Anyone else having trouble convincing guys to just use spit for lube?

[NWUSHorny]

Over the last 10 years or so I've figured out I prefer getting fucked and fucking without artificial lube. While I will defer to a bottoms wishes if the proved the lube, or if he has prelubed his hole I don't really have a choice, but if I'm bottoming I don't carry lube and actively try to talk tops out of putting anything artificial in my hole. As usual last night, I had a guy that didn't want to fuck me without slathering up his dick and my hole with an artificial substance even though I was wide open and had cum from a previous fuck dripping out of me. To his credit, I did talk him into going in with just spit and he did breed me, but a lot of them won't even try.  He was an older guy and definitely above average in size, but I easily took him, and he even commented on how wet I was.

For the record my hole self lubes when I'm horny, and I'm uncut, both of which make me prefer the spit shove approach to fucking.

[barefucker44]

I use Cope spit as lube always.  

[S2S]

I prefer just spit for lube.

[S2S]

Nothing but my unprotected hole and raw cock. 

[barefucker44]

Just now, S2S said:

I prefer just spit for lube.

Works every time

[Guy4GuyCOS]

I too prefer just spit as lube.

[Spider54]

No issues here just make sure your oral game is 10/10 you can make anything happen. 

[norefusal]

no. 

but it's also just a preference not a requirement for me. 

i use spit a lot mostly because i frequent cruising spots and sex in "inappropriate places" and most people don't carry lube on them at all times. 

but sex at home sometimes also uses spit but if the guys wants lube i'm ok w it. i'd rather fuck w lube than not fuck at all. 

which is my real complaint: wtf is up w guys who have to have everything just so or they can't fuck? smh 

[NWUSHorny]

3 hours ago, norefusal said:

but it's also just a preference not a requirement for me. 

i use spit a lot mostly because i frequent cruising spots and sex in "inappropriate places" and most people don't carry lube on them at all times. 

Same here, I simply don't carry it, and will let them use it if they have it, with some limitations on quantity. I don't want my hole packed so full of lube that we don't get any friction and I will have to douche to get rid of it before the next fuck, or fuck a hole that is so packed with lube that I can't get any friction. What I don't get is the ones that won't even try unless you provide them artificial lube. 

 

3 hours ago, norefusal said:

which is my real complaint: wtf is up w guys who have to have everything just so or they can't fuck? smh

That's a different and unfortunately even more common problem. There are a lot of guys that carry lube that only jack off or do frottage here, that hookup with me and then get offended at the mere suggestion of penetration.

[blackrobe]

1 hour ago, NWUSHorny said:

Same here, I simply don't carry it, and will let them use it if they have it, with some limitations on quantity. I don't want my hole packed so full of lube that we don't get any friction and I will have to douche to get rid of it before the next fuck, or fuck a hole that is so packed with lube that I can't get any friction. What I don't get is the ones that won't even try unless you provide them artificial lube. 

I get what you're saying, but I think there are some things to consider:

1. Every bottom has a different microbiome with a different level of natural slipperiness.
2. If a bottom is tight, lube is helpful to allow penetration.
3. If a bottom is taking a lot of dick that day, some lube is helpful/required to minimize irritation and maximize dicks taken over time.  
4. If a bottom has taken many loads and lots of fucking, the cum can get into a state where it isn't making penetration easier. 
5. Tops that produce large quantities of precum can avoid the need for lubricants, but in my experience this is relatively rare.

Cleaning out removes a lot of the natural slipperiness so using a little good water based lube that restores it but isn't that slippery for that long helps a lot. Then it only takes a little silicone lube on the hole to clear the way. This isn't needed if the breeder is a precummer like a couple of my regulars are. 

I carry my water-based prep lube and silicone lube just in case.

[hexfet]

Usually if I get a few good thrusts deep into your throat, things are pretty slippery and make for a good start :))).  Of course everyone is different and a little silicone works wonders sometimes after that. 

[fuzzybttm]

5 hours ago, hexfet said:

Usually if I get a few good thrusts deep into your throat, things are pretty slippery and make for a good start :)))

Speaking as a bottom with a very hairy ass, including right up to the edge of my hole, I simply cannot be dry-fucked or fucked with just a bit of spit.  The hair absorbs the moisture of the spit, and they literally drag and get snared and it's SUPER uncomfortable without some lubrication.

That said, if (1) a top is REALLY willing to put in the work and eat out my hole (not just a minute or 2, he's gotta love eating ass) and truly get everything slathered, or (2) if a top throat fucks me so that it's me getting his cock all coated in throat slime, I'm down for lubeless fun.  So I agree with this post, some throat fucking goes a long way.

 

[jmw003]

I've only ever been fucked once with spit as lube and it was completely spur of the moment. It felt fine but he only fucked me for a couple of minutes before he came. I'm not sure how it would be for a longer session.