Tips for Seducing a Str8, Married Neighbor

[bihubby]

If i was your neighbor id make it a quiet flirt every chat,, to have a side peice nextdoor,, fuck yes.

[BlueSaphir]

Keep chatting with him with casual everyday topic of interest. LET him make the move. And when he does, all ways arranged on his availability when he knows it the time to do it. 
 

Thats my experience of dealing with some married men in my conservative town. Always be on their availability and respect their terms and boundaries. 

[Guest dpa]

He knows you’re gay and seemingly has no problem with it.  As others have suggested, just keep being nice.  I’ve not had a straight neighbor as a sidepiece but I have had someone’s straight neighbor as a sidepiece.  I think that’s because distance is safer for them.  But, like I said, he knows you’re gay and is comfortable with you.  If he has any questions, as straight guys often do, answer them honestly.  Who knows, he may say he’s always wondered what head from another man is like.  And that will be your “in”.

[MaleLicker69]

If this neighbor of your is married he could be little curious of m2m action but you wouldn't to risk on having his wife know anything about it maybe take it slow talk to him and see what happens next

[phillygwm]

On 12/6/2025 at 8:10 PM, atlfukbud said:

Of course, but then there’s have your cake and eat it too, right — I don’t think our current relationship will wane as long as there is good communication. 

I think a little subtlety could work best here.  Make a half joking comment when he's looking particularly hot (Damn...looking good!  If you were into guys I'd do unspeakable things to you hahaha).  You don't want to come across as completely serious because if he ISN'T interested, he may mention it to his wife, neighbors, etc. and your rep is shot.  This way, you have plausible deniability.

[atlfukbud]

On 1/31/2026 at 9:35 PM, phillygwm said:

I think a little subtlety could work best here.  Make a half joking comment when he's looking particularly hot (Damn...looking good!  If you were into guys I'd do unspeakable things to you hahaha).  You don't want to come across as completely serious because if he ISN'T interested, he may mention it to his wife, neighbors, etc. and your rep is shot.  This way, you have plausible deniability.

Great suggestion! I made a comment to him this morning the he was "looking fierce, and must be spending all of his free time at the gym" — he acknowledged he was working hard on his body (I noted it definitely showed and I was feeling a little dad-body-ish compared to him) —to which he suggested we should work out (at his gym) together sometime — he’d be happy for the company and accountability. I will definitely be heading to the gym with him, if he is serious! Hopefully the sauna after a hard work out?? — but keeping it all in check! Slow and steady...

[hntnhole]

Methinks I smell a neighbor about to be artfully seduced 😁