fledged pig status? 😈

If he called you PUTA (Mexican slang for WHORE) then you know you were doing a good job!

[Sfmike64]

5 hours ago, topblkmale said:

Another oxymoron. 

🤷🏾‍♂️

It's a way of saying "rape play" without saying "rape."

Because lots of people (mostly women people) don't like using the word rape. For very very good reasons.

[BarebackedBear]

5 hours ago, blackrobe said:

Consensual Non-Consent.

Which, as hot as this encounter was, isn't what I would call it (as someone who has engaged in such).

And the only reason I say that is because if people think run of the mill rough sex is CNC, and then hook up with someone who will engage in the actual act, it can create some unfortunate situations.

[norefusal]

oh gays and their obsessive classifications lol

im neither surprised by the "no, CNC is a very specific rollplay exercise with strict rules" responses that read more like "if it's not from the Champagne region of France, all you had was cheap bubbly wine dear" 😜

nor the "that's just generic gay sex honey" from people who have been so conditioned to normalize trauma that this forum often reads like "so i was fucked by my father at 6 years old, as we all were" 🤣

even bdsm sessions come w a certain amount of pre-negotiation 

i've seen guys who like rough sex put right up front in their bio "like to fuck dry no lube not even spit" 

so what do you label it when there's no pre- consent or agreement but you're just lucky that you were in the mood for it? cause i've been having rough sex for a long time and this wasn't generic rough sex. i was there. 

Edited 4 hours ago by norefusal