Do you feel the cum when you're bred? How is it afterward?

[NWUSHorny]

If he sprays directly on your prostate you will feel it, you may also feel him pulsating. I can't say that I've ever felt like a guy was filling me up with cum, but if it is a big load you can often tell that you have cum in you.

[Pozguyinchi]

It is rare but sometimes I feel him pulsating.  It is also hit or miss if it leaks out. A real bottom craves the load. I honestly think it’s a hormonal reaction or something but that’s a different topic. If you just want to get fucked to feel what it’s like you are probably not bottom. 

[PozToxVersPig]

I feel it a lot of times, but definitely not always.  I think it depends on whether or not I've already been loaded/fucked prior and where we are at in the line-up (if there is one).  If it's the first guy and it's been a few hours since I've gotten a load, I'll most likely feel it.

My entire family tree has a generations old genetic quirk which causes hyperthermia in the men (ongoing elevated body temperature).  So most of the time, cum and piss feel cool to me within my hole, not warm.  So as soon as I feel any type of coolness spray my hole, that's the cumload.  You can feel the puling of the guys dick too, assuming your hole isn't wrecked.

My experience at least.  I think that @Pozguyinchiis spot on that it's totally a hormonal thing too - I definitely get that no matter what...which is also why I bat people away if they try to get eat the load out of my ass too soon.

[curiouslooker]

Nothing is more enjoyable than feeling a cock pulsate cum inside you. Mmmm

[norefusal]

On 10/3/2025 at 11:30 AM, anon11 said:

Sometimes I think about trying, but I don't know if I'll regret it, I never bottomed or have sex with anyone (I'm 22 yo). I don't think I'll do it. Just to know, how is it to be bred? Would I feel the cum fill my ass? Or just him stop fucking and pulsating? How is it afterward? How does it feel to keep cum in the ass? Or to push it out?

Also, does it feel good to get fucked? Did you feel weird if you did it the first time with someone older on Grindr?

to me the most important thing to remember is being aware of what you can and can not control.

the most important being: do i really want this? i was more like 27 and very attracted to the guy who spent time talking to me and then fooling around for a long time so by the time we got to it I was very ready willing and able. if you rush to just do it right away w just anybody you're pretty much setting yourself up for a "a don't think it's for me." situation. 

when i was younger i bottomed more like a top in the sense that my primary motivation was how getting fucked improved my orgasm. when i got older i learned to focus more on the actual pleasurable sensations of getting fucked and enjoying that rather than just focusing on if i cum or not. it's like a whole different thing. 

i mention this in part because being present and focusing on the moment also highlights how every top cums differently. some guys you can actually feel the cum hosing down your insides. other guys you can feel the cock pulsating inside you as he pump out the load. some guys are verbal, some guys are showy, some guys just breath a bit heavier and some guys stealth. 

likewise you body reacts differently. sometimes it trickles out n down your leg. sometimes your body expels it either in a wet fart or cramps that send u to the bathroom. sometimes it comes out the next day w your morning dump and sometimes your badly absorbs most of it.