What do you feel when you're called "faggot" by a top?

[verbalBTTM]

1 hour ago, Spermchute said:

Topmen- Superior

bottom- faggot 

100% correct sir

[RandyCubby]

Being called that -- or whore, slut or pig -- makes my nipples hard enough to cut glass. 

[swytch360]

Reminds me my purpose is to serve real men

[spun4daddydick]

it suddenly brings it home, that i am a submissive slut and the man calling me a faggot has complete control of his sex and of me

[Letmeworshipit]

6 hours ago, Knightfalconer said:

I'm probably in the minority here, but even as someone with many years of experience playing both Dom and Sub roles (on the BDSM fetish scene), to me, its a negative / derogatory word designed to upset and insult.

I'm gay, but will also tolerate the clinical / old fashioned term - homosexual, but not faggot; pussy; fairy; queer; pansy; cunt or similar perjorative terminology.

I would not play with anyone that referred to me that way, or vice versa. There are plenty of other ways to refer to your playmate when you are in the dom role.

I tend to concur. Call me a cocksucker any time. But both the N word and the F word are demeaning, derogatory and unnecessary. On the other hand, if both parties are comfortable with it, have at it. It's all part of role play which has to be a mutual decision.

[BreedingTop71]

A) to those who find an objection…. It is a word. We took the word QUEER and turn led into a positive. You empower haters when you get upset. 
B) There are MANY bottoms (and sometimes tops) who ARE faggots. it’s a state of mind, not an insult. 
C) I, for one am NOT attracted to bottoms, only to faggots. I’m a DOM and I breed. I will tell my bitch what to do so he can pull out the cum out of me with the maximum pleasure FOR ME. Period. 
D) you cannot claim you’re in bondage if you object to that and other terms during sex. If you do, I hope AT LEAST your hole is as tight as your mind, otherwise you cannot really offer anything to a Dom. 

[NWUSHorny]

I have 0 issues with being called a faggot when I'm having sex with another man, regardless of whether I'm topping or bottoming.

How do bottoms feel when the top asks them if they want fucked by a faggot? It is something I like to ask if I've lubed the bottom up with cum out of my hole. I typically go with something like, "do you want me to lube you up and fuck you with the cum from my faggot hole, before I breed you with my faggot dick?" I haven't gotten any no answers to date, but I've always done it at either fuck clubs or orgies to total sluts, occasionally even to guys who provided some of the cum I'm lubing them up with.

[dargo]

3 hours ago, BreedingTop71 said:

C) I, for one am NOT attracted to bottoms, only to faggots. I’m a DOM and I breed. I will tell my bitch what to do so he can pull out the cum out of me with the maximum pleasure FOR ME. Period. 

Fuck this is hot. Wish I had a dom in my life like this. 

[BreedingTop71]

1 hour ago, dargo said:

Fuck this is hot. Wish I had a dom in my life 

Edited December 12, 2025 by BreedingTop71
Nice of you to say

[Sfmike64]

19 hours ago, Knightfalconer said:

I'm probably in the minority here, but even as someone with many years of experience playing both Dom and Sub roles (on the BDSM fetish scene), to me, its a negative / derogatory word designed to upset and insult.

I'm gay, but will also tolerate the clinical / old fashioned term - homosexual, but not faggot; pussy; fairy; queer; pansy; cunt or similar perjorative terminology.

I would not play with anyone that referred to me that way, or vice versa. There are plenty of other ways to refer to your playmate when you are in the dom role.

Interesting. I’m the opposite. If someone called me a ‘homosexual’ it would be a huge turn off. People are weirdly complex. 🤣

[TaKinGDeePanal]

The only things I don't like being called are things that demean my intelligence.

[Knightfalconer]

14 hours ago, BreedingTop71 said:

A) to those who find an objection…. It is a word. We took the word QUEER and turn led into a positive. You empower haters when you get upset. 

Yes its a word but words are an expression of emotions, sometimes intended to harm and we can't all have the skin of a rhino.

Some words are too often used in a negative context, reflecting real anger; hatred; vitriol and a desire to scare; hurt; even kill!

We should all be aware of the power of words.

[think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hzgzim5m7oU

 

Edited December 12, 2025 by Knightfalconer
Corrections

[londaybaaz]

On 12/11/2025 at 3:36 PM, Knightfalconer said:

as someone with many years of experience playing both Dom and Sub roles (on the BDSM fetish scene), to me, its a negative / derogatory word

As u play dom's role too, u r not qualified enough to relate yourself with feelings associated with the word. 

[Knightfalconer]

3 minutes ago, londaybaaz said:

As u play dom's role too, u r not qualified enough to relate yourself with feelings associated with the word. 

What right have you to say whether I am 'qualified' or not?

[londaybaaz]

3 minutes ago, Knightfalconer said:

What right have you to say whether I am 'qualified' or not?

👌  You have a lot of ego and anger. A person who just sucks cocks only may not afford to be like that. It is because of your other role