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Re: inviting guys you cumdump for to also slip a hand in:

Let’s see what others say, but I’d advise against it. Fist topping is a skill, and if the guy fisting you doesn’t know what he’s doing, you could get hurt. 

For starters, it’s unlikely that a guy who came to breed you has clean, trimmed fingernails. So that’s a problem from the get-go. Even with gloves, you can feel untrimmed nails. 

If fisting isn’t his thing, then his teacher is likely porn, and fisting porn often showcases terrible technique. Too hard, too fast. Save getting fisted for guys who know what they’re doing.

If you know your breeder is also an experienced fister, that’s different. I love fisting my cum deep into a guy, and I’m sometimes a cameraman/doorman for a cumdump friend and after every few loads I fist it in. 

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On 12/27/2025 at 3:13 AM, BritishCumdump said:

…but I have some regular fisters who know just how to use me, this challenge is about getting out there and meeting a lot more people and getting my hole destroyed 🥵

That suggests another goal. A list of guys (a subset of your regulars) who you want to get fisted by at least 10 times in the year. 

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2 hours ago, NYCBill said:

Re: inviting guys you cumdump for to also slip a hand in:

Let’s see what others say, but I’d advise against it. Fist topping is a skill, and if the guy fisting you doesn’t know what he’s doing, you could get hurt. 

For starters, it’s unlikely that a guy who came to breed you has clean, trimmed fingernails. So that’s a problem from the get-go. Even with gloves, you can feel untrimmed nails. 

If fisting isn’t his thing, then his teacher is likely porn, and fisting porn often showcases terrible technique. Too hard, too fast. Save getting fisted for guys who know what they’re doing.

If you know your breeder is also an experienced fister, that’s different. I love fisting my cum deep into a guy, and I’m sometimes a cameraman/doorman for a cumdump friend and after every few loads I fist it in. 

I fully agree with your comments on the top’s skills. 
Many people think that fisting is equal with pushing his fist inside. As an experienced fistee I can immediately feel if a fister is lame. Then I stop him immediately. 
But an unexperienced  fistee, especially if he’s high won’t recognise this. Even if this top doesn’t cause any injury it can be a bad experience which destroys the mood. 
So the fisters must play with huge responsibility and beginner fistees must be careful and find fisters whose skills are acknowledged or confirmed. 

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On 1/4/2026 at 2:10 PM, NYCBill said:

Seconding the comment that ff parties are where you go for quantity, and a great way to meet new guys for future play at parties or elsewhere. For documentation, I keep a folded strip of paper and a pen in my sock, and log the name, social handle or other contact info if they’re new to me, and what we did (fist, fuck, oral, jack, make out, etc.). I then transfer that to a simple list in the notes app in my phone, a sample of which might look as follows:

1/3 Manhole party: Nick F OBC Carl F JB O Julio MO O F Fu/Br…

Abbreviate as you like. This tells me Nick I fisted and I gave oral (OB = oral bottom) to completion. Carl I fisted and jacked and he sucked me. Julio we made out, he sucked me, I fisted him, and I fucked and bred him. 
 

I put an asterisk next to the name if they’re new to me. 
 

I also had business cards printed up with my social handles and contact info. If there’s a guy I want to see again, I show it to him and slip it in his sock. That works well since most guys at the parties don’t carry anything to write with. 

Lucky Julio

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A good fisting top..listens and watches his pig for his cues to explore deeper and with more fingers. Good lube and hitting that prostrate to intensify the rush always gets a pig to open up. Progress should be slow, sleazy and careful. It’s intensely hot for both. 

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On 1/4/2026 at 2:32 PM, NYCBill said:

Re: inviting guys you cumdump for to also slip a hand in:

Let’s see what others say, but I’d advise against it. Fist topping is a skill, and if the guy fisting you doesn’t know what he’s doing, you could get hurt. 

For starters, it’s unlikely that a guy who came to breed you has clean, trimmed fingernails. So that’s a problem from the get-go. Even with gloves, you can feel untrimmed nails. 

If fisting isn’t his thing, then his teacher is likely porn, and fisting porn often showcases terrible technique. Too hard, too fast. Save getting fisted for guys who know what they’re doing.

If you know your breeder is also an experienced fister, that’s different. I love fisting my cum deep into a guy, and I’m sometimes a cameraman/doorman for a cumdump friend and after every few loads I fist it in. 

You're totally right. I'm vetting the guys meeting me to make sure they've got experience of ff and have trimmed their fingernails first. If they haven't then I'm just telling them to breed me. One of them so far was not great at it, did the whole "put fingers in and shake them around" thing that does nothing except make my hole close up. But with some instruction he managed to get it in and give me a pretty good stretching. 

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3 hours ago, BritishCumdump said:

You're totally right. I'm vetting the guys meeting me to make sure they've got experience of ff and have trimmed their fingernails first. If they haven't then I'm just telling them to breed me. One of them so far was not great at it, did the whole "put fingers in and shake them around" thing that does nothing except make my hole close up. But with some instruction he managed to get it in and give me a pretty good stretching. 

Yeah, I'm gonna second this. A breeding/fucking top isn't necessarily set up/ready/experienced at fisting. People can learn, but it's best to plan that in advance and not just wing it. 

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Unless you are planning to hit some multi-day high use events like Fist Fest or Rose Bowl you will find it challenging to get that many fists on solo play dates. As a fisintg bototm you have to do a good deep clean, so obtaining good numbers of fisting partners is easier in fisting party settings. You will also need to work on your endurance for use. Getting fucked and bred by a line of guys at a sex club or CumUnion is vastly different from getting fisted. For one, fisting sessions last longer than breeding sessions and even as super loose as I am, they are more physically demanding. But in the time it takes to experience one fisting session--even a short one of 15 minutes--you can be bred by half dozen guys in that same time span. Reaching 100 fisting partners is achievable--I have 400-plus partners a year, but I go to a lot of high use events like Fist Fest and Pig Week, which helps drive numbers easily since there are multiple guys wanting to use me and tehr are fist pig challenges there like Puch, Punch Pass, where the bottom is on a giant lazy Susan and passed around by a group of guys, usually 8 -10, until he taps out. This is a good moment to mention you should learn to top since your hole will need a break after a few partners so you might as well top until you are ready to have a  hand shoved up you some more. After care in those environments is also going to be important to help everything recover. I usually used a packet product called Butt Balm for fisters as well as 500mg of naproxen (Aleve, Naprosyn) to help with the inflammation from so much use. I would also recommend getting on a fisting social site like asspig where you can meet other fisters and read their certifications and know their hand size before you play. Starting out, you will likely want guys with small and medium hands and go from  there as you get looser. Also, as far as enhancements go: stick to nitrate based, brown bottle poppers (and don't use Viagra type drugs as it can lower the blood pressure to unsafe levels). Ethyl chloride (Maximum Impact type spray inhalants) are banned at fisting events like Fist Fest due to the number of deaths associated with their use.

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